Baseballfan1 1 Report post Posted May 22 How you do guys deal with girls when they want a half up front deposit before seeing you? The number is a legit number, but I’m worried about getting lied to and fucked around if I send a deposit before seeing her in person. I’ve always been strictly cash, but it’s tempting to break the rule. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 32054 Report post Posted May 25 On 5/22/2026 at 11:27 AM, Baseballfan1 said: How you do guys deal with girls when they want a half up front deposit before seeing you? The number is a legit number, but I’m worried about getting lied to and fucked around if I send a deposit before seeing her in person. I’ve always been strictly cash, but it’s tempting to break the rule. A reputable provider will not rip you off I recommend doing your research before sending 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baseballfan1 1 Report post Posted May 25 What’s your best go to route to verify? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cjthomas 1699 Report post Posted May 25 On 5/22/2026 at 11:27 AM, Baseballfan1 said: How you do guys deal with girls when they want a half up front deposit before seeing you? The number is a legit number, but I’m worried about getting lied to and fucked around if I send a deposit before seeing her in person. I’ve always been strictly cash, but it’s tempting to break the rule. Check to see if this person has an up to date website, active social media and other ads. If recommendations are important to you check for those also. If this provider allows ask to speak to them to voice your concern perhaps they can help put you at ease. If you are dealing with someone who has only one ad on one advertising site see that as a red flag. These are just some of the steps I follow when seeking out someone new. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StephanieMystique 2066 Report post Posted May 26 Have you done your research? Does the provider have a history of ads, recommendations? Does the provider have a website, multiple ads across multiple platforms, social media, a fan site? A reputable provider isn't going to runaway with your deposit. Follow their directions. They have rules and guidelines in place to keep everyone safe and have reasons for doing things a particular way. It's a lot of time, money and effort to build a business of integrity for this industry. We are constantly fighting laws around the world to maintain our presence on the internet. A provider with a history isn't going to ruin their hard work by taking your deposit. 3 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
