Phonecalls from the Wife.

[Guest L*x* B]

Well,  I was on the phone,  and his SO grabbed it,  I could hear the argument bla bla bla. I told her I'm his Barber,  and she said she knew but why was he on the phone talking to me about bla bla bla. I said I'm still an apprentice and I have been out of town and my Boss was upset cuz I made people show up for missed appointments when I wasn't even there and they were there specifically see Me,  so I was calling my clients to explain bla bla bla. I feel so bad hearing her voice. Anyone else ever have a wife call? U gotta be prepared for that without even being prepared! Xox

[Guest]

        There so many ways to communicate discreetly, I'm not sure why this kind scenario still happens. If he's married, he should be the jumping through hoops to make this work, not you.

  You did the best to bail him out. But if he spoke to you with the wife around, he kinda deserves to get caught.

[Guest L*x* B]

2 minutes ago, Greenteal said:

        There so many ways to communicate discreetly, I'm not sure why this kind scenario still happens. If he's married, he should be the jumping through hoops to make this work, not you.

  You did the best to bail him out. But if he spoke to you with the wife around, he kinda deserves to get caught.

I made it seem real,  cuz I am his Barber.  However... 

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, Lexi Bourgeau said:

I made it seem real,  cuz I am his Barber.  However... 

 I understand. But the reason it happened was because he was careless and the wife noticed something was off. He never should have put you into that situation. Taking the call outside or limiting communications to txt would have avoided the incident.

[Guest L*x* B]

1 hour ago, Greenteal said:

 I understand. But the reason it happened was because he was careless and the wife noticed something was off. He never should have put you into that situation. Taking the call outside or limiting communications to txt would have avoided the incident.

I totally agree.  He called me,  a liar,  just because I hadn't replied for a cpl days.  I told him I'm not always at his beck and call,  as should nobody in life,  in any relationship. It really doesn't matter,  I did my part,  and very well,  and that's all that matters.  Thank you for your feedback because it validates my thoughts.  Xox ur gonna get a discount, if we ever meet. xox

[Guest]

And if he called you. He really deserves the "Bonehead" award. lol

[Phaedrus 209521]

Calling an escort with his wife within earshot? The guy deserves everything he gets just for sheer stupidity. Good on you for trying to minimize the damage, though. It can't have been much fun.

[Jasmine Rain 23126]

This title is misleading because this is NOT the way most wives end up on the phone with you. 

 

This guy needs to be blacklisted by you. He sounds way over the top, completely disrespectful to you and his wife. 

 

Most times, if a wife is contacting it is via investigation. 

 

I don't put a number on my site or my ad, partly for this reason. Discretion. I don't show my face too for the same reason. When you are actively involved privately in people's lives, you have to discrete. Can't show my face publicly as an escort if I do dinner dates with clients all around town. So no phone number on my site or ads means no googling that number for wives. 

 

Anyway,  I don't answer phones calls to those who have my number. Only text unless we arrange a phone call. 

 

So if a wife contacts me, it would be by email most likely. To which I would ignore. 

 

If it was by text, I would probably ignore to because I feel I would tell right away even if she didn't come out and say anything. 

 

I would then email him and him and let him know his phone is compromised. 

 

My job and loyalty are to my client. Not their wife.  This is not a sisterhood. This is business. 

[Ice4fun 78396]

Ensuring that my wife is not aware of my play time is totally my responsibly and not the wonderful ladies I am meeting.  If they end up talking I would suspect it is my stupidity.

 

 

[fortunateone 156618]

On 7/26/2018 at 4:41 PM, Greenteal said:

 I understand. But the reason it happened was because he was careless and the wife noticed something was off. He never should have put you into that situation. Taking the call outside or limiting communications to txt would have avoided the incident.

sorry, but writing out the entire conversation would simply have confirmed that it is an escort/client relationship.  One should never text details like this, & if you have to, make sure entire history is deleted lol.   hearing only one side of a conversation can be explained away but a text saying he missed his bj appt on tuesday, not so much

[Guest]

4 minutes ago, fortunateone said:

sorry, but writing out the entire conversation would simply have confirmed that it is an escort/client relationship.  One should never text details like this, & if you have to, make sure entire history is deleted lol.   hearing only one side of a conversation can be explained away but a text saying he missed his bj appt on tuesday, not so much

 Most lobbyists are responsible adults with their own ways of covering their tracks. Like Lexi explained, he called her when his wife was around. 

 In term of carelessness and stupidity, it's hard to beat.

[Ice4fun 78396]

8 hours ago, fortunateone said:

sorry, but writing out the entire conversation would simply have confirmed that it is an escort/client relationship.  One should never text details like this, & if you have to, make sure entire history is deleted lol.   hearing only one side of a conversation can be explained away but a text saying he missed his bj appt on tuesday, not so much

There are lots of apps designed to strip text and calls from the phone/text log and hide them away in a hidden file folder that is password protected.  If you use the new BlackBerry Key2 it has s built in "Locker" app that hide away apps, files and pictures with an independent security feature (Password or fingerprint)

https://www.gadgethacks.com

Effectively my wife can use my phone and I have no concerns not only can she not see the app, text, pictures, videos and phone alls I have hidden but the actual Locker app does not show in the APP listing.

There are ways to keep communication secure but let's face it if you call a lady while your wife is there with you??  There is no cure for stupid.

