Honey Man 12759 Report post Posted October 8, 2015 hugs but am not comfortable with one until I get to know someone a bit Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shaved 3174 Report post Posted October 8, 2015 A hug and then a kiss on both cheeks " face " let's not get carried away !! Then more hugs and kisse's LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted October 8, 2015 Well, lots of hugs it is then. I don't know - I just felt like I might be invading personal space with a hug. Seems I was very wrong about that! I'm very passionate once we get down to it - I don't want to give off the impression that I'm all business because that's NOT me at all! PS - Danielle...I really dig your profile pic. Rockin body! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mikeyboy 27104 Report post Posted October 14, 2015 Definitely the hug is preferred but I do like for her to make the first move. Anything else seems presumptuous to me with someone I am meeting for the first time. Your game, your rules. This can definitely set the mood for what is to come and put me at ease as well. Plus, you ladies usually smell so good up close that it starts my engine running. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Helena D'Orville 33237 Report post Posted October 14, 2015 No hand shake for sure, too cold and business like. Brrr... But definitely a big smile for a start, and "How are you, nice to meet you etc." and after this, if I sense that the gentleman is not too nervous to receive a hug, I will give him one. Sometimes giving a hug right away does not work for people who are stressed. I distract stressed/anxious gentlemen by asking them if they want to drink something (non alcoholic drink). It creates a little diversion for a moment while we talk. After that, they usually have no problem to move on to the hugs... and more ;-) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amelia Fox 9064 Report post Posted October 18, 2015 I'm a big hugger. I think a handshake would be awkward, considering what your clients visiting you for. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
farrell36 200 Report post Posted October 18, 2015 A hug for sure!!!! and some light kissing sometimes ;) A hand shake you kidding me, you their to get intimate with a gorgeous lady not close a deal for exemple for a oil company, suit to suits. :P YES hug, 100% :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted October 24, 2015 ALWAYS a hug! What the hell? Who gives a handshake?! Lol Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Eva Laperle 7898 Report post Posted November 1, 2015 Agree with the ladies, a handshake feels awkward and cold. As a companion who's naturally warm and welcoming, I'm all for making my guest feel comfortable and at ease. Isn't that why we are appreciated and sought after ? For our warm, charming and caring ways ? Gentlemen, let your lady welcome you with a warm hug and a most sensual kiss. I have no doubt what happens next will be a memorable, exquisite experience for you. As opposed to a very formal, distant & boring handshake. ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Prufrock Cummings Report post Posted July 23, 2016 A hug is a nice way to ease into things. Just not the I got a touchdown slap-slap hug ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pete Gass 2483 Report post Posted July 23, 2016 The couple of times I did not receive a welcoming hug all did not go as hoped. To me a hug and or kiss is a sign that your time with the lady will likely be a positive experience , it breaks the ice and in my mind leads me to think she is happy to see me which removes any nerves, relaxes me which leads to a more enjoyable visit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FunElement12 974 Report post Posted July 23, 2016 I think the first time I got a hug without a kiss. I was nervous so I can't completely recall. I do know that I did not initiate the hug but It did put me at ease and relax abit. Now that I visit regularly we always hug and kiss when I arrive. Also a hug and kiss at the end. A handshake would seem too cold. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Campfunfinder 102 Report post Posted July 23, 2016 Hugs always. It set the mood for proper chemistry soon to follow. If a gentleman can't take a hug, what is he expecting out of the session? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest st*****ens**ors Report post Posted July 24, 2016 I don't know that I've ever been given a hug on arrival. No, that isn't true, I recall once. However, I don't think I've ever left an encounter without at least a few hugs. No handshakes though, not ever. That would be odd. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dbass34 2238 Report post Posted February 10, 2018 Bumping up this old threat of almost 2 years that I find interesting... Would love to hear what people have to say today about that. For me, hug is definitively the way. But I respect the lady's boundaries so when I walk in a place, I let the lady make the move of hug or what else. If she give me a handshake, so be it and I'll know that it will probably be a "cold business" encounter. Rare, but it did happen a few time. If she hugs me (please don't tap in my back like you console me... it's worst than a handshake.. lolll), I feel it should be a good session. BUT..., if she welcomes me with a little kiss, following by a little caress on the other cheek... it may not be a business transaction, but I know I'm in business!!! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103696 Report post Posted February 10, 2018 I'm a very affectionate person so hugs all around, I love to hug and be hugged! A handshake? Not my style, if a hand is offered I may tilt my head to the side, smile and give that person a hug. No handshakes when I accept and invite you to spend quality time with me. It seems cold.... A kiss may happen as well, depending on who the guest is and my vibe I get after the hug but more times than not there's a kiss especially with regular guests. Always a parting hug and a chat as I walk my guest to the door, a number of times certain guests and I are talking, laughing and have at times given each other a high five after a really fun encounter. May seem strange but you'd have to have been there and heard the conversation. :icon_wink: 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gregsand 6116 Report post Posted February 10, 2018 In the context of FS, a hug should be natural. If a provider tries to weasel out of it, this should raise concerns and prompt an honest discussion before taking care of business. If for a massage, the choice of a handshake or hug should set the tone on the type of service offered. Even if not an RMT, a therapist who greets a new client with a handshake makes it clear she will remain professional and to not expect more. Well, that's the way I see it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MelissaBlaze 1211 Report post Posted February 14, 2018 I would go for the hug!! ox 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IsaMassage 54318 Report post Posted February 14, 2018 i have to say i dont ever do hand shakes.. nor i go for the big hug.. i always say hi with big smile and a kiss on the cheek if is the first time ... To be honest i just kind of let my visitor approach me depending on his comfort level.. But Never a Hand shake... thats a no no ... 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Double Vee 1035 Report post Posted March 27, 2018 Hug! Unless you plan to discuss real estate or run for politics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest P*rry Report post Posted April 6, 2018 There is no doubt - a hug. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Julia Sky 1071 Report post Posted April 9, 2018 I'm definitely part of the hug team hahah ! I suck at handshakes anyways. Hug & kiss is the way to go ! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Smallguy 110 Report post Posted April 16, 2018 I like hugs, so I guess next time I meet a lady I will go for a hug. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jeastman 159 Report post Posted April 20, 2018 I've been lucky, I've never received a handshake, always a hug. Whenever I meet someone new, I don't assume - I'm in their space, we're just meeting each other, and I want them to be comfortable with me. In all cases, the lady has always warmly hugged me, which is a great ice-breaker. Even better, the hug usually includes a warm, slow kiss (or 3) - THAT sets the mood, and melts the rest of our world away. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WildTiger 1296 Report post Posted May 26, 2018 I'm a hugger but I wait for the lady to initiates it. A hug creates an instant chemistry and sets the mood. Although a generalization, I have found that the few less than satisfying encounters I've had have started out with the lady maintaining a distance. But I do understand that some ladies may be waiting to "feel" things out and gain a feeling of comfort and security before heating up. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
