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... well it is, if you offer your CERB ID as verification to get around identifying your more personal details and there is little or no posting history! A recent thread by VictoriaJolie about posting history being one tool providers use to get to know a client inspired this post, and since this one is more general in nature, I've decided to post it here. As a client, we usually know much more about the lady we are planning to see, until we make an actual booking and provide the information she requires in consideration of our request to see her. I am in amazement of the effort and diligence most, and especially the well-respected, SPs/MAs go through in screening and verification. With a modicum of information and references, they must decide if they will grant your request for a meeting, based on a myriad of factors and a 'gut feel' about you, the person, never having met prior, and not knowing too much else besides these few bits that they ask for in their ads or on their websites. I believe that the majority of clients on the board are sophisticated and wise to the ways of treating the ladies with respect, having read widely among the various forums, but there are some bad apples out there. How is a provider to know from whom she is getting an inquiry or booking? You will fare much better if you give her signs and assurances of your good intentions early on and by playing by her rules. Don't forget, she is sharing her most intimate self with an almost complete stranger and is entrusting you to do your part in that bargain. We both want the same things, but providers, beyond needing to feel safe, of course want that encounter to be in an environment where they themselves are comfortable to give you the best time of all - and so you should care, too. Contacting a lady for a booking and showing with every action and word (rudeness, brashness, ignorance, laziness, etc.) that you haven't bothered to check her website or ad post is the first red flag to the lady that there may be things she doesn't know that would worry her if she did, and this puts her on guard with you right from the start - generally not the best way to initiate a dialogue. Taking care to consider all the points of etiquette and following her preferred method of setting up an appointment will make the lady's life much easier and will assure her that you take her concerns for safety and peace of mind to heart. It will be like magically becoming a lottery winner ;-), meaning that she will appreciate when you meet that you had already established yourself from the start as a respectful and diligent client worthy of her time. I know it is not everyone's wish or goal to become an active and prolific poster, but it does help the ladies get a glimpse of the person behind a handle. Having no posts doesn't. Just think of the ways in which you select the lady of your choice - maybe by her beautifully written ad, her many glowing recommendations by other clients, her gorgeous photo album, or the well-crafted website that she spent so much time building. There are other ways to distinguish yourself and get a good or even high standing besides that, of course. Which route you choose to take is yours to decide ... but giving her the comfort level about you - in one way or another, making her feel like you respect her wishes and her need to feel safe and at ease, will put you miles ahead right from the start. And that is likely to reap significant good will on her part and generally, IMHO, yield to better client-provider relations! Pun absolutely intended! ;) A #nobrainer? I think so! :D FR P.S. Apologies for the intial 2-paragraph ramble. It's mostly all been said before in different ways, but it helps to refresh this from time to time in the 'New to this?' forum.

If you found out that someone you were involved with had been a veterinarian, would it affect your relationship? A dentist? A physicist? No? So why would another occupation she might have had bother you? Think seriously about this. Tease out exactly what it is that you're hung up on, don't just settle for a sense of vague, undefined discomfort. If it's "she'd have slept with a lot of guys other than me", this could be equally true of any partner you meet. But it doesn't matter, because those events were in the past. You just need to worry about your relationship, in the present. If her past experience really bothers you now, then you're sexually insecure. The problem isn't her; it's you. If it's "she was intimate with men and took money for it", then you need to examine your attitude toward the women whose company you (presumably) pay for from time to time. There's nothing wrong with the work an SP does, and she's not cheapened by having done it. If you can't accept that, please stop seeing SPs. Me? Frankly I would admire the implied sexual maturity and her comfort with her sexual self, and 'd be happy for what she might be able to teach me because her experience would be far vaster than my own. If she was willing to share I'd love to hear her stories, because she'd have learned many, many, many first-hand lessons about human behaviour I'll likely never be in a position to learn myself. But mostly I wouldn't really care, because I'd be dating a whole person, all of her, as she is today, and as she wants to be tomorrow; and there's infinitely more to know and love and care about her than how she once chose (or chooses) to make her living. I'll leave aside the "but what if you'd seen her as an SP first?" because that falls into the same old "I've fallen in love with my SP!" discussion for the gazillionth time, and Search can provide all the insight you need.

