Turn-offs for a lady

[cyclo 30131]

If you play the guitar and use your right hand instead of a pick, please be conscious of that when you decide to go exploring...

 

I don't think the OP was referring to calluses. Calluses build up on the fretting fingers, the fingers used on the guitar neck, which is usually the left hand. (Unless you're Hendrix and play the guitar backwards.)

 

The right hand is used to strum or pick the guitar strings. If a guitarist doesn't use a pick to strum or pick they will usually grow their finger nails longer. So it's really a suggestion to be careful with long finger nails on your right hand "when you decide to go exploring".

 

Having been a guitar player in my younger days I had longer nails on my right hand and I certainly didn't want to hurt my partners. So I decided that since I was pretty good at fingering a guitar neck with my left hand I would use my left hand to finger other places as well ;-) Problem solved.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

This is going to sound far out because the men I've seen from this site have never done this sort of thing but here goes...

 

 

Men who show up and act very pretentious and say they were expecting better surroundings. Like what? The Ritz Carlton Hotel? My location is not a 5 star hotel nor is it in a massage spa setting. It is also FAR from a dump and it is certainly not a mattress on the floor. My location is always clean and tidy with appropriate amenities and I do what it takes to make it comfortable and serene with relaxing music. I really don't know what some people think when it says on the MA's website that it is not a walk in studio and mentioned on the phone that it is a private residence in a house setting. I really don't like people like this and that's when I show them the door. Very off putting!

 

Had this happen a few years ago....men who just want to come and take a look with 3 different escorts in close proximity of one another in one day! Myself and the other two ladies knew each other and spoke regularly.

 

Men who make an appointment at the quoted rate, they arrive and then say they forgot their wallet in the car. Most escorts have heard that phrase before and it means they're not coming back. Suddenly they call you from the parking lot and ask if you do this or that? They figure the escort doesn't want to have her time wasted so she will agree to such and such and perhaps maybe the guy will even try to negotiate if she agrees to whatever it is.. Had that happen once as well but he didn't get me to agree to anything nor to the negotiating part because I told him he had 30 seconds to leave the parking lot! I don't do business that way!

 

Guys who are cab drivers and on different shifts use the phone at different times of the day to make an appointment with an escort except the voice is different from hours earlier. You know they're a cab driver because an escort friend has seen him before and pulled the same stunt and recognized the infamous number when they were out together one day. Do they think we're stupid? They have also pulled one of the stunts above because they showed up driving a cab where I could see from the parking lot. lol. Not a fan of some of these drivers who pull this bullshit.

 

Ahhh, I could tell crazy stories like this all day long. lol.

[YoungBeautyMirella 5600]

I agree 100% with some people talking really loudly outside the door right when leaving. 'Thank you so much, I will definitely be back!! You are so beautiful', even though it was already said IN PRIVATE before you started to leave. Imagine us going to an out call to someone's place or hotel and saying in the hallway 'hope you liked my 'service' and call me back' ;) lol

 

Another thing which was mentioned before is hand washing. I swear if I had a dollar for every time someone got offended, legit offended, when I very nicely and politely asked if they can wash up and wash their hands(which is not a rude question, is it?) I would be almost rich. :P Yeah that's cool that you washed up before you left, but what about the door knob you touched? Or the steering wheel? Or the elevator buttons? Or the donation, of course? I'm not saying you're dirty, I'm just saying something that is common sense and proper hygiene...

 

Also, I got asked earlier if I do car calls. Not only is that a turn off but a definite never gunna even see you now..ever...:)

[Andee 220524]

Using mouthwash or minty gum before an encounter is fine, but not a few minutes prior to visiting south.

 

Some may enjoy the tingling sensation, but I am one who doesn't.

 

Oh, and is that gum still in your mouth? Seriously?

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I agree 100% with some people talking really loudly outside the door right when leaving. 'Thank you so much, I will definitely be back!! You are so beautiful', even though it was already said IN PRIVATE before you started to leave. Imagine us going to an out call to someone's place or hotel and saying in the hallway 'hope you liked my 'service' and call me back' ;) lol

 

Like this...They put their shoes on, I hear the door open a crack and then he shouts out "Thanks Niki, I had an amazing time! You're great in ***!!" as the person's voice echoes throughout my location after I've walked away as I'm standing in the bathroom out of view from the front entrance.. FFS!!!