Just my Opinion

[peacectryguy 12523]

I think, aside from the stupidity of calling while the wife was nearby, the real problem I have with this guy is that he feels it's okay to harass an escort about "not being available" whenever he pleases. Rule #1 in seeing escorts is mutual respect. His actions show a serious lack of it, imo. 

The ladies I have seen on multiple occasions and I consider friends in this biz have always done their utmost to accommodate me and treat me well and when the very odd time has happened that they were already booked or didn't call back right away, I was understanding and courteous about it. You women can't be everything for everybody all the time. It's just a fact of life. Being selfish and petty serves no purpose. That is my 2 cents fwiw.

[Guest L*x* B]

Thank you. It's nice to have normal people on my side. It's definitely a difficult lifestyle. I've read, all that has been written, and it's very hurtful. Always 2 sides.  

Thank you to my fans that keep me strong. Luv you. Xox

[Guest L*x* B]

On 8/4/2018 at 9:00 AM, Jessica Rain said:

This title is misleading because this is NOT the way most wives end up on the phone with you. 

 

This guy needs to be blacklisted by you. He sounds way over the top, completely disrespectful to you and his wife. 

 

Most times, if a wife is contacting it is via investigation. 

 

I don't put a number on my site or my ad, partly for this reason. Discretion. I don't show my face too for the same reason. When you are actively involved privately in people's lives, you have to discrete. Can't show my face publicly as an escort if I do dinner dates with clients all around town. So no phone number on my site or ads means no googling that number for wives. 

 

Anyway,  I don't answer phones calls to those who have my number. Only text unless we arrange a phone call. 

 

So if a wife contacts me, it would be by email most likely. To which I would ignore. 

 

If it was by text, I would probably ignore to because I feel I would tell right away even if she didn't come out and say anything. 

 

I would then email him and him and let him know his phone is compromised. 

 

My job and loyalty are to my client. Not their wife.  This is not a sisterhood. This is business. 

Nope. I was taken off gaurd. 

 

[Rambler1980 1359]

On 7/26/2018 at 8:11 PM, Lexi Bourgeau said:

Well,  I was on the phone,  and his SO grabbed it. I said ... I was calling my clients to explain bla bla bla ...

 

Did you call him? Or did he call you?

[Guest]

8 minutes ago, Rambler1980 said:

 

Did you call him? Or did he call you?

She already replied to that.

 

On ‎7‎/‎26‎/‎2018 at 9:04 PM, Lexi Bourgeau said:

He called me,  a liar,  just because I hadn't replied for a cpl days.  

 

[Rambler1980 1359]

7 minutes ago, Greenteal said:

She already replied to that.

 

 

 

If you look at her full sentence I think it would most likely be read "He called me a liar just because I hadn't replied for a cpl days. ".

Where if you take the first part of her sentence as "He called me." then first off she didn't answer a question that was being asked in the post she replied to and it makes the 2nd part of the sentence read "[A] liar,  just because I hadn't replied for a cpl days." which is kind of a nonsense sentence. 

Regardless I would prefer her answer the question herself. 

[Guest]

5 minutes ago, Rambler1980 said:

 

If you look at her full sentence I think it would most likely be read "He called me a liar just because I hadn't replied for a cpl days. ". If you take the first part of her sentence as "He called me." then first off she didn't answer a question that was being asked in the post she replied to and it makes the 2nd part of the sentence read "A liar,  just because I hadn't replied for a cpl days." which is kind of a nonsense sentence. 

Regardless I would prefer her answer the question herself. 

  She separated "He called me" and "a liar" with a commas. When you read and understand the context behind the call , it's quite clear she didn't made it.

  Also, she thanked my following comment when I called him a bonehead for calling her with his wife around.

 If that's not a confirmation, not sure what is.

[Guest L*x* B]

On 12/4/2018 at 1:36 AM, Lexi Bourgeau said:

 

Just when I thought we were all getting along. My bad for even putting it out there. Merry Christmas to all....

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Lexi Bourgeau said:

Just when I thought we were all getting along. My bad for even putting it out there. Merry Christmas to all....

  It's not about not getting along,  just a minor confusion of who called who.

[Guest L*x* B]

5 hours ago, Greenteal said:

  It's not about not getting along,  just a minor confusion of who called who.

He called me, I was hanging up. Minga......Screw you.

 

[Guest L*x* B]

Ciao. I'm done with this home board too. Screw this.......

[Guest L*x* B]

On 12/4/2018 at 2:11 PM, Greenteal said:

  She separated "He called me" and "a liar" with a commas. When you read and understand the context behind the call , it's quite clear she didn't made it.

  Also, she thanked my following comment when I called him a bonehead for calling her with his wife around.

 If that's not a confirmation, not sure what is.

I was the one, receiving the phonecall. I know, I didn't make the freki n phonecall, and the rest is history. Join the bandwagon. I'm done with the boards. No one knows anything and everyone hides behind words. Screw this. Ciao. 

[Rambler1980 1359]

6 hours ago, Lexi Bourgeau said:

He called me, I was hanging up. Minga......Screw you.

 

 

6 hours ago, Lexi Bourgeau said:

Ciao. I'm done with this home board too. Screw this.......

 

5 hours ago, Lexi Bourgeau said:

I was the one, receiving the phonecall. I know, I didn't make the freki n phonecall, and the rest is history. Join the bandwagon. I'm done with the boards. No one knows anything and everyone hides behind words. Screw this. Ciao. 

 

All I asked was if he called you or you called him. If you'd called him it would have explained how his wife got involved, if he called you it really shows what an idiot he was.