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Doesn't sound bizarre at all. Intimacy is subjective. If you felt it was too much, you have every right to not do it. SPs aren't the only ones with boundaries. Any woman who would answer " Yes, I give in" may as well be wearing a target on her back that says, "Please ignore my boundaries." The fact that you use the terminology, "Give in" is monumentally disconcerting. No I don't give in. I do, however, have an expression on my face that says all I need to convey should any " man " keep trying to push past my level of comfort. It says, " Try that again & you will need a crash course in how to masturbate with only your feet ". You are essentially asking professional companions to publicly breach the confidence of a guest to satisfy, what I can only ascertain, a very invasive case of carnal curiosity. My answer to you would be, "It is none of your business what I do with him." Yes really. Believe it or not some of us have a personal life, we aren't 24/7 on call paid for vagina. And as shocking as this revelation may be to you, we are all very different people, ages, body type, hair/eye colour but mostly, in personality & boundaries. We weren't created in Petrie dishes & raised on special Hoochie Farms for God's sake. Now if she promised kissing, daty, whatever & then declined to offer it in person, only 2 reasons come to mind. 1- She lied to get you there, not cool. 2- Blow into your hand, take a whiff & ask yourself if you would let that stick it's tongue in your mouth. You also use the term "making love " repeatedly. As much as I enjoy my time with my guests & really get off on a lot of the sex, I am not making love to you. No amount of money you pay me buys my heart. Period. If you want a love making session where you will get the same thing each time, get a girlfriend. If you don't want that, you need to do a reality check on your SP expectations coupled with better research. So to answer more succinctly your thread title, " That's too intimate? Really? Yes. Really!!!! That's what happens when you deal with humans as opposed to robots. Sandi

is not acceptable! This isn't a flea market. Take the time to find out what options a lady offers (ie length of time and corresponding donations) and either book with her or continue your search! BTW "can you do x amount of time for x amount of donation?" is akin to negotiating!

Is it too intimate? In some ways, yes it is... For the first 15 years of my career, no kissing or daty was industry wide S.O.P. These were services that were offered only to very trusted regulars at a girls discretion. I couldn't wait to get home and kiss my husband after a long nights work. The kisses were the ignition to me wanting him. It wasn't until I arrived in Canada that I was faced with the fact that clients expect it on the first visit. I loved to kiss but it was a challenge for me because kissing is the most intimate act I participate in and adding it to daily menu desensitized me to it and it has come with a cost in my personal sex life. I can no longer achieve a deeper level of intimacy and connection with personal play partners as I used to and it makes it far less appealing to play simply for fun. If my lips are engaged, I'm all in because I can't separate my kisses from my kitty. This was one of the main reasons for the break down of my marriage altho I didn't recognize it at the time. I genuinely enjoy my work, I can orgasm easily when kissed properly and I love skin but given that guests want access to every part of me, I seldom have any needs left for personal lovers to tend to. It's a win for guests as they get an authentic experience but a loss for me because I have no interest in a sexual relationship on a personal level. Even men who I have amazing connections with on an emotional level never get to first base because my itches have been scratched. Men don't want to cuddle and hang out long term if there's no sugar on the horizon so I don't even bother to try and date. If a provider feels kissing is too intimate, then respect that. She knows what works for her. I wasn't less gratified in my work when I didn't kiss or allow oral, I still loved providing the service and my ensuring my guests left satisfied. They just weren't entitled to every little bit of me for less than a monthly car payment. I didn't realize when I tried to stay competitive that it would come with such an expensive personal pricetag... cat

I NEVER believe such things. Never. Is it at all reasonable to think that, if someone does have HIV or any other sexually transmissible infection, they would disclose it, particularly to another sex worker? How can anyone other than a person's health care team, know for certain that another person has an infection? It's just so highly unlikely as to be unbelievable. That said, it is perfectly possible that any sex worker may have an STI just as it's entirely reasonable for us to consider that any client with whom we make contact may be infected. I don't expect to know anyone's health status other than my own and I know that even that is just a snapshot of my status when I was tested. Most men never get tested unless they're having unpleasant symptoms; they just assume that they're infection-free. The safest thing is always to assume that another person has an infection you don't want to contract and to take appropriate measures to ensure that you don't. Rumours about paid companions having infections generally come from other companions who fear the competition or from clients who are angry for some reason, such as having been turned down or having had a less-than-stellar experience. In both cases, the rumour is really an attempt to limit or eliminate the companion's opportunities to make a living. They are assaults and cannot be taken as factual statements from unbiased sources.