I was working out in the gym when i spotted Katrine C. She was a sweet yound thing... I asked the trainer that was near-by '' What machine should i use to impress Katrine standing over there ?'' The trainner looked at me up and down and said '' Try the ATM in the lobby '' LOOOOOOOL :) A friend sent me this to make me laught :) i still cant believe how good it is ahahah wanted to share have a great weekend all xox katrine C.

I think it is an option available on CERB: only visible to those who are your CERB friends. It is worth repeating: was is on the Internet is out there forever. Best, toine

Sorry to hear about what happened Sophia, I hope the doctors get you all patched up and you feel better soon :)

Context is important :)

I'd just like to say that that was a really unfortunate place for a line-break :)

I though that most knew but i came the conclusion that not all know what it mean. I personally give severals options of booking..one is to provide your handle if you have a posting history instead of full name..To my surprise over 6people this week no posts choose that option which i had to tell them that need to have an history to be acceptable as screening information i accept. It mean you have to have made some post on the board,reviews...Long good standing member VJ

Or, possibly, that some people just can't follow instructions :) +1. It works the other way, too, of course. I've been to see people on the strength of liking their posts here and thinking I'd like to meet them.

First, let me say thank you to my dear clients who have recently added to my reviews. Your words are appreciated. I am available to those who expect nothing less than superior service Untill 11pm tonight ASK about specials !! OR suggest one :wink: Gentlemen, hello! It has been a while since I have made a NEW post and I would like to re-introduce myself. I'm Robyn. I'm in my twenties, very pretty,intelligent and poised. At 5'0", and a natural 30 D, I've been described as curvy, with sun kissed skin that is sooooo soft. I am currently not in school but plan on enrolling in the fall. When i'm not working or on a sensual adventure, I love to take trips and try new food. I've been told by friends that I have unusual tastes for a girl my age because I'm not fond of partying with my peers and adore the company of older men. I've got a high libido and just love touching, kissing and connecting. I enjoy receiving massages as well! Massage is a secret and special part of my life as it allows me to express my sensual side while not requiring the time and commitment of a full-time job, allowing me to travel and enjoy my youth. The rewards in this hobby have not just been profitable. I have to say I love the attention from appreciative men and the satisfaction of knowing that I have pleased you and made your day just a little bit happier. I honestly can't think of another gig where one can have so much fun! That being said, I feel that I have to hold myself to a high standard and although I am not a SP, I offer a playful session that will relax and pleasure you. There, its all on the line. Now that you know so much about me, I hope to be lucky enough to get to know you. Just a note: My focus is on FBSM and I don't offer FS . Recomendations are always appreciated, but not always necessary. Looking forward to showing you what makes me stand out in the crowd. Hope to hear from you soon! xoxo, Robyn. Photo's: ttp://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=5020 Reco's: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=82591&page=2 [email protected] Book Your Playtime Today..Erotic dance show and strip tease Available xoxo Robyn xoxo Schedule (Call or PM for location) mon-4-11 tues-4-11 wed-4-11 thurs-4-11 sun-10-11 PACKAGES AND FEE'S Add the Door fee's to package rates please #1: 60$ I keep my clothes on Full body relaxaton massage #2: 80$ Topless session (I keep my panties on) Full body relaxation massage #3: 100$ Full nude session (In my birthday siut) Half session relaxation massage Body slide GFE (ask me some details) Private Shower / full session shower Reverse Massage

Chiming in here again. When you get involved with a person it is because you love her/him for her/himself. While yes, this person will be your sexual partner, she/he is supposed to be much more than just a sexual partner...to put it in corny terms, she/he is your life partner, she sharing all aspects of your life, and you sharing all aspects of her life As for the question about all the sexual partners an SP has by virtue of her profession, remember, the same can be said of hobbiest's and all their sexual partners they have/had by virtue of partaking in this lifestyle...no one is a virgin here A quick rambling for whatever it's worth RG

Oh yeah. I forgot to add mucous to the list of good stuff. Thanks!:icon_eek:

I like RG, cause he is firm...yet gentle, lol....love your on line personality! A person whom I think would be great to chat with in person. I only imagine the kindest eyes.

I would invest,buy a massive house(with in indoor pool lol) travel the world, and of course share the wealth with my family. I would also donate money to a certain research foundation that has impacted me in many ways

Honestly I believe Transsexual shouldn't be in the GLBT circle it should just be GLB since I was born in the wrong body not my sexual preference, I believe it's miscategorized.

