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To be honest anyone asking what my restrictions are - is not anyone I wish to spend time with. A great date is based on mutual chemistry and a connection, with the only expectation being having a great time . My website is VERY clear on what a date with me is like, so I'm not even sure why you would start a thread like this, considering its insulting and demeaning. A date is more than a restriction or a menu!

I had a feeling it would be deleted when i seen it. As it should. Two things in the rules that come to mind was I dont believe sexual services are to be discussed in public forums to help protect the site from the effects of sesta/fosta Another being i dont think ladies are to be compared to one another or discussed in these ways. I find it a bit distasteful and could possibly trigger some negative feelings with some. I know i wouldnt be a fan of being named in a forum like this. Did a mod not message you as to why it was removed? Im not sure if starting another was a good idea...

Hey Aloneinhfx, I have to say you're quite mistaken, the problem is most reputable SPs will ask for a deposit which is good, but scammers then appear reputable by doing so. If they're new or not reviewed, or verified on multiple sites. I would not provide a deposit.

Saw Gia on Nov 2....she is amazing, friendly very engaging. She really loves her work! I dont think its work for her. Great massage, great body! Complete package, she made me feel like a porn star!

I saw her about 2 years ago. The pictures are accurate, service was ok, her attitude was abysmal.

I love seeing Meaghan ! She is a happy , sexy , cuddly woman who never fails to meet my needs . As an older gent I especially appreciate her caring patience . One of the best.

When I go to meet a lady I don't expect to cross paths with other clients but if I did I am not so sure it would cause me a great concern. In the OP's scenario I think I would have simply messaged the lady and discuss the issue... as others have said we have no idea who the guy was or why he was there .. Could have been a family member dropping by. It could have been a regular of hers who fucked up the time and arrived early and therefor it was his fault. In my experience the ladies work very hard to create a discrete environment for theIr clients and themselves. Just my opinion

So I finally scheduled a date with Ms Manda! This post a little late as it was about a month ago but I can’t get her off my mind!!! She was very welcoming her place is clean hygiene was great!! She is s beautiful women head to toe!! Our time together was one of if not the best experience I’ve had. Not a clock watcher. we enjoyed eachother ( no specifics ) then got a shower together and still laid back and just enjoyed each other and talked!! I highly recommend her and will be seeing her again she told me about her friend so mite see the both of them soon. Don’t miss out on this one!!

Lol, RG, I'm kinda the same way about being honest. Usually for me, it has less to do with the business I'm dealing with and more to do with the employee across the counter. Like if the cashier gives me the wrong change or something. Heaven forbid the poor kid gets fired because their float doesn't add up at the end of the day. As for car dealerships, I doubt that I would be as honest as you however. Their service departments bill out every minute and every nut and bolt and never cut anyone any slack. Sometimes even doing the repairs before even getting the okay from the customer. I would take the free oil change and be quite happy. I guess $83.00 in this day and age isn't much but I'd take it. But you are right in the sense that it is dishonest. Cheers.

Well I tofft. She is legit and pics are real. Would recomend. I will likely see her again.

Rare to find but yes these women are out here lol will delete soon.

Before I became active in this industry I thought I had a certain type of lady a certain look but what I have found is that diversity is really the way to go ... I have learner that it is less about how a lady looks and more about how they feel about themselves ... if they feel sexy and beautiful it shows. Just my Opinion

Will travel if worth while 😉

I would suspect discussing specific sex acts??

I can recommend the following ladies who visit NL Ms Manda Chrystal Bianca Jaguar Victoria Jolie Katherine

When at a SC I keep in mind that it is just that a Strip Club and have expectation only that I will get to see and interact with some beautiful ladies. I never expect that a $20 dance will get me much more. I treat the lady with respect and sometime and surprised at how things develop. Just my opinion

Pretty sure he posted that same message on P*** a few weeks back. Got him about as far as the post here did.

