Some insight perhaps..

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I got a Lyla pm saying:  "I just wanted to let you know that I texted you on the 15th but didn't get a reply"

He did not include a phone number to cross reference the pm with the text messages I received that day. So I am currently dusting off my crystal ball.

Here was my reply : If you did not get a response that means you either did not read my website or did not provide the required info for booking.

I would like to add a further response to that here as a peak behind the curtain of a day in the life of an mp (or any provider).

To the gent who pm'd me...

Sorry if that seems blunt but here are the texts  I got on the 15th ..

• one legitimate booking with a nice gentleman
• one guy asking "hey, is this Bonnie's number ?" (since I ONLY post my number on my personal independent provider website... who the hell else's number would it be ? lol - seriously doubt this guy read a word on my website - most ladies won't reply to one liners since they are almost always a waste of time - serious gents will introduce themselves and give an indication of when they want to book - No reply given)
• one guy who despite the fact that I only see men , went to great lengths to write 3'ish paragraphs about how he wanted to "arrange a first experience for his wife " and "do I know any other ladies" - I also don't offer duo's. God grant me the serenity not to kick someone in the nuts (that's how that prayer goes right ?)  I have been in this biz 10 yrs - the translation for that one is "I'm looking to waste your time by getting free dirty talk" ( No reply given and message deleted)
• another guy who didn't give his name, time or duration of appointment he was interested in (which indicate if someone is serious about an appointment and what I ask for in your initial contact as stated on my site and in my ad).  Instead he asked if I was working/what are my hours... (which is on my site under ... you guessed it ! "Hours") Then he told me he was a senior (just sort of announced it as the last line in his text..like it was supposed to mean something ?). Not sure if he was expecting a seniors discount ??? Since nowhere on my site or ads do I ask for age (or give "early bird specials" I think you have me confused with Denny's.  For the record - I also don't give student discounts ...try Staples.). This one has texted twice before and came off as very blunt - borderline rude in his texts with no greeting-no introduction. Just repeatedly asks my schedule.  - (No reply given)
• 4 different texting apps through the day (2 texted multiple times) despite my site and ad stating that I ignore apps. (No reply given)

So, that was my day on the 15th. Which one were you,  pm dude ?

Really it's okay. No need to reply....! lol

More strangely according to this guys few month old - zero posts Lyla profile he is looking for Tgirls and I get the impression sp's not massage.

Well I offer independent massage only and was born a woman.  Dude ? 🤔 Refer back to my ad where it says "please read my website before contacting me" lol

Regardless, between the  zero information/zero posts profile and zero info pm ... and him being one of the above choices....I'll take a pass.

So which one do you think it was ???

1. Mr. Not Sure Whose Number I Dialed
2. Is this the free lesbian porn chatline ?
3. Blunt no info/intro "what's your schedule" guy
4. One of the random texting apps

 

Thanks for joining me for this installment of "Another Day in Paradise" brought to you by Bonnie Scot

*Disclaimer - no real names or identifying information was used in the making of this post to protect the identities of the individuals.

No animals were harmed during the production of this post.

 

On a serious note... every day is some version of the above. This is why we ask for a deposit. It not only insures that you will show up but it is also

the quickest way to weed out the nonsense. It was born out of cause and effect.

Anyways, I posted this because I don't think it is really openly talked about. I know many gents I meet seem genuinely surprised by the reality of what we deal with.

Yes they know this biz can be dangerous but they don't know the day to day - every day -  barrage of games and nonsense that would utterly exhaust anyone.

That's why I turn my phone off. Of course that's always when I miss that one legit and really decent guy !

I have a lot of sweet clients that I truly enjoy but the other crap ....

I really hope I didn't just shoot myself in the foot for being honest. 😧Probably why the ladies don't talk about it more openly... I mean in front of the guys.