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  1. Posted

    One is a private club that is relatively hidden from public view and the other has signs that point out what the business is. How discreet are you? Do you care if someone might see you enter a certain place?

     

    U should read websites before posting. Ur info is inacurate as both actually have private location. Just that one of them offers different choices as the other decided to favour one approach.

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    I saw Jordan at Bliss Sunday afternoon and had a wonderful experience. She is a tall, fit and athletic Brunette with hazel eyes. She was very nice to talk to and made me feel at ease.

     

    The place was very clean overall. There was a shower in the massage room she took me in and she had kept the room nice and tidy. Location was easy to find, discreet and plenty of parking available.

     

    I will keep session details private except to say that her massage skills were excellent!

     

    Definitively worth repeating!

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    You can't see any pictures without having to log on and create an "account". I tried to create an account a long time ago and it's still pending. So now you want my real name and my email address? Yeah I'll get right on that. The other MP's in town have no issues posting pix of their attendants on their web sites, don't understand ALO's reluctance to do so.

     

    Funny cause I just took a peak at their new website at the link they provided and then press the menu button, selected Gallery and photos appeared of different ladies. I am not a member of their website nor did it ask me to provide my real name to see the pics that were there.

     

    Maybe ur talking about the old website and if so u shoukd read the posts on this thread before posting information that is no longer true and misleading the board members.

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    Working on last minute details to get everything ready for an enjoyable evening. Will be great to see some familiar faces and looking forward to meeting the ladies who will be attending their first social.

     

    Thank you all!!!

     

    Lets all enjoy a fun evening while keeping discretion in mind and showing the utmost respect for each other!!!

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  18. Posted

    Good morning; Ticket sales have been slow compare to other years, however we have enough ticket sold to have a social. So yes the XMAS SOCIAL IS ON.

     

    Note that to date we have not enough interest in VIP tickets to book a 24 pax limo. More to follow for transportation later next week.

     

    I would like to remind the ladies, that socials are opened to every one, meaning companions, MAs, dancers, whether you are Indy or work for an Agency/Spa

     

    We are extending ticket sales till Sunday Dec 6th. So get your tickets and enjoy a nice evening meeting other Board members.

     

    Thinking ahead, we are considering for spring social to have a "by invitation only" event with a very limited number of tickets available. Priority would be given to social regulars, especially those attending the xmas one.

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  21. Posted

    Good morning ladies and gents; As the title suggest I will be posting something for an OT xmas social on Thursday December 10th. However before I do that I mentioned after cancelling the fall social, I would let everyone know why we cancelled it. I am really sorry for such a long delay, I have been very busy and sometimes its good to take a step back and read other member's comments.

     

    That being said, keep in mind that I am not pointing fingers at anyone in particular as it has been a combination of issues that has lead to cancelling the last 2 events.

     

    First summer social: it was cancelled to to very few gents attending. Mistert and I had tried to get a summer social going a few years ago and same thing happened then. It would be great to have a summer BBQ, however I Think with kids out of school and family vacations its hard for gents to get away at that time of the year.

     

    Fall social: Cancelled cause there were only 5 ladies attending, including my co-organizer (3 MA's, 1 Out of town SP and 1 local SP) As I mentioned in a previous post, its obvious looking at the advertising section that ladies membership in OT has come down over the past year. Also I already mentionded that since spring social 2 yrs ago we had to book double the number of ladie's tickets to have between 20 and 30 ladies attending. Why? Even though we started a cover charge for ladies, as suggested on a separate thread, we have had up to 50% of the SPs being no show. Therefore we compensated by having more MA's attend as we don't think gents want to attend a sausage fest. Seems that is causing a problem for some. First one spa told their ladies not to attend the social even though 4 of them had reserved tickets. In addition some comments I received were: "too many young girls attending"or " too many MA's attending. My answer to that is that social is for all ladies in the community and as long as they behave, even dancers are welcome to attend. Also we got blamed for 2 ladies not behaving at the last social. We, as organizers can not answer to everyone's behavior. However we can do like it has been done since the first social I attended, that is suspend members who's behavior has been inappropriate provided it is reported to us. In the case of 2 ladies and one gent from last party. who's behavior was not acceptable, they did get banned from the fall social. We are doing our job!!!

     

    Other feedback I have received, is that some ladies, who were regular social attendees have stopped coming to socials because of friction with other ladies that have happened in the exclusive Board area. Other feedback is that there are many new ladies attending. Well what can we do, its a fast evolving business and members change. Another comment that was actually posted on the board, is the visiting ladies that attend the social take business away from locals.