It might just be me but I have enjoyed sessions with one release or more as well as sessions where I did not release at all. I have usually booked a longer appointment because I enjoy the chemistry of the meeting... the time before and the time after can be just as enjoyable in my opinion. I approach each session with a very open mind and very few specific expectations. When the session is with someone I have met before I usually have an idea of how things will go but have enjoyed many wonderful surprises. When the session is with someone I have never met it is totally go with the flow from me and I have never discussed one pop or two with anyone lol. As for session over at release I have of course met some ladies whose disposition suddenly changes once release is achieved but in my experience that is the exception with most of the amazing ladies I have met from on here we enjoy each other companionship for the full time. Just my opinion

I suspect that this person is just a troll, trying to "stir the pot" for entertainment purposes.

Well this was not my costume but it is the best I saw this year..

Yes of course it has .... It's not unrealistic to think that if you are not careful and you don't keep the dealings strictly business focused that the intense personal nature of this industry could have you feeling that the fantasy you look for is real. I don't want to disparage the lady you had been seeing ... obviously she created a wonderful fantasy playtime for you and If you were a good client of course she would like to retain your business. Only you can determine what is right for you but what you have experienced is not unique to you. Just my opinion

Dear gentlemen, the sexy petite brunette Michelle will be available for incalls in Moncton November 9-11th- Prebook now! Michelle Service: Sensual, energetic & passionate session + massage Stats: French-Latina 30yrs old 5'2" 113lbs 34C Brown eyes Long shiny cascading brown hair CONTACT: Website: www.yourfrenchlady.com Email: [email protected] Text: 438-985-4063

In my experience the massages given/received by clients of this site would not qualify for insurance coverage. If any of the ladies who advertise on hear are licensed massage attendants they would be risking their licence to bill an insurance company unless it was an actual therapeutic massage. Just my opinion

For me the use of the word "cheap" is a problem when you are referring to the type of personal service we are talking about.. While I appreciate it is every ladies right to establish rates that she wishes my experience has made me aware that extremely low rates are problematic in at least a couple of ways: First the setting of an extremely low rate is often a sign of other issues that make me have serious concern for the person providing the service. It often means that the individual is in financial distress or may be dealing with addiction problems. I support the right of sex workers to work in safe profitable environments and not one of economic subsistence and dependence. Second unrealistically low rates like the $60 mentioned in the OP can make serious problems in the market place making it more difficult for others in the market to make a reasonable living. For some reason guys see ads with low rates and automatically expect the market to drop to that new standard. Just my Opinion

True in so may ways.

Saw Gia today she is very nice. I would and probably will repeat.

Once meeting with me, you will quickly notice that I am the Lady of the house. My innate ability to host distinguished gentlemen, as dear friends, is immediately recognised. I am also trained and skilled in a proficient way that awaken both your senses and desires. When you feel my loving hands, I will raise your understanding of my sumptuous and rousing abilities to relax, rejuvenate and stimulate. During your time with me, rest assured I am always on the "qui vive", never preoccupied. I will charm you with my infectious laughter and my love for witty play on words! It has been said "In the way she moves, her amorous nature comes with ease" . Erotic in the way I touch, tease and carry myself. Sensual and talented, with my skills ... THIS IS where you want to be😄 PLEASE VIEW MY SITE IF WE HAVE NOT YET MET! It helps in making an informed enquiry. 🙂 https://www.ladysophiaclassic.com 506-261-7313 https://twitter.com/Sophia_touch

I met Gia yesterday. She's an amazing person & great in her service. She really makes you feel comfortable & her in-Call Location is also very safe and clean. Best Time I ever had. 😉

I know most legit established providers allow for multiple releases within the alloted time. It helps to clarify when inquiring if she is open to this. I personally allow multiple releases if the gent is able. However, if only 5 minutes left, then no. Or if the first release took along time and the second is likely to take even longer. I recently had a gent who scheduled a 30 minute, and we managed to get 2 releases in and still had 10 minutes to cuddle and talk. However, one gent scheduled a 60 minute, 45 minutes later of full on action on my part, he released. Then wanted a second one, but with less then 10 minutes left, I declined. I've always said, for every 2 orgasyms I have, you can have 1. So each person is unique.

Need to bring back the ability to search recommendations alphabetically. I went searching yesterday to see if there were recs on a couple of women I was interested in and it took forever! This feature needs to come back in order to simplify the process.

I usually don't go for girls until they have recommendations. But, I contacted Gia anyway and started a conversation based on her ad. It just looked good and didn't throw up any immediate flags. My schedule worked out well for me and we ended up meeting. She is very nice and those are her real pictures. Her incall location was very safe. She practices safe play as well and is very affectionate. I don't get out very often, but I hope I get a chance to see her again when I do.

