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Hey guys, I've put together some tips and guidance to help out the "rookie guys" when dealing with pure TOFTT in regards to unproven un-established independent escorts. It's still a draft but fairly advanced. What do you think of it so far? If you have any constructive recommendations to help improve it, please let me know and I'll incorporate it 🙂

Link: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tLf9Ka6dI6Tb4XLFr18cuPruHrMyUZwxC6Q1VsOMBSk/edit#

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On 4/21/2019 at 12:16 PM, huh said:

thanks, great info!!

Thanks man. Following feedback, the guidance has already been revised. It is a live document so I'd recommend checking it once in a while. There's already new sections being drafted ;)

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As an do I think this is a great idea to help the newer pooners/ hobbyist out .

It helps us our too . I'm grateful for my regular guys . However I notice as well as speaking with other sps . We do loose business as well as it would help us on our end if these tgtbt girls and bait and switch or fakes were more monitored and not receiving business 

 

The only thing I might add that I somewhat disagree is the text picture as proof . Selfies can always be photoshopped 

I was sending proof picture and half the time it was a dud appointment or the guy was not serious to begin with ..so I stopped and that probably ruined it for the rest off the guys . I think I would male exceptions though if the guy provided with with a board handle or we chatted on the phone before hand . 

 

Otherwisegood work

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I apologize for the horrible grammar on my last comment . My phone has been on the fritz and auto correct etc is just horrible right now .

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10 hours ago, nelle said:

As an do I think this is a great idea to help the newer pooners/ hobbyist out .

It helps us our too . I'm grateful for my regular guys . However I notice as well as speaking with other sps . We do loose business as well as it would help us on our end if these tgtbt girls and bait and switch or fakes were more monitored and not receiving business 

 

The only thing I might add that I somewhat disagree is the text picture as proof . Selfies can always be photoshopped 

I was sending proof picture and half the time it was a dud appointment or the guy was not serious to begin with ..so I stopped and that probably ruined it for the rest off the guys . I think I would male exceptions though if the guy provided with with a board handle or we chatted on the phone before hand . 

 

Otherwisegood work

Thank you for the good words Nelle.
 
You are correct, ultimately the intent of the guidance is to help guys better select which escort to book. That is, book the real legit escorts and STOP financially supporting the fakers bait & switch operators. This will inevitably provide more business and money to escorts like you, the REAL LEGIT deserving escorts.
 
For the photoshoppable selfies, this guidance goes beyond that. The guidance is geared towards asking for a picture with a specifically requested hand gesture. It would be essentially impossible for a faker to photoshopped the specifically requested hand gesture in the picture within a short amount of time and would involve a level of effort that fakers wouldn't be willing to invest.
 
As for having to provide proof pictures to several guys, there are a few ways around that:
1. Provide a link to a review from an escort-forum that contains the same phone number in the review and in your ad and that is also written by an creditable established board member.
2. Provide a well established social media account with longevity and several pictures (the account should have your current phone number in the intro, or the booking could be made via DMs on the social media account).
3. Put a VIDEO-PROOF in your ad that shows your full body (face should always be optional) and your current phone number clearly written on a paper.
 
I'll elaborate a bit more on the latter...
 
The "VIDEO-PROOF with # written on a paper" is the optimal method for an un-reviewed and un-established escort to prove herself because the phone number written on the paper belongs to her, so fakers CANNOT use that video in their fake ads. But also because the phone number CANNOT be "videoshopped", like pictures can.
 
In fact, if every single REAL/LEGIT escorts in Canada (established or not) would have this VIDEO-PROOF in their ad, then all the fakers would be exposed as fakers (since they cannot post this video in their ads). This would eventually eliminate the fakers since a common trend/knowledge would develop where guys wouldn't book escorts that don't have a VIDEO-PROVEN ad. Fakers would no longer generate an income, so they would stop investing money in posting fake ads. All the real and legit escorts would get the bookings. No guys would be faked by fakers anymore. Win-Win 🙂
 
If a guy doesn't believe you are REAL/LEGIT with the "VIDEO-PROOF with # written on a paper", then ask him how could you have faked the video... If he doesn't have an answer, tell him to come back to you when he has some sort of rationale for this un-supported "accusation".

