victoryformation 25 Report post Posted June 29 My brother mongers ... I'm gunna letcha in on a trade secret! Women love to be sweet-talked! (Especially before getting f%@ked!) How would you rate yourself ... in this indispensable mongering skill?** ** "I say a man is no man ... if with his tongue ... he can not win a woman." __ William Shakespeare ps But, then again, The Great Bard ... could have been referring to DATY and DATO!😃 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Prufrock's Back 172 Report post Posted July 2 Pretty offensive post. If you believe that of yourself you are a true sociopath. 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
minuteman06 547 Report post Posted July 4 I am not your brother nor a monger. Somehow I feel I should have spelled monger as monger're but who knows. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Charli 1 Report post Posted July 23 You might have an average appearance, but if you know how to speak eloquently, your flaws go unnoticed. Compliments and kind words certainly won't do anyone any harm. Oh, and by the way, Shakespeare was obviously referring to DATY and DATO 😁 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
victoryformation 25 Report post Posted July 25 On 7/23/2026 at 7:16 AM, Charli said: You might have an average appearance, but if you know how to speak eloquently, your flaws go unnoticed. Compliments and kind words certainly won't do anyone any harm. Oh, and by the way, Shakespeare was obviously referring to DATY and DATO 😁 What you say is very true! Sweet-talking is a bit of an art form. Being well-spoken and quick with a compliment** ... can go a surprisingly long way in setting the tone for an encounter! (And sweet talk during pillow talk ... can be exponentially more effective!)😉 In regard to Shakespeare's commentary ... "I say a man is no man ... if with his tongue he cannot satisfy a woman." Elizabethan scholars have been debating for centuries ... whether The Great Bard was referring to sweet talking a woman ... or was he, indeed, a muff diver and a DATO Aficionado! ** "I can live for two months on a good compliment." ___ Mark Twain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vivalavictor 2 Report post Posted July 30 I have to disagree that sweet‑talking is "offensive" or a sign of being a sociopath. In my experience, it's simply being attentive – and that's a skill, not a manipulation tactic. Being articulate and quick with a genuine compliment is making the other person feel seen. I've had encounters – both short‑term and long‑term – where good conversation before anything physical set the tone for something far more memorable. And it helped build relationships that lasted years, not just one night. There's a line, though. Generic stuff like "you're so sexy" during sex? That's low‑effort and, honestly, it just screams limited vocabulary. Worse, it signals you're only interested in her body. Not every girl is into that – some actually want to feel like you're paying attention to who she is, not just what she's got. It's basic human decency with a little charm thrown in. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
victoryformation 25 Report post Posted August 1 On 7/30/2026 at 4:03 AM, Vivalavictor said: I have to disagree that sweet‑talking is "offensive" or a sign of being a sociopath. In my experience, it's simply being attentive – and that's a skill, not a manipulation tactic. Being articulate and quick with a genuine compliment is making the other person feel seen. I've had encounters – both short‑term and long‑term – where good conversation before anything physical set the tone for something far more memorable. And it helped build relationships that lasted years, not just one night. There's a line, though. Generic stuff like "you're so sexy" during sex? That's low‑effort and, honestly, it just screams limited vocabulary. Worse, it signals you're only interested in her body. Not every girl is into that – some actually want to feel like you're paying attention to who she is, not just what she's got. It's basic human decency with a little charm thrown in. There Ya Go! A Brother Monger ... Who Gets IT!😉 From Ur Lips 2 God's Ears! Sweet talking is definitely an art form! (And women respond to IT ... it's music to their ears!) 😃 Any monger who thinks sweet talking does not accentuate an encounter ... I feel sorry for him! (He's got a lot to learn!) He's got no "game"! I would always emphatically tell My ATF when I'm wantonly licking her pussy and shamelessly eating her asshole... how delicious she is!😁 I would always ask her: "What's your secret?" She would always respond with a giggly, self-satisfied smile!😄 Accordingly ... she was always punctilious about her hygiene... she always reported for DATY/DATO Duty ... dingleberry-free, minty and surgically-scrubbed! (Every orifice ... was ready to be sufficiently indulged in!)🤪 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mature Andee 88 Report post Posted August 2 Sweet talk means nothing to me. Because I know that it’s just an end to their means. You really are a sociopath if you think you can speak for what all providers like. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
