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I took today off to go to dinner and then to a sex-workers' pride event at a local club thrown by the group POWER that I'm a member of, the event was a huge success and we generated a lot of support, I was beaming with pride at the cheers generated by the hosts to the plight of realizing what it means to have safety and independance and honour brought to our proffession.....and that it should be deemed as such: a noble proffession. supporters were cheered on too....everyone was appreciated. However the night was not without its batch of naysayers and judgmental ignorants at the end of the evening....i actually lost some "friends" tonight (notice I use the term "friends" loosely) getting caught in debate as to what our world really was about and truly deserved. it leaves me a bit saddened...actually VERY heavy hearted.. but gives me hope in that this was a huge step for Ottawa. A difficult upwards battle is definitely in our future tho. I was basically outed to everyone that I happened to know outside of work tonight who happened to be there (perhaps the shirt that said "I LOVE my job" played a part in this, lol)...but I dont care anymore. This is my life, I've chosen it and those who dont care to see past their own stereotypes yet still attend a night like POWER threw tonight wishing to scoff and cast stones....well I wonder why they showed up in the first place. (??) I for one know a few blokes who showed up seeing if they could meet some "hookers" and "peelers" first hand and were surprised and turned off that there was a homosexual market in ottawa and were disgusted that "queers" were even mentioned tonight. One (no longer) "friend" came up to me at one point and asked me to point out all the "hot whores" that were present. I said (in less polite words) that I regreted ever handing him a flyer. Many people worked long and hard and planned this event thoroughly and delivered an amazing show...full of shout-outs and respectful cheers and amazing music and live performances. I personally would like to applaud POWER (prostitutes of Ottawa Gatineau, Work Educate Resist) for bringing the community together tonight. I for one am not going to let tonight's naysayers affect my pride for my work...if anything I feel sorry for some who judge before they even try to understand. I hope that everyone in support of tonight or in organization of tonight sees the contribution over the judgement and recognizes what a big step they have made for our industry in Ottawa. I for one (no matter what I may have lost tonight...that didn't matter in the first place now that I think of it) have gained more strength from coming to terms with who I am tonight.... ....and I have POWER to thank for it. all my love, xoxo Annessa

Personal hygiene for me is number one on my list and I usually go through a strict preparation schedule which usually starts days ahead of time. I take myself seriously and I treat my hobby like my business. I want to be at my best all the time. No exceptions. If I cant do it right , I don't do it at all. I usually start some of these a few days earlier and Ill explain why, 1) I take care of any excess body hair which includes shaving my balls, my butt hole, nose, ears and trimming underarms. I usually take care of this a day or two before my meeting. The reason is that If accidentally nicked my genitals, ill still have an opportunity to cancel my appointment. You don't want to be anywhere near your ladies genitals with an open wound even if its only a scratch. It just makes it safe for everyone and besides genital hair doesn't grow back in day. 2) I cut and trim my toenails and fingernails. I also make sure that I take care of this a day before again for safety reasons. You don't want to have any open finger wounds especially if you use digits. I always carry finger condoms for this purpose because I never know when I can injure myself on my way to a date. I go get a manicure and pedicure every few weeks to keep my digits and toes in pristine condition. I never want to have to worry that the lady will be choking on a hang nail if she happens to want to suck on my toes. 3) With an SO in my life, I take great precautions in what I wear on the day of my date. I prepare underwear and clothes a few days ahead of time and change completely before going to meet my lady. A few reasons for this: a) even though you may think SO s don't notice they know exactly what underwear and clothes you are wearing that day. They are most probably the ones doing your laundry b) if you meet your lady I can guarantee you that her scent or that you just had wild sex for 2 hours smell will linger on you and your SO will notice. My SO can smell another woman's scent on me as soon as I walk in the door. It took me a while to figure why she always came and kissed on the days I was bad while other days when nothing happened she couldn't care less. Never underestimate your SO s sense of smell and intuition. c) I carry the same soap that I use at home to make sure when I shower after my session I smell the same as when I left in the morning. d)don't forget to change back into the clothes you left home with. 4)I watch what I eat especially the night before. I make sure that I'm not eating anything with heavy scents, curry, greek food or onions and certainly not a bean burrito or anything beans. I think the reasons are pretty obvious. On the morning of my meeting I make sure to a eat a good breakfast which usually includes cerals and some fruit. I'm a avid coffee drinker but I abstain on the days of my meeting and substitute with Ginseng tea. I also hydrate myself lots of water. If my meeting is later in the evening I eat very light during the day but often. Salads, light soup never anything heavy. Trust me it hinders your performance if go out eat a big mac before a love making session. 5)This is a difficult one since I finding the time or privacy is difficult but an important step in my prep. Now that I'm clean on the outside, I clean my insides and that calls for an enema. It doesn't take long but for me its an as essential and important as washing my dick. I would happy to share information on how to this properly if anyone is interested. 6)Wash my dick, then wash it again. Oh did I mention washing my dick. I carry baby wipes with to make sure that after Ive washed my disk at least 3 times, that if I have to take a leak on my way to the meeting then I am able to wash again. I'm uncut, so for me its even more important to keep my dick clean. 7)I put on underarm deodorant which I carry with me all the time and I use very light deodorant spray for that clean smell. I never use any after shave or heavy perfumes. Some ladies are really allergic. 8) Shave my face as carefully and slowly as I can. Again safety here is required, I Dont want to be nicking my face and showing up with little blobs of Kleenex stuck on my chin. Here I use a face lotion to keep my face smooth. 9) Hand cream is something I always carry in my bag and I make sure that I use it right before I ring the doorbell. I happen to work in construction so rough hands are part of my life so I do everything to keep them supple. 10) The all time most important, I never brush my teeth or floss right before a date. I always carry mouthwash for right before and after my session. I love DATY and this is all about safety for me and the ladies. Not to mention that we all are connected by sharing the same ladies as well. I want all the cerb members to know that I care about my safety, the companions safety and ultimately your safety. So please guys and girls......Be safe so we can all enjoy our hobby for a long time. The Hun