I agree. As a leg man, I find sexy, sheer stockings almost irresistible. For some reason though, fishnets just don't have the same appeal for me.

I would definitely take a trip up to space....can you imagine??!

I noticed today there were nine consecutive single photo albums posted by one SP with photos that have been up before. Posting in this manner is obviously a way of putting up an ad, and I think there are already a number of local forums for the SP's to advertise. Photos with an effective narrative have a very real place in promoting a lady but I wouldn't like to see this section become the primary advertising venue.

When I meet a man who I think I may be interested in dating, I pretty much out myself right away so that I don't waste his or my time. If I don't think it's going to go anywhere, I may or may not, not because I'm ashamed of what I do, but rather, I am tired of having those talks where I feel I need to defend the profession. Some guys who I was sure would have a problem with what I do, actually turned out to be cool with it and my best supporters. As Juliana said, you fall in love with the person - who they are, not what they do. At the end of the day, if we have our heads together, we can simply remind ourselves, this is our livelihood and if there are others who don't approve, but I'm okay with what I do, then that's "their" problem, not mine.

Absolutely. I have met some pretty darn amazing SP's ! Vibrant and intelligent ladies that love life, love to have fun, meet new people, travel and see the country or countries, and so happen to love sex :) It seriously would not matter to me. Just my opinion but I think an SP would really know how important and understand better what "a connection" is and how important it is to any relationship. Also a couple ladies that I meet with are educated accountants and when they become ex-SP's and I date them they can do my taxes....because once again yesterday the government told me that I suck it doing it myself ;) Cheers :chug:

Saw Jessie today for the first time at Paradise Spa. It was the first time I went to their west end location and had a hell of a time finding it, apparently the city changed names for some of the streets and my GPS had me going someplace else. The lady at the front desk was extremely helpful guiding me into the location over the phone. Once I plugged their old address into my machine it was easy sailing Once there I was led to the room by the receptionist and proceeded to take a shower before getting into the hot tub. Just as I was getting out of the shower - in walks Jessie. The images on cerb do not do her justice at all, she is at least 25x more attractive in the flesh. She has a wonderful personality that made for incredibly enjoyable conversation and time in the tub, so much so that we ended up spending most of the hour in there. Once out, she had me hop onto the massage table for fantastic massage and excellent happy ending. It was the best connection I've ever had with an MA and plan on seeing her again -- many times over. Treat her well guys!

The person I love most is an SP. <3 <3 Oh wait, that's me. ;)

My husband chose to get involved with, even marry me. His sisters have asked him if the way his mother way caused him to take up with me. His mother was a widow with eight kids to feed when her husband died. She was a young widow. Men would sometimes show up at her door after the bar closed and want in. She'd let them in. The next day there was money for things there weren't the day before. Is that somehow wrong??? She could pick crops in the field. She could take care of other people's kids. She could scrub other people's floors. And all that was honourable?? But not taking in men after closing who were ready to pay cash?? I'm not saying that every woman who gets involved with a man is exploited. But believe me, we're not all. In my case, I live with a man who, because of his mother, respects me. We accept my job as a job (although a very pleasant one) My advice is to assume that every professional you meet is a professional, If she proves not to be, then you have your decision as to what to do about that.

If the gentleman in question was really THAT intent on getting off again, he should have done the honorable thing by asking if it would be possible to extend your time together by way of additional compensation for your time, and only if it didn't inconvenience yourself.

I think when you truly fall in love with someone, you fall in love with THEM as they are. I don't see how certain behavior, especially something that is sexual in nature, should change my opinion of someone I am in love with. Society puts a lot of heaviness on sex, and in all honesty it is something fun and beautiful that is completely human nature. I'm not here to judge how anybody else thinks or believes, I just think people in general need to loosen up a little bit, and smell the roses. Men and women like variety, clearly or else why are we all here? If everyone would come together and be honest with each other, imagine all of the beautiful open sex we could all have, and how much happier and more connected we could all be... Joke. Maybe that's what happens in heaven and that's why we're all naked :icon_lol:

