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  1. Posted · Edited by Tempted Monk

    On 12/13/2018 at 4:14 PM, roamingguy said:

    ... It's hard to believe someone is 25 years old in 2010 and we're almost to 2019 and she's still 25. ...

    Anyhow a topic for a respectful discussion 

    RG

    It is peculiarity of escort business - at 40 she is the same 25 yo girl, just with 15 years of experience Lol

    Age is really subjective. I have  two examples from my real experience:

    - I have met Asian Lady who advertised 27 being in reality 47. And nobody complained because she looked like 27.

    - I convinced one my escort friend to change her advertised age from 25 to 33 (close to real) and her business was improved significantly. She became much more popular. It turned out, many clients just prefer younger looking grown up woman as a companion.

     

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  4. Posted

    I was in similar (maybe ??) situation in the past but I consider it differently. Of course, we all come to escort world to satisfy our dream or fantasy, something what is not present in our real life. And why should one regret if something like this happened?

     

    Over the years, I had several regular Ladies for different reasons.

    But with that one it was very simple - I just could not see the other Ladies. I thought about her being with the other woman and such a date did not have any sense. This made her not just regular but exclusive one.

    I always waited for our next date and I missed talking to her, I missed her smile, the feel of her body when I hug her, taste of her kiss, her laughing eyes, her silky hair... I have forgotten long time ago that I can feel something like this.

    And I will be always grateful to this woman for that wonderful year when I felt really alive again.

     

     

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  5. Posted

    18 hours ago, Jessica Rain said:

     

    Hmmm, I don't think so. 

     

    I think that new people would have been scared off the old tech the site was running. 

     

    More and more new new people are younger and use to higher levels of software and site usability with great UI experiences. If they can't have those, they don't bother. Lyla was pretty behind the times in the that regard. 

     

    Now lyla offers features in away no other review board does. 

    Technology is under the hood, look and feel has nothing to do with technology used and new features. I think it would be better to keep it a little bit more consistent with previous appearance. It is now too plane and grey and difficult to read and navigate because of this. Look at this thread - the only Jessica's signature is something what looks attractive LOL

    And Lyla is practically dead in Toronto. I posted my last recommendation in March and it is still on the top of the list. Nobody posts in Toronto area. And I don't think new plain and gray site look will attract more new people.

     

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  7. Posted

    That rush right before you open the door. The excitement and nervousness all in one. I always speak to them on the phone and already have gained an idea and go with my instincts whether to book with them or not but still when I open the door..in that one fleeting moment feels like a wave.

    Yes, it is some sort of one way blind date: I know something about you (at least what you want me to know and how you look like) but you know practically nothing about me.

    And this first moment and first impression can be perfect turn on point for me as well.

     

    I love being kissed on the nape of my neck.

    I wish I knew something like this in advance about the woman I am going to meet! LOL

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  9. Posted

    Time goes and I have already met Asian Nicole many times. So, there is no sense to describe one particular session with her. To express my general impression of this woman seems to be better option.

     

    If you ask who Asian Nicole is, you are or new to this hobby or new to Toronto. She defines Toronto escort landscape for years setting the benchmark for the quality of service.

     

    When you come to LCBO, you have wide selection of very good wines from different origins - France, Italy, Spain... you name it. But you always can find something excellent and unique in vintage department, the wine which is the best for particular place and year. What makes this wine exceptional and unique is a combination of many factors. It is its aroma and how it evolves with aeration, deepness of color and how it interacts with different lights, intensity of taste and how it feels after you make a sip...

    The same here: there are many very good providers in Downtown Toronto and there is Asian Nicole, unique and exceptional.

     

    Booking session with Nicole is pretty easy - just phone call. She doesn't use any reference system, she trusts her experience and the ability to "read" people, she needs personal conversation for this.

    Nicole is a real master of erotics and sexual art. She has perfect petite body, all natural, and shapely long legs any girl can be envious of. She is a good kisser if you are into it, her BBBJ is one of the best I ever experienced, Asian Cow Girl is her signature - nobody does it better. Nicole is energetic and enthusiastic partner to try any position you want to but missionary is, probably, her favorite one where she can relax and enjoy herself. And if you are able to bring her to big "O" point - it is really powerful.

    I need to add, she likes to watch the play in the mirrors on the walls of her bedroom :-).

     

    Session with Nicole can be different. She can follow you or can take the lead. It can be service with long list of abbreviations if you want it this way. Or it can be real sex with passionate woman who is completely into it - spontaneous and unpredictable - if you have a good "click". She can be intelligent and sophisticated or can be dirty talker if you prefer.

    But one thing is absolutely mandatory to have session with Nicole - she won't tolerate even a hint of disrespectful behavior.