[Andee 220524]

When a known client calls me to ask for another lady's number because he forgot it and then calls me back and asks me to call her because she's not picking it up, it's like, if she's not answering you, what makes you think she's going to answer me.

 

Also when it happens 5 or 6 times, it's just plain rude. I'm not a secretary so memorize or write down the damn number!

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

Men who show up and act very pretentious and say they were expecting better surroundings. Like what? The Ritz Carlton Hotel? My location is not a 5 star hotel nor is it in a massage spa setting. It is also FAR from a dump and it is certainly not a mattress on the floor. My location is always clean and tidy with appropriate amenities and I do what it takes to make it comfortable and serene with relaxing music. I really don't know what some people think when it says on the MA's website that it is not a walk in studio and mentioned on the phone that it is a private residence in a house setting. I really don't like people like this and that's when I show them the door. Very off putting!

 

Had this happen a few years ago....men who just want to come and take a look with 3 different escorts in close proximity of one another in one day! Myself and the other two ladies knew each other and spoke regularly.

 

Don't you just love it when men do this? NOT!

 

Shortly after I arrived here, I lived in a very nice place, better than most 5 star hotels in the area.

But, because the location was Dartmouth and not Halifax, I had men complaining that it wasn't good enough for them. They wouldn't come to me, so I was doing outcalls instead because of this.

WTF more do you want?

An almost million $ condo isn't good enough for you?

They would say things like 'I don't like the neighborhood and that it wasn't safe'.

 

Buddy, people are spending anywhere from almost a million $ to $3.5 million to live where that was.

Reluctantly I sold it, as I couldn't keep it through certain circumstances.

Where I play now is still clean, quiet, respectful and discreet.

I often wonder what the residences of these guys looks like? I walked out of a few guys places that were absolutely disgusting.

It's the reason why I will not go to motel outcalls.

 

As for the guys that 'make the rounds', by booking two or three ladies, just to see what they look like in person, go fuck yourselves! Don't waste our time.

It's time wasters like this that make it impossible to have bookings from those who really want to see us. Thanks for nothing.

 

Guys seem to be wanting more and more for less and less these days.

 

 

 

[YoungBeautyMirella 5600]

I recently had someone PM me saying they saw my posting and another girls posting (not on cerb) and even though I have plenty of reco's etc they saw her (his words not mine) and it was the worst experience of his life(with an S P). He said he wished he saw me instead but I seemed 'too good to be true' and he felt ' extremely ripped off' by the girl he saw instead... rushed..treated poorly.. etc etc etc . But, he loves my reviews blah blah.... That's nice and all, but really what are you trying to accomplish? Me feeling bad and being extra nice? I'm really just myself always, so if you want to see me just book accordingly and nicely... I don't really need a whole sob story before me meet (and trust me, I got a whole lot more info than what I am posting) and perhaps tell me more after our great time together? ....

 

Just to add, I don't mind you telling me your experiences etc but there is a lot more to this story which I can't really talk about because of the cerb rules etc, but like I mentioned previously, I am always myself and do not fake anything, so unless you are very rude and intentionally trying to do something bad, don't try to 'guilt trip' me into 'being very nice' to you, because if you treat me right, you will be very happy..Sans 'guilt trip' ....

 

[Moon Seerose 760]

My biggest turn off are no shows. As an independent who has another job, I typically only book a total of 2 hours on my available days. I had someone want two hours so I told others I wasn't available for that day when they contacted for an appointment. Then the person ended up not showing up. So not only am I out the fee of that appointment, I now have some thinking that I am just playing around because I had to tell them for the third time they have requested that I am not available. It makes me look bad and that is not good when you are trying to build your reputation in a small market like PEI.

[Highsexdrivebabe 11800]

It might be on the thread already but ladies advertising 24 hours open... For then gentlemen just think they can call, text or email U whenever they feel like it...

 

I do have a personal life and if I do not post an ad I am NOT available but I do understand that the paper gents don't know about that so whenever I am close to the phone on days off I still answer and tell that I am not working but will be on such and such a day.

