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I truly enjoy the feeling of reconnection. The opportunity to compare notes since the last encounter is always a delightful exercise. I have been fortunate to have had the chance to go through a life experience linked to a variety of wonderful, open and kind women. They add the spark to a life that keeps me going forward with a smile on my face.

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I truly enjoy the feeling of reconnection. The opportunity to compare notes since the last encounter is always a delightful exercise. I have been fortunate to have had the chance to go through a life experience linked to a variety of wonderful, open and kind women. They add the spark to a life that keeps me going forward with a smile on my face.

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my regular has a customer loyalty program where every 10th visit is free !

she keeps a log that we both initial after every visit. It's a great idea :)

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Escorting is not about just physical satisfaction, it is about our fantasy, our dream. And if we find provider who is able to satisfy that dream - we repeat with that woman.

Dream can be very different like GFE meaning can be different. For one person it is simply "Good Fucking Experience", and if it is really good this is the reason to repeat. For other guy it is real "Girl Friend Experience", desire to have someone who cares about you even if it is just for 1-2 hours. For the third person it is "Good Friend Experience", someone you can talk to about everything and who understands you...

And if we find right person for our fantasy, for something we are missing - we repeat.

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Escorting is not about just physical satisfaction, it is about our fantasy, our dream. And if we find provider who is able to satisfy that dream - we repeat with that woman.

Dream can be very different like GFE meaning can be different. For one person it is simply "Good Fucking Experience", and if it is really good this is the reason to repeat. For other guy it is real "Girl Friend Experience", desire to have someone who cares about you even if it is just for 1-2 hours. For the third person it is "Good Friend Experience", someone you can talk to about everything and who understands you...

And if we find right person for our fantasy, for something we are missing - we repeat.

 

Well said Tempted Monk.

At first I would repeat with ones that would be described by just one or two of the types you have described. Now, I have been fortunate enough to find a very select few who check two or all three categories you mention. To me, that is why I repeat and see them again and again. I still visit new-to-me SPs from time to time but when I know exactly what I want and I'm in the mood for something...special, it's nice to know where I can go.

 

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It's getting harder to repeat with girls these days. I keep meeting new girls and having a great time with them. And would like to repeat with them, but I have many regulars that I would like to repeat with also. There just isn't enough time and money for me to repeat with a lot of girls. So I try to repeat with girls that I have a great connection with. Those that invite me back and those that keep in contact with me. But there are so many great girls out there now :)

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LOl...

 

I used to be in sort of a panic state of when am I going to find time to see all the ladies I want to see... and then just decided to relax... especially when I'd see a lady advertised and find her very attractive and then she'd disappear before I had a chance to see her... aahahahahahahahaha.

 

But lately, I've become a bit of a serial monogamist... one lady at a time. It started when I was seeing a lady who was everything I wanted and spending an hour with her was as refreshing as ice water on a hot day.

 

For a while I was alternating between two ladies but both of them retired... then I saw a lady 3 years until that relationship went sour, briefly saw one of my retired ladies again and then she went back to Europe, and now I'm seeing someone new and having a great time.

 

I confess I started seeing the current lady while still seeing the previous one... in part so as not to get too narrowly focused on one lady.

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in Oct and November, I repeated 6 times in 7 weeks in a row. First time. But we had just amazing connection and chemistry. We kept in communication almost everyday. But haven't seen her in almost 5 weeks now. :( She is having problems in her personal life, but we still keep in touch. Hopefully everything gets resolved and we continue to see each other.

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Wow, this is an amazing thread, and I truly enjoyed the pages of reading why others and more seasoned men repeat.

I am new to this hobby, about 3 months and in that time I have repeated with the same lady multiple times. and for me the reasons are simple. She is kind, considerate and loves to kiss and cuddle. I did thorough research, thank you all on this site for your amazing library of reviews and postings to help us new guys navigate this hobby.

