Visiting your home

[maxwell6612 100]

I work from my house and have the full days to myself, however during the day I am not mobile so I am considering having an sp visit my home.

 

What I am worried about is discretion. A car in the driveway, girl dressed to sexy...etc

 

So I was wondering if you guys would be kind enough to place a few recommendations in this thread on girls who offer the PSE experience but are respected enough on here to be considered.

 

The sexier the better. Also I am new to this and doing it from home would just feel a lot more relaxing to me than a hotel or a strange place.

 

Thank you for the help of the community and I look forward to reading the recs.

[E.D. man 691]

If you are 30 and over I suggest Sin Cindy!

Otherwise check the reco section and then check the advertising section and see if they match up.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I would pick a well-reviewed lady and communicate your concerns to her. Are you concerned about her showing up in something sexy? Let her know!

 

I would suggest checking out Berlin. From what I hear, she's seen quite a few clients with mobility issues, etc.

[Mister T 45020]

If you are 30 and over I suggest Sin Cindy!

Otherwise check the reco section and then check the advertising section and see if they match up.

 

I agree with ED Man on Sin Cindy. To add to Megan's post, if you go with an agency (PKJason has ladies offering PSE) and are worried a driver remaining in your driveway, you can always ask questions when making your initial contact.

[Peachka 4334]

I think Maxwell is referring to a lack of transportation during the day rather than a disability. ie The wife has the car to go to work. BTW if this is the case, you could be taking a chance here if you have noisy neighbors.

 

A little research will give you your answer of which SP to see!

[Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881]

I understand what you are asking for and just as Peachka ponited out, I believe you are referring to lack of transportation but you also express discretion to be your major concern and

Yes, I have no doubt you can find a very discreet lady here but again as Peachka said it takes one noisy neighbour, or the wrong person at the wrong place (yours) or even worse your wife having to go back home for some reason to this not ending the way you expect.

 

I'm speculating here as you did not provide us with many details but is it worth the risk? Perhaps looking for a lady located close to your place and you taking a cab there could be an option?

[moonshine 399]

I would suggest checking out Berlin. From what I hear' date=' she's seen quite a few clients with mobility issues, etc.[/quote']

 

I could be wrong but it came across to me that his mobility issues were related to working from home, so he's stuck there during the day - not from a physical disability.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I have received over 200 ladies at home since past three years (I am outcall only) and very few of them are dressed sexy. Mostly they wear casual especially daytime but even those minority visiting in the evening. Most wish to look like the girl next door but when you communicate with them you can simply ask them to dress casual . For example in the summer time I ask them to wear mini skirts (not casual but that is what I like)...

 

On the driver question (I have no issue with that as I don't live in a house), but again you can ask... Past couple of weeks a driver was coming over with the girl right to my apartment (I understand if I am a first timer to check out safety of the environment but every time I call for a new girl....) so after a second time I asked for the lady to come up alone and it was gracefully accepted (and explained to me that the second time was a mistake and will not happen again).

 

Can't help wth PSE question as I only take those who are GFE but would recommend sweet Vanessa (vansweet) who is visiting Ottawa tomorrow. But I wouldn't worry too much on the discretion side of the outcall.

[Playinginottawa 165]

I have only just returned to the hobby after a long break. I would concur with SA's sentiments on this. Communicate your concerns with whomever you choose to work with and I am sure something can be worked out.

 

The well dressed sexy business woman coming to the door has always been one of my favorite ways to kick off a session which works as well during the day as it does at night. (just my mind wandering to the gutter)

 

Cheers

 

Play safe

[Kubrickfan 12836]

Do you have really nosy neighbors or something like that? I guess that could be a concern, but generally I dont think that is much of a problem. I agree with SA that the best way is to express the concern to the agency or lady in question.

 

And if you do have nosy neighbors, heck you could have her bring a briefcase or notebook to throw people off the trail. Or even a vacuum cleaner, but I dont know how I'd explain that last one to the agency (smile).

[roamingguy 300291]

Geez, why does this Seinfeld episode come to mind

 

http://www.tbs.com/video/index/0,,42958%7C%7C,00.html

 

RG

[VedaSloan 119179]

When I worked for the Playgirls, a few clients were concerned about their neighbours and asked to have me dropped off one or two houses down and then I'd just walk up. No one's the wiser.

[Satin 1237]

I agree with Kubrickfan. Just ask your SP of choice if she can bring a briefcase (a good place to hide the boots?) and to not dress to provocatively upon arrival. No harm in asking for these sorts of things.