     

    So , its many little event's which I would call political that jeopardizes the OT social. Keep in mind that very few ladies not active on this board, who advertises elsewhere, attend the social. There are ladies who never did and never will for personal reasons and we have to respect that. Therefore, given are small ladies active membership, we can't afford not to open our doors to the out of town ladies and everyone else in the industry no matter what part of it they are involved. We need everyone to put the interest of the community ahead of personal bickering. I still believe socials are an awesome event and one of the best think to bring our community together. But it's not just an organizer's event, its everyone'as event.

     

    Lastly what would help is for anyone active on the board, when you log in, take a few seconds to post the link to the xmas social in the shout box. Not everyone has time to go through the general discussion area and we had many ppl find out about socials at the very last minute. I used to put shouts multiple times a day, however I don't have the free time I used to. So some help in advertising the event would be greatly appreciated.

     

    Thank you all for your support and mark December 10th on your calendars. I will post prices soon on a separate thread. They should be same as was posted for Fall social!

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  22. Posted

    As per my title, the OT fall social is cancelled. Therefore for those who sent me e-transfers that I have not cashed out, you can cancel your e-transfer and have your money back. For those who either paid cash at an ALO location or that I cashed their e-transfer, send me a PM to let me know what you want me to do. In some instances members have asked that we keep many for the next social, others may want their money returned, in which case please provide me with an e-mail that you would like the transfer sent to.

     

    Now I would like to tell you all that it is not with joy that we are cancelling this social, and when I have more free time I will post details as to why we had to cancel. However at this time I would like to comment on some of the things I have read on some earlier post within this thread. Seems some ppl are being very selfish in their comments and very inconsiderate to the efforts put on by the organizers of these socials, past and present.

     

    First I did explain why we moved out of dtown. Many members would not attend social for lack of privacy, being afraid of being seen at a party dtown and intrusion we had on most events and locations. Mistert and I were asked by many at the time to look for a completely private location. We could not find any dtown but we did find the present location which we knew could pose a transportation issue. We mitigated that by arranging for a limo and except for a one time glitch with the driver, feedback we received from many was that they enjoyed the limo ride. In addition I must say that for all social held here in the West, some members posted that they could provide transportation to this location.

     

    Now for everyone's knowledge, I will say that twice I did a return trip 30 to 40 kms out of my way to go collect the ticket money from one member who posted here. I drive a Pick up truck so you can all imagine that the cost of gas for those 2 trips was not cheap. Did I ask this person to pay for my gas or did I take money from the social fund??? NO!!! I figured it was my own contribution to the social. And now to read that someone won't come and blames it on transportation cost, and at the same time suggesting its the organizers fault for not having the event dtown??? Well I am sure you can all imagine I am very pissed off right now. This is obviously putting oneself ahead of what is in the best interest of the community.

     

    While I am at this, I would like to point out that coming to this location was not an easy task. The place had been closed for a long time therefore required major cleaning. The owner and I spent one full week cleaning this place. To me it was a daily 120 KM return trip so you can all imagine how much money I spent in gas. As for the owner, for those who know Ontario liquor rules, since the place had to operate on a temporary liquor licence, all the liquor for the event had to be bought at LCBO and could not be sold at any other event. In other words the owner got stuck with whatever was left in the bottles. Again I am sure you can all imagine profit from that evening wasn't much. It didn't even fully compensate for location and bartender expenses. But hey again it was contribution to the event and putting that community first. May I also add that we are not the first to give of our own money and effort to organize a social. The reason we are not accepting payment at the door is that in the past an organizer had to pay out of his pocket because some ppl that said they would pay at the door didn't show up.

     

    Maybe next time, before posting comments, you should ask yourself: Am I being selfish here or am I making a comment that is in the best interest of the overall community. And certainly just don't say stuff just to justify the fact you don't want to attend.

     

    I certainly would like to take this opportunity to Thank again all those who have supported us and those who, at every social, took a few minutes to personally say nice words and show their appreciation for our efforts. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH.

     

    As Mentioned at the beginning of this post, I will take time soon to provide feedback on this cancellation and give some insight to everyone. I Think its better than having assumptions posted.

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  23. Posted

    Would not serving food help with the cost of the social?

     

    We haven't had any complaints about cost except for one member mentioning he is cutting down on hobbying, not just on coming to the social. And I doubt paying 10 dollars is too much for the ladies. That 10 dollars wasn't to subsidize food. It was a suggestion from both ladies and gents to try and cut down on the number of ladies' no show.