definitely not to toot my own horn but I have had 4 clients to this day tell me they have fallen in love with me the result is usually tears on both ends and an end to a client relationship. My job is to better the life of married men with their families (or non married men too)....not to become their new focus or obsession. As a teenager my father had multiple girlfriends aside from my mother and really should have hired escorts to get his release.....instead he had women he told he was "in love" with all over the world.....and who in turn fell in love with him and expected him to leave my mother etc. being on the receiving end of the pain my mother went through I will say that any man who falls in love with a worker in the business needs to respect that we are good at our jobs for many reasons, That we appreciate some clients more than others but to not get lost in the "illusion" that we are here to provide. Those of us who accelerate at our jobs deem clients as trusted friends, it is up to the hobbiest to make sure that friendship is never misinterpreted or overstepped..... a true worker who sees the friendship getting out of hand or too emotional on your part will often end the relationship altogether for both your sakes (and sometimes for your family's)....just something to think about. Its a painful and uncomfortable situation no one should have to go through. On the same note, even if someone is a single man and you have fallen, realize what you're laying on your favorite SP when you throw out the L word

This is a very special thread. To see it come up again and having read through it one more time brought back many memories and very strong emotions. So strong that I am trying to re-compose myself so that I can get back to work and function to some acceptable level. In reading some of the posts there was one that said why post your feelings here, why not tell her how you feel. Well, in some ways, in some small ways, on a few occassions I did. Maybe not so directly in words but in some kind of words and in many actions. I actually think and believe that it is a difficult subject to talk about openly given the lives and situation of both parties. After knowing each other for so long I now think we both know the feelings between us but we both are very careful about plunging to deep onto this subject because of its implications on both our emotions and lives. We do test the waters, we dabble in it, we laugh and enjoy it, and I know there are very brief moments when we are together and talking or singing or just briefly looking at each other that we both know there is something very unique and special here that continues to evolve and will continue to do so somehow. It takes 2 very strong minded people to walk that fine line for so long knowing they can cross it briefly for that sense of emotional happiness, security and even sadness but also know that they can really never ever ever saty on the other side for very long - that would change everything - everything that makes this special, unique and irreplaceable. In this crazy world we live in, it is rather rare but when it happens special and unique to feel your emotions and soul awakend in which mine were and still are - The only saving grace is the head on my shoulder to help me deal with this situation now and forever as best as I can.

I was greeted earlier this week at a South end motel by another terrific find for Ottawa. Brooke is a friend of Amy and everybit as friendly, sweet, playful and easy to chat with. She provides a true GFE experience with everything you would expect - great kisser and very passionate. Her pics are accurate as she is young, tanned, in shape and comes with a very large well defined package up top. I wouldn't describe her as a spinner but she is tiny with curves in all the right places. She is new to the whole scene but proved to be a quick learner. Overall a great session and a definite repeat. I think an even better choice would be for a duo with Amy as I believe they are really good friends (going to Cuba together).

There are some "clients" who prey on new SPs and take advantage of their "niceness" in wanting to attract new clients. New SPs are generally more willing to be kind and polite when gentlemen prey on them for discounts and try to negotiate. For all new SPs, please realize that certain "clients" make a career out of whining about their "financial woes" to see how much money they can get away with not paying. There are SPs who charge all different fee rates and don't think for a second these "whiners" aren't aware of what the fees are. If a gentleman can't afford it, don't call an SP. It's as simple as that.

I love this thread! Personally, I rarely have feelings of "love" for any SP. Deep affection, yes but not love. For me this is simply a hobby that I turn to when I am single and not looking for a relationship. I believe it is def possible to fall for your SP and know it must be a hard situation to be in. Even quite recently, I encountered an SP who had we met under different circumstances would probably be very interested in dating one another. That, however, is one thing I would not want to be involved in to be honest. Turning a client/SP relationship into a dating one just doesn't seem possible to me. It actually makes me have a lot of compassion for all of the wonderful SP's I meet as it I realize it must be terribly hard to work in the profession and have a partner who is ok and supportive of it.

I have to agree with you Inaluki. I must be missing the point here in this thread and some of the comments, because when i see an courtesan/SP/EP, I don't see her for the sole reason of seeing how many times I can make her orgasm or for that matter how many times I cum. I see them because I enjoy their company and I enjoy making love to a woman. If it happens that we are both turned on by each other, then orgasms will happen naturally. Some meetings are really hot and well you experience many more orgasms, but it's never my main focus. In fact I think it's even hotter just teasing her for a while and not let her come right away, then to go for a record but that's only my opinion. The Hun