After the Fun - Getting Dressed?

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I have a very curious and active mind and I'm always entertaining myself with thoughts and questions and improvements. My question of the day is about after the fun and bliss is over and it's time to get dressed is there a preferred way to do this?

 

Do you like to just dress on your own and put yourself proper?

Do you enjoy being helped? Include some after play (touching, kissing) or not?

 

Do you mind being watched? As sexy as it is to watch the clothes coming off, it can also be very sexy to watch them go back on and seeing the conversion from lover to "business" or to "other".

[Wolf Knight 29667]

I love some help with a little play and kissing. I have found that as a client some of my most treasured encounters are when the lady is close to me while I get dressed. Perhaps she's kissing me, my neck, playfully interfering in my process. For me it enhances the GFE experience and provides the sensation that she doesn't want me to leave her. It really gets my motor running to want to come back and see her again soon.

[Luckyme 41401]

I definitely love some help while dressing not that I can't do it myself, lol. I love the closeness and the kisses and touching while being helped. I have been helped putting on my sweater, buttoning my shirt, and even putting on my shoes. These are very nice touches and wonderful gestures. Granted not every lady is keen or interested in doing those, but they just give me an extra nice feeling.

[Guest S**a*Q]

I always lay out the clothing for them, normally while they are in the shower. They come back and their stuff is ready to go. I usually sit on the bed and chat with them as they get ready. :D

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Uaually at the end my session I change into my " civies" so to speak. I find the gent's tend to be surprised at this, but always appreciate the fact I am comfortable enough to do this. To see the real me, not just the working version of me. Of couse I dress in nice cloths either way lol...

[Guest B**na***oy]

I love it when a lady watches me get dressed, it enhances the total experience and provides a nice transition towards the good-by hugs and kisses. This is also the time to come down from the cloud, show some mutual appreciation for the experience and set the stage for a future rendez-vous.

[royalflush131313 3480]

The after play is important to me as well. A little touching and teasing goes a long way toward the anticipation of a future visit. It could be laying next to each other in bed, a shower together, a little teasing as you're getting dressed, etc. You don't want to feel like 'o.k. you're done, here's your hat...' I know for me, I'm doing this for some passion and intimacy that I don't get enough of in my private life and to think the lady enjoyed your company, appreciated your visit and would like to see you again enhances the overall experience!

[mrgreen760 37785]

A chat while I'm dressing suits me fine....

 

Peace

MG

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I always lounge on the bed in a sexy fashion and chat with my clients while they get dressed. Seems natural that way. One time a client booked an hour not realizing he didn't need the full amount of time but saw me just seductively laying there and he ripped his shirt off that he had just put on and pounced on the bed! LOL. It was quite interesting after that!

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

Sometimes I have to "stay away" from the helping dress and keep to the chat part because I really don't want them to go and have to refrain from pouncing! Shameful I am!

[PistolPete 61421]

LOL It is has happened a couple of times to me, the lady was helping me with buttons on my shirt, she reached in and tweaked my nipple and laid one long DFK kiss, and with her other hand rubbed my erection from outside my silk boxers, and then I just started unbutton my cuffs and basically ripped my shirt off my body and we did it again....(She was in no rush and I have had seen her quite few times so this was just the spare of the moment hard passionate fucking time off the clock)

 

I love it either way, she helps me get dressed.... or just stares, I like coming out of the shower partially wet and drying myself right in front of her if she is on the bed, nothing like drying your man parts while chatting. Perhaps I might be a slut or a exhibitionist?? I like it, and I'm not shy in front of a lady :)

 

 

 

Sometimes I have to "stay away" from the helping dress and keep to the chat part because I really don't want them to go and have to refrain from pouncing! Shameful I am!

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Sometimes I have to "stay away" from the helping dress and keep to the chat part because I really don't want them to go and have to refrain from pouncing! Shameful I am!

 

Speaking as a client and a man if an SP ever felt the need to pounce it would be welcomed. Even though playful it would go a long way to reassuring me that she actually did enjoy my company and not just my donation. It would (and has in the past) make me feel special and very much inclined to need to be with that lady again very soon. After all everyone likes feeling desired.

[Guest webothscore]

I love the way you think midnight. Very sensual. It's sexy obviously when the other is still paying attention. If however, if we start to salute yet again, or even semi, don't think the time wasn't satisfactory. We are men! It moves...

[Gentleman11 10508]

The casual chat works for me as well - nothing artificial, just light and sincere.

[Nippongakki 3843]

I enjoy the casual chat, seems easy and natural. I never say no to a little help and after play but maybe I should...there have been more than a few occasions when I've had to get on the elevator with a full hard-on! It's like when you used to get boners in grade 5 and you're just trying to find something to cover it with or standing awkwardly so it's not just sticking straight out for everyone to see! Silly penis, mind of his own...

[RoddyThomas 2746]

Excellent question! I LOVE watching a lady get dressed after playtime. I have no preference for myself. Love the way you think Midnite!

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Once I had an awkward moment, as hard to belive...hahaha

 

So we had a passionate, thrilling time together, then time to get back to reality and got up to dress.

 

We giggled, and shared some flirts, then he was fully dressed. I walked him to the door, as usual, and went to lean in for a kiss and hug.

He backed up, and shook my hand with a very quick goodbye, see ya later...