Whether the A/C is on full blast or not, I don't consider it a job well done, until someone breaks a sweat! ;-)

Intimacy is different for everyone. My first visit with an SP I was very excited and had done all my research and knew exactly was and wasn't on the table for the encounter. The lady was an absolute sweetheart but when she moved to offer a BJ I got a bit freaked out by the level of intimacy of the session and wouldn't let her do it. Truthfully, I had expected a colder detached business transaction but what I got was a tender intimate experience. Every part of the session felt "too intimate" for me the first time. After the visit I was able to process the encounter and I was left with a completely different idea of the SP client encounter. Just as every client is different so is the encounter from client to client. Hence YMMV. SP's may be "professionals" but they are PEOPLE first and as such this dictates that they connect to each client in a different way. Some on a more personal or intimate way than others that's just the way it is. Bottom line, this business is not like McDonalds where no matter where you go in the country, the product and service is pretty much the same and can be depended on as such. Each experience is as unique as the lady that is providing it. Forget trying to pigeon hole experiences into what's not intimate enough or too intimate or try to determine a standard of what SP's prefer when they interact with the hundreds of clients they see. Just connect with a lady and enjoy the experience for what it is and be glad everyone is not pulled from the same mould.

Balls are AMAZING. I love licking and sucking and feeling them. I love how many different kinds there are. Each set is like a new toy and all react differently. I prefer shaved or trimmed just because I have a busy tongue and can get "wrapped up" when the hair is too long lol. I'll take them any way I can get them though. Delish!!

It's the quickest way to ensure your request will be denied. Sometimes, when I get angry with a negotiator, they respond with 'it was just a question'. NO. It was not just a question. You asked me to bargain with my body. Not acceptable. Occasionally I've responded to these requests with "Sure! But first, give me your bosses number, so I can call her and let her know that wages are up for negotiation and you'll go to work Monday for 60% of your salary". Usually gets the point across :P

I have upgraded this feature, it was bugging out on us and this should greatly improve it.

I know the economy isn't the best but this is pretty sad. If you can't afford the rate of a real woman you should stick to drunk chicks at the club or something.

At our house, we've sworn off fast food for some years, but there are still a few things I miss. One is Tim Horton's Iced Cappucino. I couldn't even get one here if I tried. There's no Timmy's in my town. But I think I've come up with an easy clone at home: For this recipe, you will need a blender and an extra ice cube tray. Make strong coffee, let cool, then pour into ice cube tray and freeze. When cubes are frozen, you can put them in a plastic bag or a container for your freezer. When you're ready to make your Iced Cap, combine in blender: 2 cubes frozen coffee 12 (or more) regular ice cubes ¼-½ C sugar (or whatever sweetener you prefer) 1-1½ C milk Blend! The finished product should be thick. If yours isn't, add more ice. Also, it will not be as brown as what you get from Tim Horton's. Obviously, they add some food colouring. Makes enough for two!

I have ordered a increase in available "seats" in the room (should be implemented in a few days) ... I will continue to increase it as the chat room gains popularity but I dropped it a while ago from 100 as it rarely was needed. Seams every day it is maxing out so its time to bump it back up (it is VERY expensive to run with the video feature - we pay for EACH seat and the bandwidth each seat uses but I have no issue increasing this as needed so no need to limit peoples use it is just a growing pain)

Yes if you are looking for a Massage in that area... Come and check us out! Vitto is one of our lovely attendents, we always have wonderful, beatiful, ladies ready to provide you with A+++ Service! Check our profile and pics..there is ladies of all ages, ethnicities, backgrounds... I m sure you will find the right person for you :-) Feel free to pm if you have any questions about rates, location, etc.... Cheers!

Thanks, Meg! Same goes for "can you price match another lady's rate?" Sure, only if she charges more then I do! lol

From our own Emily Wilson's awesome new album: And this smile...and this position :)

It all depends on the size of the playroom. If I'm on an air mattress or single bed then no more than two partners is doable. But if there was a king size bed or cushioned floor with lots of space, then the sky is the limit. Imagine a chess grand master playing 50 opponents all at the same time or a bee moving from flower to flower. In my real life, I've had the pleasure of 2 and 3 partners at the same time. Would I like to try more? Hell to the yes! Fifty sounds like a good round number, or maybe a century. In my imagination I have never ending stamina and my dick is always hard. In real life, less so. Still I'd like to try.

