Boomer 33202 Report post Posted October 20, 2018 I am a great fan of YouTube. I just watched a very interesting and thoughtful TED talk by Esther Perel titled Rethinking infidelity. I would highly recommend it as it's provocative and food for thought on a subject familiar I would think to the majority of members of the board. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HenryOcean 196 Report post Posted October 23, 2018 I have watched this! She does explain it very well I feel many individuals on these sites bend the definition of infidelity A friend who referred lyla to me explained that if it is not being provided at home (i was shocked when he said less than twice a month), just wanting the touch of a woman and release to keep the spark alive at home bc he does love his SO he just has a much higher libido. He does not have sex nor kiss SPs ... oddly I could see where he was coming from with his reasoning and that many other could be in the same situation As she had mentioned... its not all about the sex but more about the desire 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted October 23, 2018 18 minutes ago, HenryOcean said: As she had mentioned... its not all about the sex but more about the desire As poetic as it sound, good luck getting a judge to swallow this in a divorce case. Better to negotiate an open relationship or to smart and not get caught. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
viridian728 55 Report post Posted October 26, 2018 (edited) If you are looking for something from someone else other than your significant other, its infidelity. You can try to convince yourself or others that its not the case but in the end it is what it is Edited October 26, 2018 by viridian728 spelling 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