I have just been a Cerb member for a few days. After reading several posts, I can honestly say: I like Mrrnice2 because: - He is thoughtful and respectful of others. Understanding that any topic or way of life has many sides. - Engaging and appreciative of feedback. Never delivering just a monologue, but encourages dialogue. A community builder in the truest sense. - Honest critiques of his own perceptions. Mrrnice2 you are obviously very aware of your own inner dialogue. Thought-provoking to read.Thank you. Sincerely, PatrickGC

I like Malika because - well, let me count the ways. - Since I arrived on Cerb, she was one of the ones that I have spent some time with in chat. - She will always be, regardless of how she changes it all the time, my "Little red haired girl." - We visited in person twice at Ottawa socials, and she tried to give me a boobies video gift on my birthday, but I am technologically incompetent :) - We did have a tentative date in Halifax that had to be cancelled, maybe postponed, and I was going to take her to and show her Peggys Cove. - I love her tattoos and her special meanings behind many of them. - She and I have some mutual amazing friends. - And I love her far out posts on the Unhijackable Thread of Randomness!

For me lately too.. it's floating in my kiddy pool on a hot day. I love the sunshine!

Lot's of great thoughts in PatrickGC's post, but I'd like to pick out this one for further comment. I do see a softening of attitudes in mainstream media, particularly newspapers, towards sex workers who ply their trade in private. The courts and legislators also seem to be working towards balancing the freedom to associate and engage in adult activities against the need to protect individuals and society from the dual harms of exploitation and exposure (of sexual matters) to minors. The recent Supreme Court of Ontario decision to strike down key elements of current prostitution laws is an example of how the courts are beginning to weigh protection of sex workers more heavily in their decisions. The existing laws attempt to ban undesirable effects of the sex trade -- such as having an openly public brothel in your nice family-oriented neighbourhood -- while not explicitly making sex between consenting adults (with or without payment) an illegal activity. There is considerable fear, however, that law makers will respond to the latest court decision by creating laws that head us back in that direction. I think the courts, though, have shown signs that they want the laws improved (for the protection of workers) not returned to an earlier state (where sex for money is outlawed). But the lawmakers are composed of people who live in our society, are influenced by it, and whose jobs are at the discretion of the public. It becomes easier for them to change laws if the changes stand a good chance of being supported by the electorate and general public opinion. Which is why we need more people, on both sides of the sex trade, to speak up and counter the negative stereotypes. We often say that prostitution is the world's oldest profession, yet Canadian laws don't treat it as one. Sadly, there is still such a stigma attached to sex-for-money that few dare to speak out about it for fear of reprisal at work, at home, or from friends and family. As a parent, it's even more complicated. So, my hat's off to those who have been brave enough to speak up and help change public attitudes. I wish I could join you, but for now, I'll have to stick to supporting you more quietly, from the sidelines, in whatever venue I can find that doesn't jeopardize my job or my personal relationships.

My opinion is be proud of who you are. Regardless of gender, race, or sexuality, were all people in the end and we each deserve to be treated with respect. It takes a lot of courage to be open about something like that. When I was younger I'll admit that I was a lot more judgemental than I am now but I guess one of the benefits of university was that I met a lot of different people with a lot of different backgrounds. I met people from many different lands, with different religions, and even different sexualities than my own. And it teaches you to look beyond the colour of their skin, the god they worship, or whether they sleep with the same sex or opposite sex, and just see the person they are and who knows you might end up making a great friend in the end. And so I say with great enthusiasm welcome to Cerb :)

I am an sp who works during her time of the month, why.... because there are MANY men who are not the full service types...HOWEVER WITH THAT BEING SAID....when this occurs_ I dont come out and say, sorry boys I am menstruating in my ads...I simply INDICATE with a special note that there is NO FULL SERVICE available........ Unfortunately, I had a very humiliating and hurtful experience with a man who I presumed took the time to look at my ad I had on the day he contacted me for an appointment......WRONG!!!!!!!!!!! I will also point out that I did not confirm this over the phone ( I should have) would have saved me a lot of grief!! Unfortunately, I was fully undressed , and had been touched , fondled & kissed by this guest prior to us coming to the realization he was there for much more......My compensation......$20!!!! .........so ladies all this to say, if you do, CONFIRM WITH THEM that you are not providing full service, EVEN if it is stated in your ad, so you don't get effed over like I did!!!!