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Thanks for the info . I was actually thinking of taking another video in the next day or two mabye hello and the date .... 

I do get some good buisness from LL however I'm trying to steer away from there and just advertise on the boards.  

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7 minutes ago, nelle said:

Thanks for the info . I was actually thinking of taking another video in the next day or two mabye hello and the date .... 

I do get some good buisness from LL however I'm trying to steer away from there and just advertise on the boards.  

If you say the date and your name in the video, then any faker can download your video and use it.

 

If you write your phone # on a paper, fakers CANNOT use that video.

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4 hours ago, Mod_Cat said:

I will pin this post, might be worthwhile posting in the newbies forum too

Well thank you very much, very appreciated. Can you share a link to the "newbies forum" please? I'll happily post the guidance there as well.

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Clients dictating to SPs - I’m not holding up any sign to prove anything especially when most clients are reluctant to verify. And btw a faker can have another woman pose with a sign for her. 
 

And I don’t know any reputable providers who are losing business because of fakers.

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On 4/24/2020 at 5:57 AM, Mature Angela said:

Clients dictating to SPs - I’m not holding up any sign to prove anything especially when most clients are reluctant to verify. And btw a faker can have another woman pose with a sign for her. 
 

And I don’t know any reputable providers who are losing business because of fakers.

Thank you for your opinion. There are no dictations. The guidance is geared towards fly-by-night random leolist TOFTT escorts that are un-proven, un-verified, un-reviewed, and un-established. The guidance isn't geared for established escorts like you. The guidance provides tips to inexperience hobbyists in regards to realizing what is an established escort (in order to not ask her for reassurance) and to avoid being bait & switch by a flight-by-night escorts. The guidance aims at having the client's money flow out of the fakers' pockets; instead to the established escorts and the proven fly-by-night.

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On 4/20/2019 at 11:17 PM, bobbi said:

Hey guys, I've put together some tips and guidance to help out the "rookie guys" when dealing with pure TOFTT in regards to unproven un-established independent escorts. It's still a draft but fairly advanced. What do you think of it so far? If you have any constructive recommendations to help improve it, please let me know and I'll incorporate it 🙂

Link: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tLf9Ka6dI6Tb4XLFr18cuPruHrMyUZwxC6Q1VsOMBSk/edit#

 

Can I get access to this please? 🙂

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On 4/25/2020 at 6:42 PM, soggy-airline said:

 

Can I get access to this please? 🙂

I locked the doc due to COVID-19. I found that it was somewhat unethical to promote hobbying during the pandemic. I will re-open the doc ASAP.

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29 minutes ago, bobbi said:

I locked the doc due to COVID-19. I found that it was somewhat unethical to promote hobbying during the pandemic. I will re-open the doc ASAP.

  I fail to understand how sharing that information could be described as "promoting the hobby". Would be more productive to add a chapter in regard to potential health risks with the current situation and allow ladies and gentlemen to make their own decisions.

  I get what your trying to accomplish, but kinda miss the point by hiding information many could use to educate themselves during those long slow days.

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2 hours ago, Greenteal said:

  I fail to understand how sharing that information could be described as "promoting the hobby". Would be more productive to add a chapter in regard to potential health risks with the current situation and allow ladies and gentlemen to make their own decisions.

  I get what your trying to accomplish, but kinda miss the point by hiding information many could use to educate themselves during those long slow days.

Thanks for this input. I don't feel like it would be right for me to start explaining the potential health risks. I'm simply not knowledgeable enough in that aspect. But you're right, during these quarantining days, the doc would be a good read. I'll reopen it now.

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