I find that oftentimes when I sit down to start a post on CERB its often an emotional post. So here it is... Sometimes like the rest of the amazing SP's here, my positivity slips. I am nothing short of human, and sometimes the scales of balance of me and Jade are no where near equal. Sometimes my alter ego is the stronger of the two, able to give and receive pleasure and drown in that, and it feels so good, other times, my life slips in and every emotion flashes on Jade's face. Be it worry or sadness. Other times we are balanced perfectly. And happiness shines on both of our faces. I often wonder if people realize the life of an SP requires 2 lives to balance in one mind and one body. The joys, the triumphs, the worries, the laughter , the ups, the downs, To please. All of the things we experience in our personal lives, often we experience at the same time different ups and downs that affect our alter egos. I can only speak for myself when I say that no matter how hard you try, our lives within ourselves cross paths. Good and bad. Both have benefits to the other as well, I am naturally sensual, I LOVE skin, the feel of it, the smell, the texture, Long slow kisses and seduction, that benefits Jade, as does my easygoing nature and ability to talk to people and make them feel comfortable. To please. She has taught me that everyone has a story, and not just to listen, but truly hear. To be stronger, to draw my own line as to whats acceptable behavior, she's ironically taught me self respect. I'm not sure why I started this post, perhaps because I find with so much going on in my life, I feel as though right now the scales of balance are tipped and find my emotions flashing clearly on Jade's face. Try as I might to avoid that, it reminds me that Im two people in one body, today the paths have crossed and that its ok to be gentle with both, after all I might be two people, but they are both human. And ultimately because it always does. The balance will return. Thoughts for the day. J xoxo

For me, it's all about making sure everyone is enjoying "something" unless it's by choice to get a little breathing room so in this situation, 5 would be max however 4 would be easier. However it also depends on the people involved because if you're dealing with voyeurs, Bi etc. that changes the situation. Now if it was more about personalized attention I'd say three. One thing I love about group action is the dynamic changes with the people involved so you never have the same flavor twice. I have been thinking about hosting an event sometime and this thread has just given me more incentive to do so. For a man, I would expect as long as some of the girls are bi, he'd take them all! Wow, what great visuals to start a Friday morning!! :boobeyes:

I too like 3, me and 2 men, but I'm very happy with 1+me. No matter the number its all what you make it:)

Pluck them, then you'll get every one!! lol, shaving I suspect would be the best way or just trim them, either way you may get more sucking so it'll be worth it;) Think of all the tweezing, plucking shaving, waxing, ect, women have to go through to be nice and smooth for men. The least men could do is trim:)

Ok, you convinced me. This morning, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna shave my nuts. Umm - what's the best method? Anyone have any advice? Razor or plucker or ??

We actually went over the bandwidth limit for the month already and it seams the 20 seats available are getting full quickly in peek times. I have ordered a increase to 100 seats and some more bandwidth... I dropped it to 20 seats a while ago as at peak times were only had 20 or less people and it was saving us a lot of money but with more people using the chat room these days I have up'd the service plan on the FMS media server that runs the chatroom. On a side note... anyone interested in banners to get more chat room exposure please PM me we could use the sponsor support to keep the chat room available as it grows.

Hi Asdr, I think that your statement is a bit alarmist, so let's discuss this. Having sex with someone carries some level of risk, and each person needs to reflect on their own level of risk tolerance. I think that you would find the majority of reputable providers here in Winnipeg are quite professional, and quite concerned about their own health and well-being. Professional providers are better informed about sexual health matters than the majority of the population.. they need to be, it's in their interest. Unfortunately, there are some women that find their way into sex work under difficult circumstances. Some may refer to this as "subsistence" sex work, driven by poverty or chemical dependance. The incidence of STI's in this group of sex workers may be greater, as they may be more prone to take on riskier practices and riskier clients, may be exposed thru injection drug usage and if working while heavily under the influence of drugs or alcohol, may expose themselves to disease. To make a general statement that there may be "working sp's known to have HIV" is to somewhat paint all providers with a pretty broad brush, and not an accurate assessment in my view.

