The "Pretty Woman" Thought Experiment

[SuperNewf 1394]

A thought randomly entered my head today that I found mildly amusing, so I would like to know what other people think of it.

 

Many of the ladies' websites around here have 'week long getaway' specials and some also mention being able to sometimes extend a date at the client's request, but have also sternly said that clients should not ask to see them outside of the professional relationship.

 

So, what I am wondering, is what if there was a billionaire client who came along who wanted to extend the week long getaway special indefinitely, or simply keep booking them one after the other? All time of course is paid at the asking donation or perhaps even a greater amount.

 

What would your reactions to such an offer be? I assume that most ladies would reject it, but I don't understand logically why from the information I have gathered from the websites. What makes a certain amount of time/money booked with multiple clients different than the same amount of time/money booked with one?

[roamingguy 300291]

A thought randomly entered my head today that I found mildly amusing, so I would like to know what other people think of it.

 

Many of the ladies' websites around here have 'week long getaway' specials and some also mention being able to sometimes extend a date at the client's request, but have also sternly said that clients should not ask to see them outside of the professional relationship.

 

So, what I am wondering, is what if there was a billionaire client who came along who wanted to extend the week long getaway special indefinitely, or simply keep booking them one after the other? All time of course is paid at the asking donation or perhaps even a greater amount.

 

What would your reactions to such an offer be? I assume that most ladies would reject it, but I don't understand logically why from the information I have gathered from the websites. What makes a certain amount of time/money booked with multiple clients different than the same amount of time/money booked with one?

 

First there is an old saying, even a gilded cage is still a cage. And a lady has a life outside of being a professional companion. Being a professional companion, irrespective of how social and interpersonal an occupation it is, is still for the lady her livelihood, her job. And being with a billionaire, who books for x hours, time is up, peels off a few more bills, wants xx hours more, then when that time is up wants xxx hours more, I don't think anyone would like that The billionaire is making her continue her job indefinitely based solely on his whims.

If a set time is booked is one thing, but indefinitely extending it is another.

And maybe the lady has only one client a day, she doesn't see multiple clients in a day. Because that is what she prefers and how she runs her business (just don't assume all ladies see clients one after the other)

A lady has a life outside of being a companion. She may have family, friends, going to school, another job. She presents the illusion of someone free with no outside responsibilities and obligations but she like everyone has a life outside of this lifestyle

Would you like to work, then at the end of your work day, get thrown a bit more money, but you have to work more, then at the end of that more bills peeled off, but you stay longer at work and so on, based on the whims of a boss who is a billionaire.

Finally, for a getaway, an overnight, it is something planned. It is beyond just getting a hotel room and staying locked in 24/7. You have to have something planned, depending for how long the getaway is, a few things planned. And she will want some "her" time too.

Point to this, at the end of the getaway she may have had enough of the clients company (he still is her client) and wants to leave. She may just want to go home. She does have a life outside of being an escort. Peeling more money off to extend a getaway may not appeal to a lady and doesn't stop her outside responsibilities.

My guess and generalizing no, irrespective of billionaire or not, a lady won't indefinitely stay with him, at his whim. Extending a date an hour or two is one thing, but indefinite extending, I don't see anyone liking that

A long winded convoluted rambling

Hope it answers your question

 

RG

[drlove 37202]

A thought randomly entered my head today that I found mildly amusing, so I would like to know what other people think of it.

 

Many of the ladies' websites around here have 'week long getaway' specials and some also mention being able to sometimes extend a date at the client's request, but have also sternly said that clients should not ask to see them outside of the professional relationship.

 

So, what I am wondering, is what if there was a billionaire client who came along who wanted to extend the week long getaway special indefinitely, or simply keep booking them one after the other? All time of course is paid at the asking donation or perhaps even a greater amount.

 

What would your reactions to such an offer be? I assume that most ladies would reject it, but I don't understand logically why from the information I have gathered from the websites. What makes a certain amount of time/money booked with multiple clients different than the same amount of time/money booked with one?

 

Some elite courtesans do offer extended packages such as monthly rates, although from what I have seen, this is the exception not the rule.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Some ladies won't see clients for multiple hours - no matter how much money the client has. Period.

[emiafish 30979]

Ok - who is this really? Is that you Mark Zuckerberg? Or you Bill Gates? Confess, you'll feel better. :boobeyes:

[roamingguy 300291]

Hmm, yeah I figured something like that. What about a less extreme example, then? Say a lady has her schedule arranged to see one client a day. What if the billionaire client wants to book that specified time every single day or simply take every slot that she makes available herself?

