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As a relatively new person to the scene, I stepped into this with no prior knowledge or experience with donations or expectations. For me financially, it was what it was, and initially I thought that it was indeed rather pricey.

 

I have always in all things been a believer in the "you get what you pay for" cliche. I knew that I wanted classy, personal, relaxed, unrushed and new experiences and I have had no disappointments at all.

 

Truthfully, I find it especially hard to see how travelling SP's make it financially successful when one looks at the cost of travel (often by air), the use of upscale hotels, clothing and lingerie, and then food on the road is never inexpensive. Combine that with some of the references to no shows that I have seen, then I believe that the costs to me are well within what could be termed as a fair and reasonable range.

 

If we want to have the quality experiences that I believe most are having, then we must support those who work in it.

 

That being said, would I support lower donation rates? Of course, but I understand the impact that would ultimately have on both the women who are developing a business and the men who want the quality experiences that we are so fortunate to be able to have.

 

All I have to do is learn how to budget appropriately and work on my self-control. :)

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Ladies are ALWAYS going to charge what they want whether the rest of us approve or not. Some ladies would rather be HIGH volume at a lower rate than chance not having a booking at a high rate. It all comes down to what she wants to charge and how much she wants to work. In a time where people are hungry for business some will do anything to get it. You have to not let it get to you and remember that there is something for everyone and sometimes it takes time to find it. Clients will book you for you and your experience that you offer, not your price(if it is out of budget they will save up if they really want to visit (like anything if you want it you will save)) In 6 years this business has gone from one extreme to the next and you really can't let it get to you.

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You lovely ladies are far too important to me for money to be an issue...I never question "rates",It all boils down to,"Do you want be there or not!":motion:

If yes,then the "rate" is fair,IMO.

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I never thought about it until I read it, but prices too low would make me suspicious to try a girl. I do also think the other way, that there could be the better than everyone else attitude if a girl is charging more than the norm also.

 

I also find it interesting that some girls can charge $300/hr, and stay in really nice 4-500 a night hotels, and not seem to be distressed for money, and others are in quite a bit less than upscale hotel, charging the same, and unhappy about how much they make.

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I also find it interesting that some girls can charge $300/hr, and stay in really nice 4-500 a night hotels, and not seem to be distressed for money, and others are in quite a bit less than upscale hotel, charging the same, and unhappy about how much they make.

 

I beleive it has to do on how a lady perceives her accomodations; I see it as a temporary investment that is part of

the whole experience shared with my gentlemen.

 

Entertaining in an upscale hotel suite that provide some luxuries one might not come across in everyday life, for example, a jacuzzi for 2 filled with bubbles by candle light, can be quite appealing for many as opposed to a regular room or a "quite a bit less then upscale hotel" (just using your wording) or a room that has a "motel feel" to it.

 

I know that for some gentlemen that the ladies' choice of accomodations can be a deterrent.

On a few occasions I have heard the following:

"The lady I decided to see last week/month was very nice and sweet but you should've seen where she stayed.

I was not impressed at all..."

IF it's the ladie's habit to stay in those types of rooms/hotels, will the gentlemen repeat if they are not comfortable with their surroundings? I highly doubt it.

 

Just like in any other business, sometimes you have to spend money to make money!

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IF it's the ladie's habbit to stay in those types of rooms/hotels, will the gentlemen repeat if they are not comfortable with their surroundings? I highly doubt it.

 

unless of course she got some bad *bad* advice :redface:

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I know that for some gentlemen that the ladies' choice of accomodations can be a deterrent.

On a few occasions I have heard the following:

"The lady I decided to see last week/month was very nice and sweet but you should've seen where she stayed.

I was not impressed at all..."

 

This has happened to me in various cities because I have different criteria than the clients when it comes to accomodations. As I am going to be there for a few days up to a week (when I was touring regularly) I need to feel comfortable. Clients are there for two hours at the most.

 

I need for the beds to be uber comfortable. I need for there to be great towels and high end bathrooms. I need there to be great room service and a discrete supportive staff. Toilets that constantly run, super loud ventilation, bad water pressure... these are things I really do not enjoy.

 

The location may not be ideal for some but it is for others. If I stay downtown the hotel is good for those who walk to see me during their lunch break. Not so good for those who need parking during the day.

 

Its impossible to please every one.

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This has happened to me in various cities because I have different criteria than the clients when it comes to accomodations. As I am going to be there for a few days up to a week (when I was touring regularly) I need to feel comfortable. Clients are there for two hours at the most.

I need for the beds to be uber comfortable. I need for there to be great towels and high end bathrooms...

Indeed!

The location may not be ideal for some but it is for others. If I stay downtown the hotel is good for those who walk to see me during their lunch break. Not so good for those who need parking during the day.

Its impossible to please every one.

 

I referring to the hotel/suite quality (or lack of) in itself and not the location.

I know that for some gentlemen that the ladies' choice of accomodations can be a deterrent.

On a few occasions I have heard the following:

"The lady I decided to see last week/month was very nice and sweet but you should've seen where she stayed. I was not impressed at all..."

IF it's the ladie's habit to stay in those types of rooms/hotels, will the gentlemen repeat if they are not comfortable with their surroundings? I highly doubt it.

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When I first started working, I dived in headfirst and did zero research. I was already seeing clients in my home before I even realized it was illegal and before I even knew escort review boards existed. And I really barely even knew about Craigslist, so I didn't even have much for comparison in the way of going rates. As a result, my first rates were super cheap and by the act, rather than the time. Then I learned very quickly that if you charge by the act, you could be there for ages because guys will take advantage of your time if there is no time limit. I posted mostly on Craigslist and was frustrated by the responses and the constant questions and back and forth emails and I eventually ended up with the Playgirls because I didn't want to deal with any of the administration stuff. From there, I found out about the various review boards and started reading up about the work and talking to other providers and so forth.

 

By the time that I was working both independently doing incalls and for the Playgirls doing outcalls, I had a pretty good idea of what the going rates were in Ottawa and for my particular niche and since then not much as changed, except that I got into fetish work (which I charge more for, because it is more work and because I can afford to charge more--there are lots of fetish requests, but few providers).

 

I do not think that those who charge less are degrading themselves, and these days I barely even pay attention to other SP's rates. The worst thing you can do in this business (I think) is compare yourself to others. You will always end up falling short, because you are your own worst critic.

 

Edit: I realized this was kind of unclear, but my general point was, the only time you really need to check out others' rates is if you are new and just starting and have no idea what going rates are. Once you're settled and have a bit more experience under your belt, then it doesn't make much sense to compare yourself.

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