     

    Nicole evolved over years (I can compare, I met her first time six years ago). She became more considerate, attentive, more "personal". I guess, she has a clear understanding that this business is not just about sex, it is about two people having enjoyable time together in many different ways. And her body is even better that several years ago - not thin young spinner type, but perfectly slender woman. Don't be fooled by those "civil" photos on her website - she is really hot in Victoria's Secret lingerie instead of that red dress. :-)

     

    Like perfect wine I mentioned, Nicole maybe not for everyone (and she doesn't accept everyone). But she is definitely worth to try - if you didn't try you never know...

     

    All the info and contact are here:

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    Wait? So we have to understand your side of the coin AND make that system better for you? For what you like better? BTW - you do realize this was written by an Austrailain SP, where it is legal to work as an escort. They are still screening over there too. Legal has nothing to do with harm. Sorry

     

    So no. Her body first and foremost. SHE makes the rules for her and if that works for both of you, great! If not, move on.

     

    Men seriously need to stop telling women how to screen. You like the SP reference system better. Ok, so? Maybe that doesn't work for others. Can't always be about you, or what you want. We get it doesn't work for all of you. That is okay. We accept that, why can't you?

     

    When something goes wrong for you, it is lost money, lost time and could be a lost wife/family or a normal job. When things go wrong for us, it is all that PLUS possible loss of LIFE, on top of physical harms. So I am sorry but it is a no-brainer. Your right to get your d$ wet will never trump a lady and her right to live and not be murdered.

     

    I wish men could give me the numbers of how many men last year were screwed over by an escort outting their personal information? I know we can give you numbers of how many sex workers were killed.

     

    Hobbyist, {don't know why you insist on using the term lobbyists as it means something different} have their tools, and we have ours. Sometimes that matches up, sometimes it does not. Look at the screening just like services. If you like DFk and she doesn't do it, you move on. Do you keep going up on boards complaining that a woman you want to see doesn't do DFK? No, you move on.

     

    I am done "HAVING TO UNDERSTAND THE OTHER SIDE" of the coin. Because let's be real, I can pull up a dozen threads from the last 3 months on a variety of different boards on this very topic, and in most of them, men are not at all understanding our side of the coin. It is nothing more than women trying to politely explain our reasons for screening, different options to get screened, how to help newcomers, etc etc. while being bitched at by non-understanding men. This is litterally my second thread on this subject today.

     

    and the last response I got was that I am apparently admitting to overdoing MY screening because I can refer a lady similar to me who requires less. Yup, you read that right folks. Stupidity holds no bounds.

     

    Sorry, but most men are not looking to work with providers on a safe middle ground for both sides. Most men are looking to say their name is john, with a text app and $80.00 and wanting to put it all on us when they don't get it that easy and for that price.

     

    So no. We don't have to understand anymore. We are in control of ourselves and if you don't like it, move on to the next. We are perfectly happy with that. It is not an insult to us, it is not a threat to us. By all means, spend your money elsewhere. But don't worry, you won't get the same rude, insulting and disrespectful responses from us when you do, like we get from many men when they don't get their way, yourself included.

     

    With all due respect Jessica, this topic can be considered at a bit different angle as well.

     

    First of all I want to make clear that I absolutely agree with two things:

    - Screening system must be in place. Period.

    - SP chooses which system to use, it is her right, absolutely. Period.

     

    But escorting is a business first of all. And providers and clients are two sides of this business which are, actually, interested in the same thing: well working and acceptable for clients screening system.

    SP can have perfect screening system which is unacceptable for 90% of the clients and this system will just kill her business. The situation is much better if system works and is acceptable for 90% of clients.

     

    So, the question if screening system is required has simple answer - YES, nothing to discuss here.

    Which system works AND is acceptable for clients - possible topic for discussion and clients opinion is worth to consider, providers are interested in such a system.

     

    Personally, I had problems in the past after providing my personal data for verification and I will never do it again. So, the girl who requires personal data of first time clients will loose me as a client, and I am a good client, any girl I met could confirm this. Too restrictive system can affect the business and screen out good clients.

    And I don't see anything wrong in the discussion how to make this system better for both sides.

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  11. Posted

    Over years, reading reviews on the escort Ladies I have met more that ones, I made an interesting observation. There are three situations here.

    - Most reviews are very consistent and similar to my experience. Usually, it is very good experience but not excellent.

    - I see in these reviews something very interesting and positive what didn't happen to me. This is indication that I didn't really "clicked" with that girl and I didn't see her best side.

    - My experience is really different (in positive sense) from otherwise consistent reviews, what I have on my date is almost never mentioned in the reviews. And this is always the case with the woman who is my favorite regular provider.

    Probably, this personal touch, unique experience, the possibility to see the best of her, her desire to be natural and open with me makes this woman so attractive and makes me the loyal regular client.