If it is against the rules to save a lady's photos, mod should make it so that you cannot right-click and save photos, which you currently CAN do without needing to screenshot. I have seen websites where this is disabled and if you truly want the photo you have to screenshot it...Making the disabling almost useless as I'm sure most people know how to screenshot ANY internet page...And yes, it is possible for someone to print screen while you are on cam and they will have a saved photo of whatever your cam was showing the instant the photo captured the screen. And for the record, a client you "know" also can (and probably would be able to) capture the screenshots of your cam. As for the comment made in regards to having a copyright logo in the bottom corner....Too easy to crop it out! What you need is a banner logo across the center of the image, diagonally. Next to impossible to remove its existence, yet also still possible to mask. If you are worried about photos of yours being shared/taken/stolen whatever you wanna call it, keep them off the internet COMPLETELY, period. NOTHING else will be 100% safe.

Okay I'm going to start by saying I think it's very inconsiderate for a client to even put you in that position. I would never bring up that topic during an encounter for a couple of reasons. First...I would like both of us to enjoy our time together as much as possible and that's not going to happen if one of us feels awkward or uncomfortable. Second...It's NONE of my business. We're exclusive only for the time we're together. I'm sure you would never ask a client about a recommendation that he/she has made about another companion. I'm not a high volume client, having only met a handful of companions. But each encounter was different from the others because we're all different and isn't that part of what makes this fun and interesting? And I can honestly say that during each encounter I never once felt like the lady wished she was somewhere else or with someone else. And I enjoyed each and every one! It sounds to me like someone is looking for a GF, not a GFE.

As a newbie I did read reco's in an effort to try to find a lady or ladies that I felt suited the type of experience that I was looking for in an encounter. So as a newbie I found them useful. Now that I have more experience with encounters as well as direct interaction with ladies here on Cerb I don't tend to rely on them much myself. However I do appreciate their value to those seeking validation that a lady is indeed a good choice for them. Therefore, I choose to write recommendations. Right now, I'm actually a little behind on my reco's but I do write them for every lady that has provided me with a wonderful experience. Everyone desires something different out of an encounter and if, as in OP's original post the client likes to maintain the fantasy that there is just one man and one woman then that's what they desire from their experience. It's not wrong it's just the fantasy they like to maintain. As has been stated, stay away from the reco's. Personally, every lady that I have met, I have had a wonderful time with and have come to respect very much. Out of my respect for her is born my wish that she be very successful in all her endeavours personal and professional. Her professional life (in this business) funds aspects of her personal life that she enjoys. Just as I want to help newbies feel comfortable in their choice of lady for their experience I want her to have clients who desire her specific particular qualities. When those two factors are in line it results in a positive experience for both parties. For me knowing that I might play some small part in the lady being financially successful while having positive client experiences makes me feel good. I'm a realist, I know that she professionally sees a number of clients however, I'm quite confident that none of her other clients are exactly like me. Therefore the encounter that I provide FOR HER is actually unique and one of a kind. She appreciates her time with me differently than she appreciates her time with her other clients. This can be a mentally grueling industry for a lady at times and if there is anything small thing that I can do to show my appreciation and make the lives of the ladies I have known better in any way I'll do it. I write Reco's, and I will continue to do so for the above reasons.

I don't give a hoot if you're a man, a woman or a monkey. If you're arranging a date with someone you don't know, you address yourself in a professional manner. After all, this is a business and contrary to what some might believe, SPs are running a business and we're not one of your buddies texting to meet a bar to watch a game. Maybe that's how it works in your world and your example shows no regard for etiquette when contacting someone ( proves my point) but I do have higher standards of who *I* decide to come into contact with. Is technology to blame that people can't even type out the characters for the word "Hello Jane, Betty or Joan"? Fuck me, what is this world coming to when people can't address someone by their name? Is that too much to ask nowadays?

I have a few questions on my mind that I would love to see how you all feel on this forum. Please read on..it hopefully makes sense what I ask of you. 1) Orgasms - Does it matter to the ladies that they orgasm with intercourse or with tongue and digits? I am not always able to do it intercourse way and always manage digits and tongue though. Does that matter to you how you cum? Is it like a Hand Job vs Full Serve for the man? 2) Do most ladies enjoy to be massaged by the man instead of giving the massage to the man? I personally love to massage a women and explore every inch of her body. I love to caress and acknowledge each part of her as I slowly move from head to toe. I am sure to kiss her in areas perhaps forgotten by others...neck, shoulders, elbows, back etc..oh don`t worry I stop at the play parks!! 3) Many ladies state that kissing is not on the menu, yet end up kissing before the session is over. Just curious if the intimacy of making love instead of having sex triggers that within you? I for one love to kiss when making love and even if it is not dfk or lfk, and simply small pecks on the lips of neck, I am totally satisfied. Do you give in at times too? 4) Making love is more about the oral and massage play and less on the intercourse phase for me. Does spending 45 minutes on oral and massage with orgasm, then 15 minutes on intercourse for the man to release, a satisfying visit for you as it is for me? Do others go for more on intercourse and less on play time? My last encounter with a lady took me off guard as she indicated that she did not do daty or kiss and did not want to be massaged as it was too intimate as she saves that for her boyfriend. Really? Has anyone else ran into this brick wall before?