This is one of my first attempts of feeling my way around the new site. I have to say in almost 10 years of membership this is one of the most offensive questions / topics I have seen.

There's also the fact that having a decent website/overall online presence increases one's sense of legitimacy. I've had many instances of men coming across my ad on Leolist or similar and then looking up my site/Twitter feed. After getting a sense of my personality they have been much more comfortable getting in contact to arrange a date. Just my two cents- I certainly appreciate those who actually read my FAQ! 😉

This has been discussed a few times here.. The problem is that the valley (and its neighbouring towns) are very small communities, which can make touring there discreetly very difficult. As well, many clients have hesitations about visiting the Sp's at the local hotels in smaller places, as someone may see them coming or going.. It's a lot to consider, on both sides Some of us though, would be happy to travel outside of the city with a minimum booking and deposit 🙂just to ensure that we're not stood up upon our arrival to your town. Perhaps make contact with a lady you're interested in, and see if she'd be up for a trip, and what the requirements for that may be? 🙂 Good luck in your search! Xox

My advice would be make contact with a very well established provider here on LYLA and start a conversation. Just be polite, up front, and accept what they tell you about the prospects. However, I wouldn't expect anyone to be driving out to Digby for an hour, more like an overnight, or possibly even a 3-hour visit, I don't know, like I said, start a convo via PM and take it from there.

You cannot go wrong with Joy or Kelsea if they are there this summer.

^^^^ Nail hit firmly on the head with that one. I will add to the men. READ!!!! Just because a form has a place for first and last name doesn't mean they are required fields. Just because a form has a place for employment doesn't mean that is the main type of screening she is looking for. I offer employment screening but my preferred method is an active online social media/board account and 1 SP reference. No text apps and last name is optional. So don't go based on the form, read first to know exactly what she requires. I give options because not everyone has an SP reference or an online account. Doesn't mean I like to screen that heavily. Lastly - please remember this is actually an industry of discretion but not anonymity. There is a difference and people confuse the former for the latter. If it is too much for you not the be completely anonymous, this may be the wrong hobby for you. Do discretion, you should be good with doing your homework and research on a legit professional companion and have no troubles.

Everybody has their own comfort level in this industry. A few points to consider: Set up a hobby email account/phone. Ask the questions you feel are needed to get an idea if the two of you are a match. Once you have a good idea you are interested in seeing the provider, then go forward. If you are not comfortable with her screening, move on. If you are comfortable with her screening, move forward. A simple rule I follow, if he doesn't trust me, I won't trust him. Those that try to skirt my basic screening, have always turned into nightmares. So, if they don't like it, I move on. I personally will never give into their demands. My body, my rules. James Qwerty: As far as being coerced by police. That's a laugh in and of itself. I've dealt with the police and have always been truthful in what I do. They have never been interested in my client details. Just the details of the guy who tried to kill me, the guy who assaulted me. They never once tried to get details of my other clients. To suggest that this is the case is just a fear tactic, and probably a way to try to avoid screening. Screening is up to the provider to keep her safe.

Hold up.. Sorry to threadjack here, but your comments on "these girls" are a little uncalled for.. If a guy friend/boyfriend/spouse is ok with us escorting, he doesn't care about us? You can't be serious.. This just shows the lack of respect you have for the women you claim to support here Are escorts actually expected to be loners, with no spouses or partners outside of the industry? Many sw do actually have partners, and are even married, with healthy, non exploitative relationships.. What about friends? Should we not have friends either because some are users and it's hard to choose who really has our best intentions in mind? I get that this situation with Kiarah is noteworthy and warrants discussion to help keep you safe, but to throw all sp under the bus as silly women with low self esteems, dating shitty people because they think they can't do better, is EXACTLY the mindset that went into the laws that now criminalize our clients.. Yourself included Good, and bad relationships exist in every occupation, and in every walk of life. No need to make such generalizations about sw relationships like we're some kind of non human, sustained only by our jobs.. We're complete multifaceted people, and just like any other section of humanity, we have good and bad experiences with each part of our lives Sorry to rant, but I'm in awe that I just read that on lyla