Once I finally made my decision to take it to the next step, which was actually see an MA who looked like a perfect fit to me, I really enjoyed the time we spent together. I know most of this article is on SP's but for me an MA is more my style. At first I was a little intimidated by the whole process, but when I finally met my first MA, she truly made me feel like I was the only person in the world for her and that made me really feel special. She treats me like I am special and I am always happier when I am with her. She treats me like a king and makes me feel special in ways only a friend can. I will continue to see her, but now that I have had a taste of the adventure it is time to see others and see if there is anyone else I can enjoy the same level of companionship with. In the end I would like to have 3 special ladies to share time with, to have, hold and cherish the time we spend together. The main things I look for in a companion, are kindness, caring and ultimately, that they really want to spend time with me. I am not the most attractive man, but I am really caring and affectionate. So in closing, I am trying to fill a void in my life, that I do not get at home, the Kissing, cuddling and just plain friendship that is missing in my life.

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I repeat because if I find someone who is great... why risk missing out.

 

One lady I love her hair and was day-dreaming about how it felt to wrap my arms around her and feel her warm body through her hair.

 

The other lady I see has me smiling or even laughing from the moment I pick her up until the moment I drop her off back home.

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Over years, reading reviews on the escort Ladies I have met more that ones, I made an interesting observation. There are three situations here.

- Most reviews are very consistent and similar to my experience. Usually, it is very good experience but not excellent.

- I see in these reviews something very interesting and positive what didn't happen to me. This is indication that I didn't really "clicked" with that girl and I didn't see her best side.

- My experience is really different (in positive sense) from otherwise consistent reviews, what I have on my date is almost never mentioned in the reviews. And this is always the case with the woman who is my favorite regular provider.

Probably, this personal touch, unique experience, the possibility to see the best of her, her desire to be natural and open with me makes this woman so attractive and makes me the loyal regular client.

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Another reason I repeat is that because we know each other and trust each other we do fun things together outside... not just in a room... I took a lady snow shoeing last week... we had a blast... she was so sexy in her coat and snow shoes.

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I agree with the common thread that there is a certain chemistry that fulfills the fantasy we have when we begin this hobby. For me that usually involves developing trust with each other to the point of feeling comfortable enough to share a little of ourselves that we would normally keep hidden behind a mask. Before moving back to Ottawa I had the pleasure of getting to know one lady very well. That familiarity and trust manifested itself in many ways that produced incredible visits. In between visits we would maintain contact by email, and still do, just to see how each other is doing. For me it's special and rare when you can feel like you have developed a true friendship, within the bounds of the hobby, that transcends the purely physical act and evolves into a form of intimacy that enhances everything else that is part of the visit.

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For the same reasons we mostly deal with the same contractors or workshops after receiving good services. Some may argue dealing with an SP or MA is not the same, but in many ways it is. In both cases, you check for their services, references, reviews and hire them if you like what you see. If your not completely satisfied, you got to repeat the process to find someone better.

 

Both have their good and bad:

 

Seeing someone new is always an adventure. Sometimes the payback is awesome and on occasions a complete nightmare.

 

In a repeat, there far less unknowns. The experience is more predictable and safe. The little downside is the possible monotony when dealing with providers who never venture out of their comfort zone. But when dealing with someone opened to try new things, you can live a completely new experiences and never get bored.

 

If you got a good imagination and see a lady opened to it, a repeat will always beat the risks of starting from scratch.

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For me it's all of it. If I feel a connection with a particular So I will return over and over. If there's no connection I'm probably only going to see them the one time. Unless the service is amazing of course. Ideally though it's amazing service and a strong connection and then I'm totally hooked!

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Yesterday I saw a lady, who I've known for over 5 1/2 years. she knows what I like, and my body responds very well to her. We also have on going conversations. One other advantage is that she trusts me enough that when she can she invites me to her place (rather than the room she rents to see other clients), and we can enjoy a more relaxing time together.

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