[frosty 1349]

You could have them (the sp's comming to see you) dress up as a UPS courrier,Canada post employee,or meter reader for....you pick the utility

 

Maybe some roleplaying mmmmmmmmmmmmm

[Andee 220524]

I have been doing out-calls to private residences for years, and I always dress like a "regular" person (especially during the day). A car can be parked down the street, or if getting a drive, as Berlin suggested, the lady can be dropped off down the block and walk up.

 

I know someone who used to wear "scrubs" when she went on out-calls so she'd look like a visiting nurse.

 

Bear in mind that there are SPs who do not provide out-calls to private residences. The ones that do, often will require a land line telephone number in order to verify the authenticity of your address.

 

There are some who are more lenient and don't mind just a cell number.

 

It's best to check out this out ahead of time.

[Chanel Reign 28097]

I always dress business and carry a briefcase. When doing hotel outcalls I also have "business" paraphernalia IN my case, just in case. There might be a few surprises in there as well! :wink:

 

Also, upscale hotels are no place to arrive looking like you're ready to film porn. You are just asking for trouble. Discretion is required by both parties.

 

For me, the clock doesn't start ticking until I am redressed, freshened up and exit the washroom.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

To OP, remember that outcalls are legal so as far as your nosy neighbors concerned there isn't much they can do legally, though yes I undertand they could cause problems in other ways...

 

It has happened (in fact many times) that when I greet my guests upon arrival at the elevator door or walk them back to the elevator (as I don't wish them feel abandoned) or on those occasions with some indies or private dancers whom I give a ride back (so we walk together to the garage) we come across neighbors often (usually my immediate neighbor who continuosly walk his small cute puppy). We walk also like two in love not strangers. So they have seen me with all these different girls and likely they wonder what the heck is going on with me!!! or I must be a real ladies man lol. They almost always smile and even say Hi but not sure what they are thinking in their minds lol. No one can be this lucky to be with so many different girls lol!!. As I mentioned earlier almost all guests are dressed casually looking like the girl next door. The other good thing is that it is a very quiet classy complex but I can see potential problems in some neighborhoods but as I said remember that in outcalls you are not breaking any law and even nosy neighbors can't do much as long as you are careful while in public place (lobby, driveway, corridors). Close the door first and ask questions later lol!! :-).

[Andee 220524]

To OP, remember that outcalls are legal so as far as your nosy neighbors concerned there isn't much they can do legally, though yes I undertand they could cause problems in other ways...

 

It has happened (in fact many times) that when I greet my guests upon arrival at the elevator door or walk them back to the elevator (as I don't wish them feel abandoned) or on those occasions with some indies or private dancers whom I give a ride back (so we walk together to the garage) we come across neighbors often (usually my immediate neighbor who continuosly walk his small cute puppy). We walk also like two in love not strangers. So they have seen me with all these different girls and likely they wonder what the heck is going on with me!!! or I must be a real ladies man lol. They almost always smile and even say Hi but not sure what they are thinking in their minds lol. No one can be this lucky to be with so many different girls lol!!. As I mentioned earlier almost all guests are dressed casually looking like the girl next door. The other good thing is that it is a very quiet classy complex but I can see potential problems in some neighborhoods but as I said remember that in outcalls you are not breaking any law and even nosy neighbors can't do much as long as you are careful while in public place (lobby, driveway, corridors). Close the door first and ask questions later lol!! :-).

 

I don't want to hijack this thread, but I am surprised by your statement about greeting the ladies at the elevator.

 

You are worried about breaking the law by only doing out-calls, but yet you meet the lady at the elevator which is still considered a public place, is it not? That would make me feel very uncomfortable, not abandoned.

 

I would take the necessary precautions to ensure that I get a ride to pick me up and drop me off if I was concerned about walking back to my car alone as I do not believe this is the clients' responsibility.

 

But you are right - there is little your neighbours can do about you having female company if you aren't breaking any other laws (like excessive noise, impeding parking, etc.)

[whiteman 14028]

When I first started hobbying, naturally being a newb, I didn't know what to expect. I called an agency, and they sent an SP over to my place. I was watching from my window to see when she got there so that I can let her in quickly without any neighbours getting too much of a glimpse of anything. When she got there, she parked right in the driveway, got out wearing some of the most micro-mini dress I've ever seen, and walked toward my door! Seeing the dress, my heart started racing, not in anticipation of seeing her, but of having any neighbours see her. When she got in the door, I discovered later that she wasn't even wearing any underwear! Now of course, this is both a dream-come-true and a nightmare-come-true. :)

 

I didn't know back then that I could complain to the agency about this behaviour, so I just kept silent. But from that point onwards, I made sure I explained to all the agencies each time to tell them not to park in the driveway and to dress appropriately.