 

You mean sort of be her exclusive client. I suppose it depends on chemistry and if she wants exclusivity. Sounds more like a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement

Probably the biggest concern for the lady is with an exclusive relationship she also becomes financially dependant on just one client, and what happens to her if he no longer wants to see her.

Also there is the possibility that a man who becomes the sole source of income for the lady may try to push boundaries, and the lady may feel obligated because she is dependant on him

If the lady and gentleman click, it could work. But there would need to be mutual respect for such an arrangement so it could be mutually beneficial.

The lady would need to be careful she isn't stepping in a caged, gilded as it may be

 

RG

[roamingguy 300291]

Lol, nah I'm not super rich, just very curious about social dynamics in general. I have to ask these kinds of questions about even the simplest social circumstances to figure them out.

 

Additional Comments:

 

 

I would assume that if the client wants to discontinue that the lady would just resume seeing other clients like before. But I get what you're saying... The main concern for the lady would be that the client's motives are suspect and probably not the same as typical clients? I hadn't thought about why the client might be offering such an arrangement, just taken it as a given.

 

It's not so much that the client has suspect motives, just he might have different expectations from such an arrangement. For example he might expect with exclusivity he can get to do certain menu items she normally wouldn't do. As for the lady, it's not just a matter of starting up her business again. She may have a business built on her reputation. What happens if say, they stay together for a year, then he decides he no longer wants to see her. A year not being a SP is a long time, memories fade, she may have a very hard time getting re-established. Some ladies I know invest in themselves...websites, professional up to date photos etc and have built a positive reputation for themselves. All that needs to be re-established. It is more than just a profile on CERB and posting some ads here

A lady would really have to assess if it is worth her business to go into this sort of arrangement. It may be OK for some, but not all

 

RG

[gabbylaurenxoxo 370]

I would quote and agree with everything RG said, but instead I'll just do this: :bigclap:

 

 

From the "billionaire's" perspective, why would he want that? Money can buy you lovin, but it can't buy you love.

 

Maybe I'm naive in thinking I'll eventually move on from this industry and fall in love the ole-fashioned way?

 

Otherwise, this is just a domestic partnership. Why seek an escort for this? With zero-disrespect, wouldn't companionship be better sought from someone seeking more "exclusivity" . mail order brides, sugarbaby-type relationships, etc? Most of the fine ladies I've seen posting here are strong-willed, independent, businesswomen with a future of their own making planned.

 

If it's the attraction to that lifestyle, ie. having a sexy reputable lady's exclusivity, it would fade fast; as not maintaining an active profile, with new advertising, and the inability to see other clients would sour that reputation, I would think.

 

A Romantic?,

 

Gabby

xoxo

[cinelli 22184]

"No strings attached" goes both ways.

 

Also possessing something is rarely as pleasurable as desiring it would make it seem.

 

To wit: I was a blue collar schmuck for many years. There were many things I wanted and dreamed of having someday. One day I found myself very affluent. Oddly most of the things I had wanted no longer appealed to me. Rolex watch? I bought two. Never wear them. They don't impress anyone, they are just watches.

 

So yeah sure it might be fun to spend a weekend with some hot babe, but after a while anyone can get on your nerves.

[roamingguy 300291]

That's the thing about an exclusive arrangement. You may be friends with the lady. The lady may be friends with you. But its under current arrangements when you see each other for a few hours for an encounter. But if every day, day in, day out you see each other, 24/7 you may get sick of one another, but what is worse, you can risk destroying a friendship.

If you see the lady every day, she isn't going to be done up to the "t's" like she is when she comes for an encounter

And if she sees you every day well it's not like an encounter any more, she likely won't get a gift and tip every day. Even if she did it ceases to be special, just a routine expectation

Two people together occasionally, it is a special occasion, with some ladies a very special occasion. But every day, unless you both are in love with one another and want to build a life together, just my opinion, but an exclusive arrangement is a recipe for disaster. And the worst, a friendship could get destroyed in the process.

A morning rambling

 

RG

[loopie 15358]

I think what SuperNewf is describing is basically a "trophy wife" arrangement. I don't think those types of relationships are officially hammered out as employer-employee relationships. There's usually some pretense of romance, however, I think that the women who get into those relationships know that they have to sexually please their partner in order for him to continue providing a posh lifestyle.