 

But I have dummies tell me 'Well why do U answer your phone?!!! Simply for gents who want to book days after..................... These callers really pi sss me off!!!

 

Otherwise I am a very nice, social lady!!

 

Bisous

 

Barbara

xxoo

[JoyfulC 132299]

I find it offputting when people:

• Fire right out the gate with explicit comments or questions. Don't compromise me, please!
  
• Refuse to coöperate with what I ask them for, and then tell me it's okay, they're great guys and I'm going to really like them. This is my job. I am looking for good experiences, and I've learned what to do to optimize my chances of having them. I'm trying to avoid problems. I know what I'm doing. It's not your place to tell me how to do my business.
  
• Lie to me. Don't tell me things that don't check out, like we've talked in the past (if I can't find any record of that under any number or email address you provide) or that we've met in the past (when again, I have no record of it).
  
• Tell me stuff about myself that I haven't yet disclosed. This doesn't make you look smart. It makes you look creepy.
  
• Call me "baby" or any other cutsie name before we even know each other. Let's be respectful!
  
• Ask me to drop my rate. I can commiserate with your being on a budget. I live with one myself. I can adjust my rates for beggars the day that I can go, hat in hand, to my creditors and ask them to give me the same goods and services for a lower price, because my budget doesn't allow me to pay full price. Until that day, don't bother to ask.
  

 

Normally, I prefer to focus on what goes right and the great people that cross my path. But since the question was asked, ^^ there it is!

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31672]

Extremely pissed off with this one .....

 

After texting back and forth with this gentlemen whom was visiting Halifax from jordan we confirmed a time and he came to my location....walks in and tells me i am Not the peraon in the pictures i have posted lol i was at a loss for words as i couldnt underatand why he would think that when i have. Never ever used fake pictures and i always post recent up to date photos

 

Smh still trying to understand that one but oh well his loss and it was defiantly another gentlemens pleasure!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Trying to book through PM for the same day after I ask a person to call because I don't book through PM and have made that known.

 

Follow a person's instructions instead of going against them and continuing to send a private message here requesting a time to book.

 

Same day requests for appointments through the PM system will be ignored. I am rarely on this site anymore. Booking a time in advance through here is fine as long as it is followed up with a phone call. I answer inquiries through text that cannot be answered here and if an appt is made, I ask them to call. That's it, that's all.

[Carley Chase 18985]

When I am not begin treated like a human been. Just because I choose to be in this profession that doesn't make me an less of a lady. I don't care for anyone who thinks differently. I am quite happy with my life currently and I have plenty of other aspects to my life. This is mainly one, very small, glimpse of who I am. There is much more to Carley Chase then what meets the eye.

[Andee 220524]

Hours of back and forth one line texts to try and book a half hour session and then not following through. This is why I say you need to "call" to book and I why ignored most of the texts.

[50 Shades Raven 31380]

completely arrogant jerks that think they are entitled.

 

Spend two hours texting to me back and forth to get an appointment, I go out of my way to accommodate you and then you cancel 5 minutes after the appointment time!

'Something suddenly came up"!! Horseshit!

At the time you should have been here! If you needed to cancel, reschedule, whatever, let me know!

 

If you don't intend on showing, DON"T BOOK!

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31672]

A gentlemen texts me today to inquire about my services as the regular lady he visits is moving away he says he has been very much intrigued with my ads....he asks for rates and services I tell him both rates for the hh and hour and then he asks do I offer a discounted rate for regular clients...buddy you haven't even met me yet and you are far from a regular (turn off)

Maybe if you were a frequent regular then I would consider

I offer a massage rate,half hour rate and an hour rate and you cannot afford to pay for either of those smh

Wow not a very good first impression in my books

[Eric Northman 16522]

I get that a lot of guys are jerks but sometimes you ladies seem to get pretty prickly about perceived offenses. Perhaps this gentleman was not asking for a discount on his first session but was curious to know if there could be a discount if you and he happened to establish a regular relationship.

 

I know discounts are a huge taboo/turn off but then again, you ladies also love to have regulars and it's absolutely not unprecedented in the business world to provide loyalty rewards to valued customers. I've definitely heard of arrangements where one pays for a number of sessions up front at a slightly better rate. Say normal rate is 220 but if you buy 5 in advance it costs $1000 so $200 each. Good deal for everyone. You get money up front and he gets to know his next 5 sessions are locked in at a good rate.

