clearbluesky15

Minor update: https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/london/sex-trade-charter-challenge-london-ontario-fantasy-world-escorts-1.5172469

Quick question... add says "No MS09" ... not sure I've heard of that... is that supposed to read "no MSOG"?

lol... btw this should have been "de-personalisation" ... darn spell checker.

I liked this contribution, and suspect it speaks to the heart of the back-and-forth on this thread. For the thread... I should probably skip, but "fools rush in where angels fear to tread"... so please be gentle with this fool (I'm calling myself the fool here). I note a couple themes: some of the top Halifax providers talking about how they want to ensure that their clients get full value from their session, a willingness to explore the spectrum of intensities for the benefit of the client, and I'd like to acknowledge a lot of work that goes into making someone feel comfortable and fulfilled. Those are all very positive things. I think as a recipient of all that effort, one could confuse the resultant experience as a preference from the SP for this or that... I liked Alexx' point about the distinction between her personal life (with partner or "Hitachi") and what she brings to clients. That work is very human, personal and intimate... sort of the opposite of any descriptor that implies denationalisation. I'm thinking, of an example (bear with me, I know this isn't exact) in clinical psychology / therapy... a rewarding career... it is also exhausting ... I suspect most patients would not say: "yeah Dr. Smith really likes talking about my mom." I suspect any satisfaction from that conversation would be in terms of helping someone, and having helped, taking deserved satisfaction. I know in my workplace I would like to feel appreciated as well as fairly paid :-). Anyway, my hope is that this is a useful contribution, and apologies in advance if not. -cbs

Agreed... intent was to cancel within the agreed timeframe or pay the fee... thought that went without saying.

Had a decent appointment a few days ago. I was a little surprised about some of her views, but they were heartfelt.

I'll admit, an hour before an appointment, I'd have my phone on me. I'd also recommend avoiding pre-paid SPs (unless you've seen them before), and if you change your mind about an appointment (bad vibe, or not in a good mental space for an appointment), cancel, preferably well in advance. I'd acknowledge that the SP communication wasn't perfect. That said, recommend moving on and learning for next time. -cbs

Why would one add more people / variables that increase risk of quite negative social and employment outcomes for both sp and client. Seems a high price vs finding a great incall or getting the ocasional room. Not sure i get the rationale.

2214 in Montreal has consistently high quality.

Are there selfless reasons for going back to the hobby?

I do find myself wondering how they recruit. Do they just put out an add in say, S Korea for a visit to Canada? Anyone ever ask? -cbs

Agreed. You're just shifting market position. I don't imagine many saying (I used to pay X, therefore I won't pay Y)... and if they do, I'm not sure if those are the best clients anyway :). -cbs

Suggest a look at her profile and posts: https://www.lyla.ch/profile/211938-victoria-phoenix/ -cbs

Well, I'm not sure I know who's doing it, and it may be SPs that have the best coping systems as they deal with this issue... but I'll take a swing 🙂 Have you noticed a pattern? Maybe the fakes are different in some way... don't know. If you don't already, suggest you have them call you back an hour before the appointment to verify (that seems to be the general practice)... maybe have them call from a particular spot (close to your in-call), and have them describe something not visible in Google maps... i.e... making it more work to fake... they'd have to drive somewhere, vs. simply faking it from the comfort of their home... similar to GreenTeal's example of "induced work." Also, I've sometimes heard SPs refer to "blacklists" of numbers in their posts/ads. Is that something that is a general resource (say either an existing or new thread in the SP area on lyla/CERB)... so that SPs can share "fake" appointment callers alongside bad-date info? Again, defer to the SPs here on resources. Some starter ideas... likely won't "impress," but hey, good ideas I find are usually developed over time rather than off-the-top. interested in how this thread evolves. -cbs

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