[roamingguy 300291]

When I first started hobbying, naturally being a newb, I didn't know what to expect. I called an agency, and they sent an SP over to my place. I was watching from my window to see when she got there so that I can let her in quickly without any neighbours getting too much of a glimpse of anything. When she got there, she parked right in the driveway, got out wearing some of the most micro-mini dress I've ever seen, and walked toward my door! Seeing the dress, my heart started racing, not in anticipation of seeing her, but of having any neighbours see her. When she got in the door, I discovered later that she wasn't even wearing any underwear! Now of course, this is both a dream-come-true and a nightmare-come-true. :)

 

I didn't know back then that I could complain to the agency about this behaviour, so I just kept silent. But from that point onwards, I made sure I explained to all the agencies each time to tell them not to park in the driveway and to dress appropriately.

 

Anyone asks, just say she was a Jehovah's Witness going door to door, and you invited her in because you were thinking of converting.

Sorry, couldn't resist

RG

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I don't want to hijack this thread, but I am surprised by your statement about greeting the ladies at the elevator.

 

You are worried about breaking the law by only doing out-calls, but yet you meet the lady at the elevator which is still considered a public place, is it not? That would make me feel very uncomfortable, not abandoned.

 

I would take the necessary precautions to ensure that I get a ride to pick me up and drop me off if I was concerned about walking back to my car alone as I do not believe this is the clients' responsibility.

 

But you are right - there is little your neighbours can do about you having female company if you aren't breaking any other laws (like excessive noise, impeding parking, etc.)

 

I don't wish to hijack the thread either but I just saw your post and I must respond to your comments!!!

 

I am both surprised and confused by your comments Angela. I greet my guests at the elevator and yes it is a public place but we don't solicitate or have sex we just say hi and if it is a second visit we kiss. None of this is illegal. After the date is over, I escort the lady back to the elevator (while we both are fully dressed) may be walking hand in hand again there is nothing illegal about this either. And if they don't have a ride (if they come by themselves) then I offer them a ride back home or to their hotels again while we are both fully dressed but at most may be hand in hand, Again nothing illegal about it. So I am totally confused about your comments questioning the legally of my actions!!!!!. What is illegal about any of these????!!!!.

 

Please note that the law says:

Solicitation in public is illegal not greeting your guest in public to say hi. And I have the envelope for her on the table INSIDE the living room of my place of residence (a PRIVATE place) and she can only see it AFTER the door is closed . therefore none of the laws are broken. NONE.

 

If you don't wish to be greeted in public you can simply ask your date (or if you prefer to refer to him as your client) not to greet you at the elevator. Is it better for you to knock on his door instead???. I don't think so. And you can always turn down the offer for the ride (I NEVER insist. Just being friendly) and lastly I do not regard them as SPs but rather guests and dates and I hope that they regard me mutually as friend rather than just a passing client.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

SA - Even though you know that you wouldn't solicit services, the lady doesn't know you and this can create anxiety.

 

I personally find it very indiscreet.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I find anxiety about solicitation at the elevator door very far fetched to come to anyone's mind really!!!! when my apartment is only 10 seconds away lol!!!. Anyways the post by Angela was not about anxiety that you posted Megan. She questioned the legality of my actions!!!!!! (greeting a visiting lady at the elevator door or giving her a ride back).

 

I very much rather greeting them at the elevator rather than them KNOCKING on my door. I find the latter VERY indiscreet!!!. And how they can get in if I ask them not to knock!!!!!!and don't greet them at the elevator either!!!!!!!

 

Secondly they are mostly repeats and hence they know my way.

 

To respond to anxiety comment, I have met over 200 different ladies at the elevator door and not a single case of anxiety or a single case of a repeat asking me not to greet her at the elevator door. Frankly I find even hinting about the lack of legality of greeting a lady in public or giving a ride back very strange (the post by Angela), to say the least. It is more discreet to knock on their doors??!!.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

It is more discreet to knock on their doors??!!.

Well I do have a no-knock policy. Maybe I'm a bit fussy, but most people seem to appreciate the care I give to ensure their discretion and my own.

 

I'm not judging you, just informing you that yes, it does happen that a gentleman will meet a lady and be completely inappropriate with his conversation. This is normally at hotels that have elevator keys.

 

Remember, SA, we see a lot in this industry.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Yes I understand that Megan and my guess is that Angela's comments were general comments regarding the lot in this industry greeting SPs in a hotels at the elevator doors (even though she quoted me and questioned the legality of my actions I don't think she specifically was addressing me). Just to clarify, all I say is hi and ask them if they have had a nice day so far and for first timers, if they found my place easy and yes sometimes we talk about the weather too :-). And 10 -15 seconds later we are inside my private residence (where I live, not a hotel).