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I have been pondering a question that has been bothering me as of late. I am wondering why do certain people, and for the purpose of this thread by people I mean "the ladies," not respond in a prompt manner to email's or PM's? I have tried to contact a certain lady twice in the past week to week and a half. I have yet to get a response! I understand that I might not be worthy of a response if my messages were crude, ignorant, inappropriate or consisted of some other form disrespectful language. I think I can confidently say that I have NEVER posted or sent a disrespectful message! So I am left wondering does this person not want my business? Because that is essentially what we are all engaged in...a business of sorts. I can not for the life of me (wow that is a real Maritime saying) figure out why people do not respond to messages in a prompt manner. Obviously I have seen something in either her website, her profile or just her profile picture that caused me to explore a possible meeting. I also know that she has visited my profile page here on Cerb and would thus know that I am not some crazed axe murderer with a poor reputation. Having said all of that I realize that peoples lives are busy and complicated both personal and professional I mean. So obviously a little bit of time to respond is both given and expected but really a week and a half while still being active on Cerb?? If she does not want to meet could a simple reply stating that she is not available, not interested or possibly just has to wash her hair on that day be too much to ask? I must also clarify that not all ladies are this way, in fact before this I had yet to message a lady on Cerb who has not responded promptly and professionally! So there it is one of my annoyances as it were, so please ladies and gentlemen if you are contacted by someone be respectful enough to respond to the message in a polite and prompt manner!