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How do Halifax/Dartmouth SP define GFE?

 

Many of the local girls say they provide a GFE; yet, after listing all the things they don't do, it really sounds like FS. I can understand maybe not providing BBBJs, but I would think kissing would be a part of a GFE - after all, most girlfriends allow their boyfriends to kiss them!

 

In Nova Scotia, what makes a GFE more than FS?

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This is a question that has come up on numerous occasions with varying opinions. F/S refers to a specific activity, while GFE is a far more subjective term. It encompasses the feel of an encounter, but does not necessarily imply a specific menu. The bottom line is that there are different interpretations of the term. Read the sps ads for specifics and if you still have questions about specific services... Ask them. They don't bite. (ok, maybe some do... You'll have to ask! )

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Summer meadows definition of GFE:

Kissing

Oral for both

multiple positions

Cbj

hj

sex with a condom

69er

shower fun

toys

What am I forgetting? ;)

 

GFE does NOT in my opinion (or bedroom) include anal, bbbj, CIM, COF or unprotected sex.

Remember that's just me...every girl is different!

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There are many interpretations of GFE and PSE, it's impossible to nail down the definitions IMHOP. Best thing to do is communicate with the SP and find their definition of GFE/PSE, don't assume anything.

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@JackOften: Many tend agree with you on the GFE and kissing. I'm thinking some girls may reject kissing upon meeting their partner. It could be a variety of reasons similar to all of us (or just myself) -- incompatible looks and/or bad hygiene.

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@JackOften: Many tend agree with you on the GFE and kissing. I'm thinking some girls may reject kissing upon meeting their partner. It could be a variety of reasons similar to all of us (or just myself) -- incompatible looks and/or bad hygiene.

 

I think most SP's say up front what services they provide, although there are always exceptions I would think having an SP change their mind around kissing or any other service upon meeting a client would be rare.

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I think most SP's say up front what services they provide, although there are always exceptions I would think having an SP change their mind around kissing or any other service upon meeting a client would be rare.

I was not implying that the girls would change their mind upon meeting. It was the case where kissing wasn't listed on the menu.

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I tend to agree that GFE should be more about a state of mind... where the time spent is more like someone who enjoys being with you and is happy you are there, not more like a menu item.

 

Or in other words not like welcome in, drow trou and lets get it over with.

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Summer meadows definition of GFE:

Kissing

Oral for both

multiple positions

Cbj

hj

sex with a condom

69er

shower fun

toys

What am I forgetting? ;)

 

 

I like Summer's definition of GFE.

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I think this may be where the standard disclaimer would apply, YMMV. Kissing and FIV have always been assumed in a relationship, but hey, even then it generally takes more than a hug at the door and 20 minutes of chit chat.

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You come to my room and your greeted as if your my bf. Kissing passionately ..with tongue ...hugs,small talk {maybe}lol...depends on my mood we might get to it later. I don't feel right if your asking if you can do things..if your curious ask before you come. I like for us to to just melt into each other and go with the flow. Charging extra for things is not my style. The time we are together we are together.

kisses,

Emma

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Thank you for this tread, I am still learning so it is nice to see what other girls are willing to offer as part of GFE. I tried to read up on it before and the meanings are all over the place.

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Any girl that says she does GFE but won't kiss the client should tell him before he books. And then look up the many definitions of GFE. lol :) Pretty sure everyones def includes kissing. Or maybe not. What do I know? ;) I know mine does!

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I'm of the opinion that kissing is part of a GFE experience. No it doesn't have to be LFK or DFK, but at least kissing on the lips

If a lady doesn't allow kissing, she shouldn't call her service a GFE.

With that said, of course goes without saying YMMV (no kissing if you have bad breath for example) and all ladies have the right to set their boundaries

and shouldn't be pressured to offer something they don't want to

RG

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I'm of the opinion that kissing is part of a GFE experience. No it doesn't have to be LFK or DFK, but at least kissing on the lips

If a lady doesn't allow kissing, she shouldn't call her service a GFE.

With that said, of course goes without saying YMMV (no kissing if you have bad breath for example) and all ladies have the right to set their boundaries

and shouldn't be pressured to offer something they don't want to

RG

 

Exactly. Back in the day when I first started escorting (outcalls only through an agency) we provided FS (full service) which was intercourse with a condom and may or may not have included oral with a condom CBJ and definitely only one shot on goal. Kissing, DATY, and bbbj and any extras like COF, COB, MSOG and digits were off the menu and if the other girls found out you did and reported to the owner, you'd be run out of the agency.

 

GFE came along later mostly when indies started offering their own brand of service (and thank goodness for that).

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I look at gfe as a starting point; there's a whole range of quality going from basic gfe to ultimate.

 

I look for:

- dfk, and especially if the provider mentions they love kissing.

- any statements such us "you'll FEEL like I'm really your girlfriend"

- any info on what "sensual" things they like, such as skin stroking, sudsing together.

 

I absolutely love touch, having my hair stroked, eye contact, and exploring the whole range of kissing (those sweet soft lips on lips, the slow deep kiss that makes you gasp inside at the anticipation of each next moment).

 

There's so many areas of the body and mind that can be part of the experience. Someday, I'll be able to put aside enough cash, and hopefully find the right sp, to be able to have the ultimate gfe date.

 

At my age, fs just isn't enough by itself anymore.

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I think Summers answer sums up Gfe quite accurately. Although BBBJ seems to be still out there with some girls when they talk about GFE I understand it's a risky thing to offer. My only issue is that too many SP's are loosely throwing around the term and not providing anything more than full service. It's a slippery slope for sure...what I like about Cerb is most SP's if you PM them will tell you what their services are and you can decide from there...that's the beauty of this site.

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I would like to jump on the bandwagon, I don't think you should advertise as GFE if you don't want to kiss, can't imagine any guy or girl having a girlfriend and not kissing them. As boomer said the beauty of this site is that you can communicate back and forth with SP's and pretty much know exactly what kind of experience you will have.

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Yes, GFE should include kissing. I love kissing! I'd be happy just with a kissing session sometimes. There's nothing like inhaling hot breathes of passion from another person, when the body and its chemicals are doing all the talking. Lips, neck, ears, face, shoulder.

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I think mod says it best in the"why so much jealousy" thread,gfe is described well there,check it out.

 

Cristy, could you provide a link to the thread in question?

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Cristy, could you provide a link to the thread in question?

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79955

 

Post Cristy is talking about:

People assume gfe means some sort of serviceis included (this is not true) gfe is a "style" of service and not any specific services ... All gfe means is that she is not "mecanical" (like right to the point and in / out as quick as possible). Nothing more should be expcted.
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