I've enjoyed MMFF and MFFF. In those scenarios I can honestly say we were having sex "together". Another person added to the mix and I think we could all still manage to have "hands on" fun ;-) In larger sessions of 8-12 other male and female partners I think the phrase that comes to mind is "My reach exceeded my grasp" ;-) Those were great sessions, but I wouldn't say I was having sex with everyone "together" and that they were "partners". We were having sex simultaneously and swapping different combinations in the same room. Mind you the voyeurism and exhibitionism in those cases was great... and I suppose that counts as sex too ;-)

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I love wearing Ralph Lauren Romance. I enjoy wearing perfume but most times refrain from doing so as many of my clients are attached and may get a wiff of it or those with allergies.

Sex is not penatration for me. I've had ED for the past 20 years. The day Viagra was introduced, I thought I'd died and gone to heaven. No such luck... None of those drugs did anything for me. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy a damn good sex life. I have the ability to be stimulated... Generally orally... To a climax. I please my partner with kisses, massage, gentsl touching, digital stimulation, with adult toys, and of course orally. 99 times out of a hundred, she climaxes with oral stimulation.

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I have found after being an SP for a while I can manage the balance but I'm not going to lie and say everything is perfect. I hold a lot of responsibility in my personal life and in my family I am the "go to" person when something is wrong. This has stressed me out a lot. I am the second mother and always there. I play psychologist, nurturer, the one who listens, the one who helps. . I do it because they're family and I don't expect things in return. I am kind but at the same time I make sure it's not mistaken for weakness. This has often carried over into my job as an SP whether it affected my schedule or whatever. If I'm having a real hard time personally, I find I can't see clients. However, there are times over the course of a day with something has made me upset and one of my favorite regulars or a new client will call and when they visit, I'm in a good mood again. I don't find I have two personnas because I don't have to psych myself up to do this job or pretend to be someone else. However, I do admit that I don't go around in my personal life acting seductive to others but it is a natural part of who I am. I can turn it on or off but I certainly don't fake my passion and sensuality with clients. That's inherent within me. When I am with a client, they have my attention and I put aside whatever it is on mind as there will always be a solution. If there is something really troubling me, I won't book appts. I have found that when I'm at home and have my "me" time, the phone is off and I don't focus on anything work related. I leave my work at the door. We all need that.

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I don't often bother looking at other guys accounts, but there are times when I do as a means of checking on someones credibility. If I see a reco on a previously unreviewed lady, and I don't recognize the poster, I like to know that they have a bit of a post history before I give too much weight to their reco. If they are brand new, it could be a shill account of some sort invented simply to promote that lady.

Nathalie I think this is a worry you are burdening yourself with unnecessarily. I find it surprising that anyone who would decide to meet with a provider would think they would be her only client, a bit unrealistic and I think its a bit silly for someone to say they don't like reading your reco's because it tells them you see others. Simply tell them not to.Why would someone read something anyways that they don't like? All you are responsible for giving is the type of encounter you are comfortable with and, in that experience its between you and him/her and its not their business who else you meet with. Gfe has nothing to do with exclusivity, imo, its about being genuinely intimate and passionate with the client you are with at the moment, no need to lie about anything, if he/she is asking about reco's or how many clients you see simply change the subject and say you aren't comfortable discussing those topics. After all reco's are a positive thing, here anyway, they are a persons opinion of how the encounter went, how they saw it, which for some are helpful, for others, if they don't like them then don't read or write them its just that easy. In the end you have to do what is right for you, that's first and foremost then take care of the clients needs. but don't feel the need to cater to someone especially when they are being inappropriate, all the best:)

First, there's never any really reliable job. There's always the risk of someone or a company outbidding you in private sector. Government jobs used to be what was the most secure..... but we saw what happened with the public function in Ottawa. A few tips though: 1) There is more jobs if you're willing to move. Everyone fight for the big cities job, but they often have trouble finding people for small villages. 2)Aim for something essential. Specialy if it's not long lasting (like buildings). Health, food, water, etc will always be needed. 3)Skilled trades have lots of opening usually, specially if you're willing to be on call or work evening, night and weekend shifts.

