Infidelity

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I recently had a friend come and tell me he was separating from his wife because he had been having an affair.  It was over a period less than a year and he had tried to break it off.  But the woman he was seeing threatened to expose the whole situation to his wife.  So he decided to tell his wife first.  Probably better than being exposed and he is still on speaking terms with his wife so in time they might work it out.  But it is still a terrible situation.

When he told me, I really wanted to share with him that I had been seeing escorts for the past 3-4 years.  I have been married for about the same length of time as he had, around 2 decades.  I had considered starting an affair but didn’t because of the risk of being exposed. 

But I didn’t share my experiences because it is something that nobody knows about and is entirely separate from my life.  And a secret that I will take to my grave.

I sometimes feel guilty for not regretting my decision to start seeing escorts.  I have had the chance to meet some amazing women that I never would have otherwise.  And my time spent with them has been priceless (ironically?).  

To bring this rambling to a conclusion I am a happily married man in a sexless marriage (yes it can be both).  The women of the sex industry provide what many of us need.  I can say that these women have not only saved my marriage but probably also my life.

So I want to thank all of the sex workers for helping those of us who need you.

And I’m sure there are others out there with similar stories.