DixonD 817 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 (edited) A question for everyone, clients and providers: What would be something you would really like to do (or have done) during a date with a client/SP (ex- going to a certain restaurant, having a great conversation). An activity that isn't a sex act, though it can be something sensual! I always thought it would be fun to go take salsa dancing lessons! Or just have a nice talk about random things! Edited December 22, 2011 by DixonD I am a perfectionist and I'm always editing my posts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest fr*****us Report post Posted December 22, 2011 On a double date - Glow in the Dark Bowling! Always a great time had by all - And it lets you use some muscles that havent been used in awhile :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Winnipegcub 21293 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 Wow great thread. I prefer longer dates and long term 'relationships' which for me lend themselves to other activities. Have had a few dinner dates and these have been great. Allow time to have conversation on a broader list of subjects which deepens relationships. Oh yeh breakfast dates too. Have had some good conversation "Book Club" discussions on common readings. Gone out to clubs for drinks/entertainment. Movie/popcorn in bed until the cable went out. Setting my fav SP a bath. Showering together (Ok that one went sexual), and massage (I've had 2 hour dates that included pretty much just me providing a lovely massage). Look forward to adding to my list...hmm Salsa dancing sounds good! Cub Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 (edited) Good question! I've had dinners out with sp's a few times. That was fun. They certainly got lots of attention from the other diners :) What I'd like to do is to go to a play or concert with an sp. Or visit an art gallery. That's something I hope to do in 2012. Edited December 22, 2011 by Cato Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest s******ecan**** Report post Posted December 22, 2011 I've taken SP's out for a nice luncheon, wonderful fun. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jafo105 39057 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 If it is the first date, It is just social introductions, someplace quiet and intimate. With lots of opportunity for chats and laughter. This is the time for establishing some chemistry and attraction for one another. If I am wanting to get together with the lady but my health problems are preventing me from performing. We get together during her week off (period). On a couple occasions these dates ended up being kissing and petting (above the waist) dates. I am not intercourse focused. It is amazing how hot the intimacy can be when it is just kissing, caressing, licking, and holding each other. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 Would luv to jump in a regular cab truck, the seat on the passenger side isn't comfortable so snuggle up and and go for a cruise in the country :) Then to a drive in movie ! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 I like food related things. I would prefer a buffet style meal to a sit down one, as it leads to discussion and is more active as well. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Victoria Banks 21899 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 (edited) Lounge/bar, lunch/dinner, strip club, walk in the evening, couples spa day, meeting at the airport for travel. :) Enjoying porn, going to the casino, massage table, going for coffee, taking erotic pictures, dancing to music in the living room... I hope these are a few good ideas I have enjoyed... Edited December 23, 2011 by Victoria Banks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 Lounge/bar, lunch/dinner, strip club, walk in the evening, couples spa day, meeting at the airport for travel. :) Enjoying porn, massage table, going for coffee, taking pictures, dancing to music in the living room... I hope these are a few good ideas. Cindy you have inspired me.... I was actually singing this to the tune of "My Favourite Things" by Julie Andrews in "the Sound of Music".... Drinks at a lounge and a ride in a Lancer Walks in the park with a special nude dancer Meeting at airports to go travelling... These are a few of my favorite things A big cup of joe and some crisp apple streudel Live action porn that can straighten my noodle Watching a dancer who wears only rings These are a few of my favorite things Girls that will touch me in places so naughty Getting rubbed down by a quite naked hotty Much better than reading the Lord of the Rings These are a few of my favorite things When the dog bites When the bee stings When I'm feeling sad I simply remember my favorite things And then I don't feel so bad.... 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 How about doing something different and fun...naked trampoline jumping.:icon_smile: 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted December 22, 2011 Ten Pin Bowling!! The Dude Abides....:) Peace MG 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kyra.Graves 23779 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 I've had some great dates in the past and have a few more that I'm looking forward to, these are some of my favorites of the past year. Yoga class Tutored wine tasting Concert in the park Gallery/Museum exhibit Opera & ballet Spa day Volunteer day - Mucking out the barn at a farm sanctuary Apple picking Tandem Bike ride - apparently I'm not so good at it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Touch 57501 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 I have had numerous indoor picnics (in my hotel suites) with a variety of outcall escorts. Sharing new food combinations or exotic, gourmet food items is a synergistic pleasure experience. Several of my favorite escorts know to come hungry to our appointments. Some, of course, come to bring their own food and drink combinations. Watching the face of a woman as she bites into and savors a new food treat can be every bit as gratifying as sharing an orgasm!!! Really, this has become one of my top sensual pleasures in life :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
