Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted February 22, 2014 I think I should venture in here more based on some of the questions I've seen. It's okay to be nervous but don't let it rule you. Research the ladies and find the ones that interest you. See their contact method, view their website (and READ it), be respectful and articulate. You'll gain a lot of information doing those things and will be more confident when approaching a lady. If you contact someone and they don't get back to you within a couple days (check for a calendar on their website) send a polite note of inquiry to see if they received your first email. If you still don't hear anything, move on to someone else. Most serious ladies will answer within 24 hours unless away or on vacation. Most will catch up when they return. If nothing comes from it, there is probably a reason so let it go. There is someone here for everyone...sometimes multiple someones. We're not scary...promise! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Denny Crane 100 Report post Posted June 1, 2014 Hello everyone, new to cerb, but long time on terb and merb. I am moving to edmonton and i am seeking help with agencies in Edmonton, like which ones are reputable and has good service and plenty of choices. thank you for any help. Denny Crane Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Denny Crane 100 Report post Posted June 1, 2014 I am looking for the list of agencies on the site but I am unable to find them,i know on merb their is a list of them. Denny Crane Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guancuimei 100 Report post Posted June 8, 2014 good point Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Maddy 270 Report post Posted June 10, 2014 All of the posts contain good information. It is sometimes a hit and a miss. Decide what type of service and what type of provider you want to experience, and although looking through recommendations you may find none for some providers. It is always lovely to get a recommendation and nice when a gentleman asks if he can post on his encounter, but some SP decline a recommendation for a number of reasons. Popping into chat and saying hello to some of the gals is always a nice way to start. If a member's profile catches your eye, don't hesitate to send a message and start that way. Just my two cents once again. Good luck in your search. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mournie 140 Report post Posted October 21, 2014 Hello! Newbie question here from a newb. First time nervousness aside, I had a question that was a matter of etiquette, but might now have legal repercussions with the change of the law. I have a couple of (fairly mild) but specific fetishes (well, I think they're fairly mild), which I'd like to explore now I'm no longer married. At which point should I ask the SP about them? I guess I can enter a dialogue with the SPs on here or who have their own website, but for those who use phone or text contact, I really don't know, and I don't want to turn into a stammering idiot. Anybody had any similar experiences? Also, in general, do SPs seem fairly receptive to that kind of honesty, or do I become a hot potato. Thanks in advance! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted October 29, 2014 I think it's best to ask sooner, rather then later. Most fetish provider state ahead of time they are fetish friendly. Start with them first. You can also ask in your area for recos on fetish providers, stating the type of fetish you are seeking. Good luck! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sophiabardo 100 Report post Posted December 21, 2014 Hey, depending on what city you are in, you can always just start with a simple conversation with an escort and go from there. I think you will find out very quickly if it is a good match for you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon84 100 Report post Posted October 7, 2015 This is all great info! Thanks! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BRSpBoardID 210 Report post Posted November 20, 2015 In general, I have also found that the boards here are very positive and nonjudgmental. After all, if you can't be honest on an internet board about your interests with SP's, where can you be? :) Post some more direct questions in your city's area. Obviously, you can't be too explicit, but you can generally ask enough that you can start a PM conversation with someone who can provide good recommendations. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KipSmithers 100 Report post Posted January 5, 2016 My best advice looks for women that look authentic. Avoid photoshop pictures and face pictures unless looking authentic. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lovecraft 100 Report post Posted January 6, 2016 Hi guys, new to this whole thing. My question is "Is there a way to only see posts relative to a single city?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78396 Report post Posted January 6, 2016 Hi guys, new to this whole thing. My question is "Is there a way to only see posts relative to a single city?" Welcome to LYLA On the main page when you login if you scroll down you will see specific city areas. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
1slickdude 100 Report post Posted January 31, 2016 Hi! Noob here, also looking for a good list of agencies that provide incall. Seen a few mentioned in the forums - mirage, cmj but please let me know if there is a post i missed this info. or pm me. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kaju 100 Report post Posted February 13, 2016 Glad to have joined lyla.com, I looking forward to reading and researching for information. hanks Kaju Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Keith69 100 Report post Posted February 14, 2016 Really like this forum think I'm gonna use it more Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MTCicero 130 Report post Posted March 22, 2016 it is a bit of a wild west Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LusciousLeah 110 Report post Posted March 30, 2016 Question (*Dwight schrute voice*) Does one need to approve visitor messages, ie moderate, before they can be publicly displayed? Or is it just a free-for-all around here? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted March 31, 2016 Leah, if a moderated member posts on your guest book, it is viewed by the Mod before it posts publicly. Non moderated accounts do not go through this process. You can delete or report messages on your guestbook if you like. Welcome. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ***at****e Report post Posted May 16, 2016 Bobbb Most of the women here provide a safe experience. As far as finding the best girl for you all I can say is this. Read the ads and reviews then contact the match for you. Ask a few appropriate questions. The thing to remember is the sp's are women the same as any other. Treat her well and the world could be yours. Have fun man, be safe and say a few kind words afterwards Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AlexTheGreat 100 Report post Posted May 18, 2016 Excellent advice, very informative site Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Random88 100 Report post Posted May 20, 2016 I'm new as well any tips anyone? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PaperWingz 303 Report post Posted June 27, 2016 New here and would like to thank everyone who contributed to this thread with their informative information for someone like myself who is brand new to hobbying. Hoping to learn a lot and eventually be able to give back to the community one way or another! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mikethewalker 1070 Report post Posted September 11, 2016 many very useful information from this site, thank you very much. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ottrec 1000 Report post Posted December 18, 2016 Good to know Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