Move to the Philippines (where half of the call centers are located these days), open a call center, poach your current employer's customer list (so what if you signed a non-competition agreement...that ain't no good in Phils), sit back and manage an office full of beauties while sipping San Miguel! ;-) Calling all CERB investors!

YMMV refers to the chemistry between the lady and you. Could be things like hygiene, facial hair, clean fingernails, trimmed fingernails, how you actually perform etc. If you show up with body odors, it generally does not matter how much money you bring. If you are rough in the lovemaking department (ramming fingers inside before she is ready, cross contaminating between back door and front door action), the money won't make a difference. If you use your teeth while performing daty. All these things are generally what ladies are referring to ymmv. I am blunt about this one - if you have no clue how to love a lady, and it hurts her (literally), she will probably say "ok, kitty is all good now, you don't need to give her any more lovin', lets concentrate on you". So, read up on all the threads about seeing an sp - clean (with soap) all areas of your body including your underarms, crotch, bum, feet. Trim your nails (toes too), if you shave, shave, if you don't shave, trim. Wear deodorant, put on clean clothes. Brush your teeth, use mouthwash etc. If she suggests you use the shower, wash your hands, use mouthwash at the appointment, do it. She is not being helpful, she is telling you get in there and get that stink off of you...... As far as MSOG - this term is used for the time you have paid her for. So, if she says hourly rate is MSOG and half hour is SSOG, then pay for the hour. Remember however, if you have 5 minutes left in your time, and you are still trying to get off again, you will need to see if she has additional time available and pay for the extra time. It is always good to bring extra money. That way, you can tip her in advance or after for the great service she provides. Good luck xoxo

Eva if you don't mind me asking some follow up Question: as a SP what would set up the mood other then the grooming and personal cleaning? I mean like music, etc. I know this might vary from an SP to another but I wouldn't mind knowing yours and would the time start as soon as the appointment starts? or as soon as she arrives? or after the convo? regarding the previous question as friends I meant like friendly talk's for sure you would have one with a client in the beginning but after that (for sure not going to personally), lets say a client saw you outside would you talk to the client? or would you prefer to avoid? sorry for the late follow up was busy these days BTW you look Gorgeous in your pictures

I think any cam communications can be screen captured :/ I'll be completely honest, that's why I don't ever go on chat.. I understand some may see it as harmless, or a souvenir to revisit, but as someone who's had my pictures stolen just from sites or my ads for malicious reasons, I don't feel comfortable trusting someone I may or may not have met, to essentially be across from me with a camera, and not keep a picture something I may not have chosen to post.. Even if it is just my face. I've seen a site where people record and upload cam sessions that they've saved. Knowing that, I don't even do Skype dates now

Confidence plays a big role when it comes to this sort of things. Whether you decide to go for a service like this, or just in general dating. To be honest, it was a factor with me. I didn't specifically go for finding a hot girl to be with, I went in to this because it was the most pressure free way to just have some fun. No stress about worrying if I'm good enough, doing the right thing. What eventually happened is that I've enjoyed each experience more than the previous one, I'm more confident, able to take charge, and most importantly, stop being so hard and critical of myself. If you do go through with it, be the kindest version of you possible. Be a gentleman. Just because money is exchanging hands does not lower the value of what you want the experience to be. As for the legal stuff, I was terrified in the beginning, so I can somewhat relate. But you're in a safe place here, and like you said, read, there is a lot on this forum.

That's where you come in. You have to understand the difference between a professional encounter and an encounter with someone with whom you have built a bond. It's easy to develop an emotional attachment to people with whom you have exposed yourself physically. It's absolutely okay to like them, hell, even love them BUT you have to go in with the proviso that this is a professional situation. If needs be, think of it this way. When you go into a tremendously frightening movie, you give yourself the affirmation "this is only a movie, it's not real." It's mental trickery, but it works. An encounter is much the same thing. You enjoy the benefits of a physical relationship with someone you enjoy, but at the end of the session you part as a customer and she as a provider. It was a transaction. Hope this helps!