DarkSoul 261 Report post Posted September 23, 2012 Althought I am new to CERB, I am an experienced BDSM Dominant. I am curious to know which Service Providers in the Ottawa area are open to Bondage and Fetish scenes as a submissive. Requirements (flexible) - Bondage / Blindfolds - Spanking - Hair pulling - Deep throat / Throatfucking - Orgasm Control/ Orgasm Denial / Forced Orgasms - Roleplays (Naughty Schoolgirl, Sexy Secretary, French Maid, etc) Thanks, DS Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TGirl-Kay 7484 Report post Posted September 23, 2012 I know there are a few here on CERB who will bottom, you will hear from them I'm sure. Have you ever read a book called The Pleasures All Mine it's the memoire of a pro sub. She's got a great sence of humour it's a fun and insightfull read. Good luck in your search. Kay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
__school 100 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 HMMM. Any responses? i am interested as well.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
50strait 350 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 Madison! Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OTKKent 100 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 I am also interested in finding a provider for a female spankee. I am in my forties and have been into spanking both as a spanker and spankee for many years. I am always a gentleman and respect limits. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted September 25, 2012 (edited) Madison!Posted via Mobile Device I know Madison. She's a friend of mine. She's open minded, but not a mindless body open to simple, brutal abuse. She has to be respected for the style of service she offers. BDSM opens up a whole world of world of pleasurable possibilities, but it also invites unwelcome expectations. Please be gentle and respectful if booking a session. And as always, protect your sub. If you do protect your sub as your most treasured possession, you will most likely be invited back for more fun. I may sound over-protective, but she's a sweet soul. Edited September 27, 2012 by Jabba 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OTKKent 100 Report post Posted September 26, 2012 That is very correct. As a switch where I was the sub (spankee), I never liked a dom who simply just hit for the sake of hitting. In my opinion, spankings are as much psychological as they are physical. To me, this comes under respecting limits. Now that I am looking for a spankee (sub) for simple basic spanking play, I would always remember how well I was respected and treated. I am sure my search will be a successful one! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DarkSoul 261 Report post Posted September 28, 2012 I know Madison. She's a friend of mine. She's open minded, but not a mindless body open to simple, brutal abuse. She has to be respected for the style of service she offers. BDSM opens up a whole world of world of pleasurable possibilities, but it also invites unwelcome expectations. Please be gentle and respectful if booking a session. And as always, protect your sub. If you do protect your sub as your most treasured possession, you will most likely be invited back for more fun. I may sound over-protective, but she's a sweet soul. Jabba, First of all... I would much prefer SP to state they are experienced and open to being a submissive. I am not looking for members to recommend SP. Secondly, I have been a Dominant for over 20 year. I have trained many submissives. Don't be so presumptuous to tell me how to be a Dom. DS Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted September 28, 2012 Jabba, First of all... I would much prefer SP to state they are experienced and open to being a submissive. I am not looking for members to recommend SP. Secondly, I have been a Dominant for over 20 year. I have trained many submissives. Don't be so presumptuous to tell me how to be a Dom. DS I think I've just been spanked (I kinda' like it). :spank: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted September 28, 2012 (edited) Jabba, First of all... I would much prefer SP to state they are experienced and open to being a submissive. I am not looking for members to recommend SP. Secondly, I have been a Dominant for over 20 year. I have trained many submissives. Don't be so presumptuous to tell me how to be a Dom. DS Yeah, that's dark. I don't care if you do want to open up a can of whop ass, a little more politeness is called for, I say you are the one that needs a good spanking and some correction :) Edited September 28, 2012 by backrubman sp 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted September 28, 2012 First you started on Fetlife now here.... --sigh-- 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TGirl-Kay 7484 Report post Posted September 28, 2012 Me next please. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted September 28, 2012 No offense to the OP, but as a submissive with plenty of experience, you are a huge red flag and personally, I would never see someone so arrogant. Just me though. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DarkSoul 261 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 Yeah, that's dark. I don't care if you do want to open up a can of whop ass, a little more politeness is called for, I say you are the one that needs a good spanking and some correction :) Backrubman, I see you have issue sticking your nose into other people's business and you have a bit of a read comprehension problem. I did not insult Jabba... He insulted me as a Dom. I simply advised him of his place... Why don't you and your little friends move along and let the adults play. DS Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
backrubman 64800 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 Backrubman, I see you have issue sticking your nose into other people's business and you have a bit of a read comprehension problem. Darn, you picked up on my learning disability, I was hoping no one would notice :( I did not insult Jabba... He insulted me as a Dom. I simply advised him of his place... Well done! Stand proud! :) Why don't you and your little friends move along and let the adults play. Yes master. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Claire Heavens 51771 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 Ohhhhh my God. im speechless. I wanna laugh? be mad? or get wet? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 I'm wet.:icon_lol: 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The General 11309 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 I would like to make you wet..... :grin: Ohhhhh my God. im speechless. I wanna laugh? be mad? or get wet? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
toine 30556 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 Well, where is that frowny face again?:-( Now, back to the topic...:spank: Best, toine Backrubman, I see you have issue sticking your nose into other people's business and you have a bit of a read comprehension problem. I did not insult Jabba... He insulted me as a Dom. I simply advised him of his place... Why don't you and your little friends move along and let the adults play. DS Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Bardot 99339 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 Backrubman, I see you have issue sticking your nose into other people's business and you have a bit of a read comprehension problem. I did not insult Jabba... He insulted me as a Dom. I simply advised him of his place... Why don't you and your little friends move along and let the adults play. DS You made it this community's business by making your post public. I only read one insulting post, it wasn't Jabba's. Judging from the responses, everyone seems to be on Jabba's and BRM's side We aren't going to move along from our CERB community, maybe you are the one who should learn to fit in RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted September 29, 2012 Such a response tells us that maybe this site is not a good fit for you and perhaps you might be happier elsewhere!IMO! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted September 29, 2012 (edited) Darksoul, Open letter: Personally, I don't hold any grudge. In fact, I really liked this thread, not only is it entertaining but, because it shows how much people care about people. Yes, that includes you in your own unique way. I like to think this give and change dialogue is the Cerb spirit. I truly think you can benefit from the friendship offered here and encourage you to reach out. Feel free to knock on my door anytime bud. J. Edited September 29, 2012 by Jabba 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DarkSoul 261 Report post Posted October 1, 2012 OTKKent & School, Yes, I have received several private emails from various SP's in the Ottawa area who are interested in providing services as a submissive. I can provide you with those names to you if you are interested... Send me a private email. DS Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted October 1, 2012 OTKKent & School, Yes, I have received several private emails from various SP's in the Ottawa area who are interested in providing services as a submissive. I can provide you with those names to you if you are interested... Send me a private email. DS Good for you. Here have a cookie. From me. to you. http://www.askthemotherboard.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/chocolate_chip_cookie.jpg 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