victoryformation 25 Report post Posted August 3 (edited) On 8/2/2026 at 1:10 AM, Mature Andee said: Sweet talk means nothing to me. Because I know that it’s just an end to their means. You really are a sociopath if you think you can speak for what all providers like. Unless you know something I don't know: Everybody likes a compliment! Get real! If you are positing to a newbie about to embark on his maiden voyage ... that sweet-talking does not accentuate an encounter ... you are doing a serious disservice to the community! Coming across as urbane, educated and worldly .... can only work toward your advantage! (Women ... pick up on such things!) No woman wants to be around a man .... who is not well-spoken and "rough around the edges"! Newbies: Being a good sweet-talker is an important part of successful mongering! (Anybody who tells you otherwise ... DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM!) Edited August 3 by victoryformation spelling 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vivalavictor 2 Report post Posted August 4 On 8/2/2026 at 1:10 PM, Mature Andee said: Sweet talk means nothing to me. Because I know that it’s just an end to their means. You really are a sociopath if you think you can speak for what all providers like. Well of course we cannot speak for every human being. What is your point in calling everyone who wants to be nice and invoke something positive in their partner sociopaths? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mature Andee 88 Report post Posted August 4 50 minutes ago, Vivalavictor said: Well of course we cannot speak for every human being. What is your point in calling everyone who wants to be nice and invoke something positive in their partner sociopaths? There is nothing wrong with giving a compliment and you’re right I would say most providers do appreciate it Except when it’s obviously over blown. I’ve had clients tell me that they love me the first time I’ve met them, which obviously is a bit much. Also it depends on what they’re saying to me but most of the time I know that it’s just part of the script and I will reciprocate with my own sweet talk. However, there are some clients who prefer to be quiet and using Sweet talk on them doesn’t always work, It’s up to me to size somebody up in just a few minutes of meeting to ascertain whether they are a visual person, auditory person or kinaesthetic person, and go from there.. I got the impression that you were suggesting by Sweet talking a provider that you would get more mileage, which is never guaranteed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vivalavictor 2 Report post Posted August 4 I suppose our colleague here meant being nice to our beloved providers enhances experience both for you as a monger and for a girl as well so she becomes more open. That's what basically GFE means and I am most certain that it is what many men really want. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
victoryformation 25 Report post Posted August 4 9 hours ago, Vivalavictor said: Well of course we cannot speak for every human being. What is your point in calling everyone who wants to be nice and invoke something positive in their partner sociopaths? There Ya Go! A man who wants his companion to feel complimented and comfortable ... is a "sociopath"! WTF? (So much for her street cred!)😯 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
victoryformation 25 Report post Posted August 4 (edited) 11 hours ago, Vivalavictor said: Well of course we cannot speak for every human being. What is your point in calling everyone who wants to be nice and invoke something positive in their partner sociopaths? My K-Girl ATF's ears were like a deer's!😉 She would turn and cock her ears ... hoping to hear sweet praise for the taste of her pussy and asshole! (Who wouldn't?) As I was indulging in DATY and DATO ... I would reflexively blurt out: "Oh my love your pussy is so sweet ... and your asshole tastes like Ambrosia!"🤪 She had a quizzical look on her face and .... was stumped on "Ambrosia"! As I was wantonly indulging she reached for her phone ... and the Google English/Korean translate app!😉 As I'm shamelessly eating her asshole (with Reddi Whip) ... with her phone in hand she asked: "How do you spell "Ambrosia"? After she sees the translation ... she turns around with the biggest, coquettish, self-satisfied smile and says: "Oh my Gary"! Ya gotta luv it! Edited August 4 by victoryformation spelling Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
victoryformation 25 Report post Posted August 4 5 hours ago, Vivalavictor said: I suppose our colleague here meant being nice to our beloved providers enhances experience both for you as a monger and for a girl as well so she becomes more open. That's what basically GFE means and I am most certain that it is what many men really want. Hear ,,, Hear! There's GFE ... and there's "White-Glove GFE"!😉 An artful sweet-talker ... knows all about "White-Glove GFE"!😁 "White-Glove GFE" ... is Next-Level Stuff! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