I was baffled! What did I do or say?

 

Later, about 6 months later I had seen him again. I asked him what the deal was. He said that after his cloths go on, he jumps back into his own skin and prefers to leave it there.

 

I have seen him sense then, and now know his personality about this. I am comfortable with it, as I know this is how he prefers to conduct himself.

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I have experienced this as well. I always chalked it up to personal preference and comfort and made a mental note to remember to work within it. This is why with someone new, I let them do a majority of leading as i can be a little exuberant at times!

[gqstyle 643]

Once I had an awkward moment' date=' as hard to belive...hahaha

 

So we had a passionate, thrilling time together, then time to get back to reality and got up to dress.

 

We giggled, and shared some flirts, then he was fully dressed. I walked him to the door, as usual, and went to lean in for a kiss and hug.

He backed up, and shook my hand with a very quick goodbye, see ya later...

I was baffled! What did I do or say?

 

Later, about 6 months later I had seen him again. I asked him what the deal was. He said that after his cloths go on, he jumps back into his own skin and prefers to leave it there.

 

I have seen him sense then, and now know his personality about this. I am comfortable with it, as I know this is how he prefers to conduct himself.[/quote']

 

lol the nerve of him, i would have no problem making out with you before i exit ;)

[Brad 49548]

Not a topic I'd have given much thought to, but it's actually quite interesting when you bring it up (no pun intended!...OK, maybe a bit intended).

 

For me--after I remember how to breath again and grab a shower--my impulse is to get dressed quickly, offer my sincere thanks, and politely exit. Certainly not because I'm anxious to leave, however, but only because I wouldn't want to keep the Lady from the rest of her day. I try to be mindful of the agreed upon time and don't want to seem like I'm taking advantage or risk putting someone in a position that they need to give me a hint that it's time to go.

 

Not to mention that by then my brain is also usually still floating happily in the clouds rather than ensuring my conversation skills know how to string a verb and noun together.

 

So for me if a Lady helped me dress, and continued to flirt and add the occasional stray touch during the process, I would be highly flattered and reassured (and yes, most likely turned-on) . It would certainly add one more layer of sexiness leading up to the good bye and another smile to the memory.

[roamingguy 300291]

Well really no after the fun getting dressed ritual. But one of the ladies I've seen, well on our first encounter, she had another appointment (not as an escort btw) right after our date. She had her bra in her hand, but couldn't find her panties (no didn't steal them LOL) She was in a panic, "where are my panties, can't find my panties" and we both looked high and low in my hotel room

Well black panties when tossed on the floor half under a desk are hard to see...but we found them

But she was really cute, this beautiful lady, in a panic, searching high and low in the nude...did I mention she is beautiful?...for her panties. I was a bit more relaxed searching, the room wasn't that big and I knew the panties didn't run away, and they were actually found pretty quickly

I liked the way she put on her bra too, (well I like any way a lady puts on her bra.) She put it on backwards, spun it around, slipped her arms through the straps and then adjusted the cups with a lot of jiggle...don't know if that was for my benefit or not but I did like seeing her do it, I must confess.

 

RG

[Guest D***el B***e]

I find Asian women are the best at getting a man all dressed up after the act. I used to see an Asian girl, with the cutest ass you could find this side of the Mississipi, and she used to get me all dressed up after. I'd stand there butt naked, and she'd help my put on my underwear, seriously, and line up Johnny so he sits comfortably in his place, then kneel down and help me put on my socks, then the pants, shirt and tie, do all the buttons, line up the tie straight and make sure the knot was good, then the jacket and make sure there's nothing odd ... then she'd give me a big kiss on the lips ... and the boner would start all over again!!!!

 

Seriously, greatest girl for that ...

[Tsukiyo_Chevalier 3242]

to me it depends on on how i an with the lady. everyone reacts differently with different people. for example one lady i was with we were comfortable walking and seeing each other nude so we just got dressed in front of each other wile talking like friends. another time with someone else the lady was resting under the sheet on the bed as see was a little bit more modest so when i got dressed we had a talk and i kissed her to say good but and left and she had not gotten dressed yet. so i think the situation changes depending on the person, and personality and how well you 2 hit it off.

that is what makes it interesting and keeps it from getting old.

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

Oh I love and hate the getting dressed time. I love it because its a sexy time where playful interaction is genuine and passionate. I hate it because it means our time is almost over, and 9 times out of 10, I genuinely don't want it to end. It is why I don't offer HH sessions. It isn't long enough for ME.

 

I have had situations where I've been dressed, he's been dressed, and the playful after interactions have lead to more playtime (again, neither was in a hurry) and it was very much off the clock. I have also very VERY much wanted a client to stay... And cursed to myself at their perfect manners and respect of my time! Lol

 

I always lay out their clothes while they are in the shower also... And am always close by while they dress. Usually I can't keep my hands off them.... Mmm!

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

Savannah Lane, you sound like a lady after my own heart, bless you!!!

 

We may be providers but we're hot blooded ladies as well which means we get turned on, hungry and have the same cravings as anyone else. This means sometimes we restrain ourselves because of time or the gentleman's own behavior/actions. Thankfully there are times we don't have to.

 

If you gentleman think you don't impact us the same way you say we impact you, you are SO wrong. One of the amazingly wonderful things about this job!