     

    Also Ontario liquor law requires to have food available when selling liquor.

     

    Additional Comments:

    how many girls do we need? :)

     

    Minimum 15 would be nice. I doubt most gent want to attend a sausage fest!

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  24. Posted

    it's staurday I've heard nothing I hope that means we are still a go!!!! ? :)

     

    I am thinking the same thing.

     

    I wish I could say no news is good news but that is not the case. I was hoping more members would contact me over the weekend and we could make it a go. We do have enough gents, however we only have 6 ladies confirmed and only one has contacted me so far this weekend. I will wait till tomorrow night but unless more ladies can make it, we will have to cancel.

     

    Maybe it's time to think about going back to a smaller, cosier, central location.

     

    And what location would that be??? The one we were told we are no longer welcome cause some ppl were smoking special cigarettes around the staff and one lady was using special powder for her nose in the washroom!!! Don't think that doesn't happen again. I had to put the baby diaper change table, in the ladies washroom, back up after last social. I sure didn't see babies at the social so doesn't take a genius to figure out what it was used for. Only this time because of our location we were able to deal with it without being told to go somewhere else. Of course if this would not be the case we could always go to the one location where the owner's son crashed in with a friend saying something like: "this is where the whore party is"!!! Or better, lets go to the place where off duty LE officers walked through on their way to another party and started asking questions to one of our member cause he thought he recognized some lady member but wasn't sure from where!!! For those who may not know, we didn't move the socials to the present location just to be outside of dtown, we did it so we could have a private area. A place where nobody else would crash in by accident, a place where we could have privacy and discretion. I am sure after what happened with the Ashley Maddison site discretion would be most appreciated. In addition, it is very time consuming having to find a new location after one or 2 social. We can never stay at the same spot for long dtown without ppl finding out what we are about.

     

    No need to cater or buy a lot of gifts, my recollection at one time the gents would donate some gifts.

     

    They still do bring gifts and some give extra money to buy gifts. That is one reason we have so many gifts. Also when Mistert decided to get involve, and we still do, we decided that 100% of the money collected would be somehow return to the members at the party even though some have suggested we pay ourselves a salary for organizing the social like it has been done in the past. If ppl look at the thread from the first social I helped mistert, u will see a detail post on where the money was spent. Another sign of this commitment is that we were doing this social at only 35 dollars for gents. The ladies pay 10 but that covers their food. For those who have been around these will remember the last 2 socials before mistert took charge, gents paid 40 and 45 dollars. So what is expected here with less food and gifts? That we put the money in our wallets???

     

    Maybe use this location for a special event like an annual Xmas party.

     

    Truth of the matter is that the local SP community on this board has diminished considerably last 2 years. All one has to do is to look at the number who post ads to see that. Last 2 socials we had 50% "no show" on the ladies side. Yes no show not cancellation. We compensated by overbooking considerably the number of ladies by allowing ,many out of town ladies to come and Both ALO and CMJ sent many MAs to increase attendance. If it wasn't for that, we would have been lucky to have 15 ladies at the social. Seems this time most out of town ladies can't make it and very few MAs are coming. Can't expect to have many ladies at a OT CERB social when there are maybe a dozen local SPs advertising and active on the Board.

     

    But if someone things it has all the answers to theses problems, we do not have a copyright or ownership on the social. Instead of assuming things, just step up to the plate and organize it. You will find out there is a lot to do to run a successful event and I challenge anyone that wishes to do so, to do it for free.

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  25. Posted

    Hello ladies and Gents.

     

    It seems the interest for socials is dying. To date we only have 7 ladies tickets paid for and 13 Gents tickets sold. Unless we sell more tickets by this Friday Sept 11, we will have no choice but to cancel yet another social. This will be the third time since summer we either had to postpone or cancel and we are starting to wonder if it is worth the effort to plan any in the future.

     

    In addition should we sell more tickets, unfortunately we would have to cancel the VIP option as we only sold 4 VIP tickets and we need to sell at least 20 to pay for the limo which cost 480 with driver tip. Therefore for those who bought VIP tickets please send me a PM if you need to cancel due to lack of transportation.

     

    We certainly would like to thank those who purchased their tickets in advance. I was away last week with very little access to internet, so I could not cash in the e-transfer. I will wait on that. If we need to cancel it will be easier for those concerned to simply cancel the e-transfer and get their money back.

     

    A Final decision will be made Friday.

     

    Alexxandria and loneskater

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