loopie 15358 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 Those make-your-own-will kits are a total blast and a good bonding excercise. It's also great if you can solve a mystery together. There's nothing more satisfying than bringing a criminal to justice or recovering a lost object or clearing somebody's name together. And there's always teatherball! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 Well I'm going to do it in February, a sleepover, which includes taking the lady out to dinner And this summer, another lady and myself are going out in my boat for a day of fishing RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mikkismitty 197 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 Wine tasting or cooking together a nice meal before....... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 I saw a couple of reviews before of an sp who does golf date sessions, and ski day sessions. Both sound like great ideas for either an sp or a civilian date. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest cl****ald***ge Report post Posted December 23, 2011 I absolutely love rock climbing or go karting. Dinner for a first date in my opinion is the worst, and movies too... I so much prefer to do something active for the first date to avoid some akwardness that comes with getting to know a person... then for the second or third, doing something a little more intimate after you realize you actually enjoy being around this person to begin with! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrrnice2 157005 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 I have been pretty fortunate to have spent some extended periods of time with some amazing women in various contexts and activities. Going out to dinner is always a great prelude to whatever might come later, and the conversation has always been fun, informative, and a great opportunity to develop that connection that I ever so much enjoy. Dining in a finer restaurant is something that should be shared with a beautiful woman, so when the opportunity presents itself I am quick to take advantage. I have been a tour guide of sorts in showing off some of our beaches and the rural nature of our province. A meal at a traditional lobster dinner was a highlight as well as another time going for a long extended walk on one of our white sandy beaches. In Ottawa last summer I spent time biking with an SP and we did the Rideau Canal loop as well as sharing a picnic lunch sitting on the grass down by the locks. I was ever so tempted one day this summer to spend a day at a water park but that did not come to be. What the coming year shall bring I do not know, but some of the out of the bedroom activities have been a real treat for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baileydog 9367 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 I like to do anything that provides an opportrunity to get to know each other better ... most of the things I like have already been mentioned; enjoying a drink in a bar, going out to dinner, going for a walk, going to the theatre, attending a concert, visiting a museum, and, recently, I enjoyed a shopping excursion Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Butterfly Kisses 2301 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 I like to go on first dates each time we go out. Take turns planning what we want to do or where we want to go. I did that with a lady I met in Vancouver and to this day we still talk about our first dates, the memories and when we get together from time to time, if time permits, we still plan first dates. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dorinda Bloom 44036 Report post Posted December 23, 2011 My 2 best dates of the year.... Walking around in Old Montreal, stopping for lemonade :) Going to a Hamam at 10Spa in Winnipeg So I would always say a walk and spa time! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VexingVixen 2519 Report post Posted December 24, 2011 Socially? Skating, Dancing, Rock climbing, walking, sitting on the beach (not today! Brr!), fishing, beach volleyball, rib fest, greek fest, leb-fest, the waterfalls, lumiere festival, art in the park, the market, parliament! .. :D Some of my favorite adventures ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214065 Report post Posted December 24, 2011 Some things I did on dates and some ideas that I have also. Take a date on a motorcycle ride in the mountains (try to keep away from major highways) Horse and buggy(also known for caleche) rides(more intimate since someone else is guiding the horses) in Old Montreal, and take a walk around there to find a nice terrace for a bite to eat. Visit tourist area ex. Niagara Falls, CN tower, Parlement, Festival, Carnavals etc. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