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  13. Posted

    I thought I would pull this thread from the vault in celebration of the wonderful women that have helped make this board all it is today. If it wasn't for the ladies that have been here through the thick and thin, I don't think this board would be thriving as it is today. Let's not forget our originals.

     

    My cerb goddess of the day is Meg O'Ryan. She was the first lady to welcome me. That was in 2010. I have not forgotten her kindness.

     

    Cheers to the start of another great year!

    +1 for Meg O'Ryan

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  17. Posted

    ...

    Lastly, consider Notche's post above. It sounds like there might be some merit there, but that is just a hunch ;)

    Good luck

    +1 on this. Before telling anything about your escort hobby, try to find out if she is really interested in you more than just a friend. It looks to me that it is very possible. And that is a different situation.

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  18. Posted

    Thanks to all for your replies. The information you all shared has been very helpful.

     

    I do prefer to have only one phone rather than a second hidden burner phone. I will be retired which makes it difficult to explain a second phone if it is found.

     

    I think I am better off with getting a cheap phone with a talk and text plan. I will look into providers that offer that. I will also have to figure out what to tell my SO why I did not join her plan.

     

    Thanks again

    You can try to install on your phone application like TextNow. It gives you second phone # for texting and calling. Nothing is shown on your phone bill. And it just one of tens applications installed on your phone - nobody will ever check it.

    Basic is free. If you want permanent phone number, it is $39 per year. It can work for you.

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  20. Posted

    From my personal experience, rate posted on provider's website is not always the rate charged by provider when I book an appointment. When I ask about donation for booking in the morning for example, I get sometimes lower rate that posted on provider's website.

    The other situation, when in response to my rate request I get the question how did I find this sp. If I mention website, rate is exactly as posted there. But if I came from BP or TERB ad, rate can be 50 bucks less then posted on website.

    I don't want to say that this is common practice, not of course, but it happens.

    Below is copy from one current ad on TERB:

     

    1H - TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE - $400 (Terb $350)INCALL SPECIAL

    2H - BUILDING A MYSTERY - $800 (Terb $700)INCALL SPECIAL

  22. Posted

    I never could understand the logic and nature of these reviews / recommendations performance. Some of them are very popular and permanently gain views while others, very similar, stay in the shadow.

    This girl is out of business but her recommendation continues to be viewed. And what would be the reason - attractive picture, good title, combination of both? I don't have answer to this question...

  23. Posted

    Escorting is not about just physical satisfaction, it is about our fantasy, our dream. And if we find provider who is able to satisfy that dream - we repeat with that woman.

    Dream can be very different like GFE meaning can be different. For one person it is simply "Good Fucking Experience", and if it is really good this is the reason to repeat. For other guy it is real "Girl Friend Experience", desire to have someone who cares about you even if it is just for 1-2 hours. For the third person it is "Good Friend Experience", someone you can talk to about everything and who understands you...

    And if we find right person for our fantasy, for something we are missing - we repeat.

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    Amy (

    https://ifyouseekamy24.wixsite.com/home) is well review girl with interesting website, unusual adds, and specific approach to the business declared on her website: "I'm upbeat and positive because it's not a job and I'm not preoccupied with money."

    I wanted to meet her for a long time and when she let me know she would be hosting in Downtown hotel for several days I could not miss that opportunity.

    Booking appointment was easy and straight forward - a couples of emails, confirmation on the phone in the morning and then standard "spy movie" two step procedure: text to get hotel name, then text from the lobby for room number. And I have to say in advance that I was not disappointed.

     

    Room door opens and first impression... these big deep dark brown eyes looking at me a bit cautiously and inquiringly. Look at roses in my hands, smile, and eyes become warm and shiny.

     

    Amy is definitely not a spinner, she is not tall, curvy, feminine beauty with nice long dark hair and really big natural breasts created to play with. What to say about her service? First of all it is not a "service", and she is not a "service provider". I would call her "pleasure provider". Session with her is play, fun, giving pleasure to each other in many different ways, laughing, talking, fucking...and everything again in unpredictable order!

     

    Amy is a very good kisser - one of the best I met - and she likes kissing. Playing with her breast definitely gets her excited. She is very responsive to DATY, being vocal at some moments. Her BBBJ is sensual, wet, slow, deep, and irresistible. Amy is really good being om top in CG position changing the style of movements from time to time. She likes different forms of missionary, and is happy to experiment. During the play in different positions, she initially watched and encouraged me by comments on the process but shortly started enjoying herself and just moaned with the closed eyes. We finish second round in some variation of spoon which allows the clit stimulation. And as a final treat, I was offered a shower together which transformed naturally in one more round of BJ - nice end of the session!

     

    As a short summary: Amy is amazing positive person and incredible sex partner who likes to share her pleasure and happiness.

     

    PS. This girl has objective digital way to evaluate clients: she measures her physical activity during the session. You have to really perform during that hour to get high score. Lol! (not sure if mine was good :-))

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