 

Anyway, none of my business how y'all run yo' bidness but I sometimes feel like some of you are so ready to be offended that innocent (albeit ignorant) questions from guys who perhaps don't know any better get you all pissed off. I suppose in this profession it's better to be safe than sorry but I'll tell you, this thread definitely can make you feel like you're walking on eggshells.

[Talia Ciarra 3360]

Meaningless back and forth PM's when they have no intention of booking in the first place.

Calls or PM's at MIDNIGHT , most people are sleeping at this time. Anyone who calls are text this late has absolutely no respect.

 

Additional Comments:

Don't tell me that I have a look-alike when you have never seen me before! I do not have a look-alike!

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

A gentlemen texts me today to inquire about my services as the regular lady he visits is moving away he says he has been very much intrigued with my ads....he asks for rates and services I tell him both rates for the hh and hour and then he asks do I offer a discounted rate for regular clients...buddy you haven't even met me yet and you are far from a regular (turn off)

Maybe if you were a frequent regular then I would consider

I offer a massage rate,half hour rate and an hour rate and you cannot afford to pay for either of those smh

Wow not a very good first impression in my books

 

funny thing is Danielle is that his regular probably didn't provide discounts to him and probably had a talk with him about it.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

"Are these sheets clean?" What am I? A dirt bag? That is disgusting!

 

And btw I have a secret second job in the evenings.... it's called doing laundry. So yes, ALL the sheets and pillow cases are clean for each guest I have which is not a lot these days. I am very selective with who I decide to meet with or who I will allow to sit on my clean sheets. lol.

 

 

"Avail?" How about writing it out in a proper sentence which doesn't even take 30 seconds. I will only answer those who send a proper greeting. This speaks volumes about the person.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31672]

If you haven't yet had the pleasure of even meeting me why would you ask for a discount..I have given not one not two but three different rates and as far as I am concerned if he cannot pay at least one of those and already asking me for a discount that is Not a good luck or a turn on in my books

I offer three different rates for those who may not be able to afford the hour

I absolutely adore and appreciate my regular cliental and treat them good, for someone that hasn't even met me face to face yet already ask to lower my rates is not someone I have any interest in

You have no idea what we as companions go through on a daily basis,how many times we are asked to lower our rates and what not

I love what I do and I love being with those who appreciate me and our time together

But before you ask me about a discount try meeting me first (become a regular) then maybe we can talk

Sorry my comment made you feel a way but that is my opinion and how I feel about that situation

[shortandsweetxo 1348]

Don't even get me started on the "Do you do discounts for regulars?" guys. 99.999999999999998% of the time it is directly followed with "If you give me a discount I will book every XXX for the next XXX"

 

Literally makes me want to chuck my phone. Good thing that it's indestructible.

 

Another one that kills me is "BJ?" or "CIM?"... As full sentences.... Until you have developed the ability to use a full sentence, not just bark things at me like I'm a robotic sex machine, you are incapable of consent in my world....

 

And, oh lord jesus, the "I'm married and you're the only escort I see, can we please do bareback?" guys. I rage out. Uncontrollably. I have told every single one of them how I felt to the point where it's cruel. You want to risk your life? Sure. You want a worker to risk her life? That's her choice. You want to risk your wife's life without even telling her? Without even giving her the choice? You are officially sick, disturbed and will not be coming anywhere near me. We all know you are lying, you see more than one escort and you say the same thing to them to.

 

As for walking on egg shells, good. If I am trusting you not to rape, beat or otherwise harm me.... you should be very cautious. You may not get laid if you say the wrong thing, if we choose the wrong client.... Well let's just say I would rather my mother never get that phone call.

[Phaedrus 209521]

What's offensive is when someone I've never met tells me that he will want to meet me every week for the next two years (true story) so can he get a rebate?

 

Sure you can have a rebate! But you have to pay for the whole two years up front to get it... :)

[LeeRichards 177238]

Reading about discounts or rebates..... poor shopper I am.

 

I keep it simple. I choose whom I want to spend time with..........then I shop for them or with them !

 

Tis fun :)