Maverick

Definitely a grower here. Very tiny adorable penis when limp but ladies never get to see that I get aroused and grow to normal size before my zipper is undone :P

you would see someone who calls you 'hunnie"? or shortcuts 'you'?

 

I would say j/k, but i'm seriously not just kidding. imo, an sp should take as much time and care and attention with her replies as you are doing for her. it shows a level of professionalism and awareness of how she is presenting herself to someone who is contacting her for the very first time.

 

Which means if the reply is only going to be 3 or 4 words, she can certainly take the time to spell out 'you' and 'see'.

 

 

 

I totally agree that your texts should be detailed, and that you need to say hi, and not do a bunch of serial texting. Put the info you want her to know in the first text.

 

And it should go without saying don't send a text if her ad says 'no texts'. :)

The language used by the provider can be part of the experience. I find it also tends to be an age thing (younger people being more comfortable with the abbreviated style of texting). Sometimes it's not about seeing a classy elegant lady, it's about seeing a young bubbly ball of passion & energy. Or if it's a GFE-style encounter I know a lot of people text like this with their significant others (hunnie, babe, sweetie).

The first thing I do is look at photos because I need the physical attraction to be there otherwise I can't enjoy myself. Then I evaluate rates (if they're fair relative to local rates/services rendered), location (i don't drive so public transit accessibility is a must), profile presence (all but one of the providers i've seen have been active cerb posters/advertisers), and reviews (i look at cerb and other sites for a full picture; im not in a position financially to take risks so i do a lot of research). If everything is satisfactory I will try to book an appointment. I don't do this often so I set high standards and most of the time it works out.

I had the pleasure of meeting Jenna for the first time this past week at the conveniently (for me) located Vibe Urban Spa (just by the montreal road/queensway exit intersection). It's a nice discreet location away from the public eye if you're concerned about that sort of thing.

I had booked quickly and easily by phone an hour earlier and was shown into my room and told Jenna would be with me shortly. I took my coat off and paced nervously for a minute until Jenna arrived. She walked in and I got even more nervous because she was so pretty (photos are accurate, very cute face, and silky smooth skin). She could tell I was shy and nervous but her kind and welcoming nature got me a little more relaxed. We got the donation out of the way at the beginning then undressed and hopped in the shower together.

I don't feel comfortable going into details, but I had a lot of fun with Jenna in the shower, and then on the massage table, and in the shower again afterwards. She gave me a nice massage that helped with my sore back from work, the conversation was fun and flirty, not unlike a good first date, and the ending to the massage was mindblowing and Jenna made sure to give me some great views during the process.

So, if you were on the fence about Jenna or Vibe get off the fence and go visit!

I get nervous just talking to the cashier at the grocery store so you can imagine how I feel going into a session haha. From my experiences though the ladies I've met were all very friendly and welcoming and knew how to ease me into the encounter so I'm thankful for that.

I've (very) recently seen an SP website say she would show a test result upon request so I don't think this question is as inappropriate as you guys are all saying.

For the young hobbyist here, say under 25....

have you ever been carded by a SP/MA ?

I've seen a handful of MAs the past few years when I was 19-21 and didn't get carded, but I did make sure to bring an ID just in case. I wouldn't mind showing ID because I understand the reasoning and would hope for cooperation if I ever felt I had to ask for hers.

I don't really like scary movies very much but I do like going to see one on a date with a girl that gets scared so she can squeeze my hand when she's frightened and cuddle up to me :P

I do like funny scary/slasher movies though, like Cabin in the Woods or Tucker & Dale Vs. Evil.

I got my first phone six years ago which was just a flip phone, and I upgraded to a Samsung Galaxy S3 just over a year ago. I love the change. I spend a lot of time on my phone, even when I'm at home. I can use twitter, browse the internet, watch Netflix/youtube, use snapchat, etc. I can even use my phone as a remote control for the youtube app on my ps3, how cool is that! The camera on it is really bad though, so that's something I'll consider in a few years when I upgrade phones again; it would be nice to be able to take nicer pictures (specifically in low light).

To me the red poppy symbolizes remembrance of men and women who fought in search of peace or because they had no choice. I've always supported the idea of prevention over the idea of treatment so I like the idea of emphasizing peace, looking forward, and trying to avoid having to remember any new people.

This is a very good question. Honestly I think I'm so nervous my brain is just a total mess. The only thing I can think of is "here we go." I do enough research before setting up an appointment that I'm quite confident I'm going to have a good time and have a good sense of what to expect visually. I think the more tantalizing question is what are your thoughts as soon as you get inside.

As a very young guy, 22, I am okay with the idea of seeing a young service provider but I can understand that it might be a tricky issue for older hobbyists, especially ones with younger sisters, nieces, or children.

I recently re-watched Hot Fuzz and it's still one of my favorite movies of all time. It simultaneously spoofs the action movies I grew up loving while also having fun action scenes of its own and an unparalleled wit. It's on Netflix too so you have no excuse if you haven't seen it yet!

I really like the idea of having sex with another couple/couples present, but I don't think I'd be into watching porn at the same time because I think it would try to draw some of my attention away. When the other people are in the same room the attention would be drawn away but it goes both-way, so everyone would be enjoying their partners as well as everyone else in the room and that would be super hot.

As for mirrors I'm not a huge fan because I'm pretty insecure about myself, but I do enjoy them at a massage because otherwise its impossible to get a nice view lying face down ;)

If I can see what's going on (e.g. I don't have my head in one of those massage table head rest things looking right at the floor) then I have my eyes open because I'm a visual person and want to enjoy the show (mirror on wall comes in handy for this). That said, sometimes when it's incredibly relaxing I can't help but close my eyes.

That was incredibly offensive and frustrated me so much I couldn't even finish reading it. The ignorance and naivety of so many people never ceases to amaze me.

She just has some ridiculous out-dated fantastical concept of 'sex' when really she's arguing that you shouldn't pay for a therapeutic massage either because physical enjoyment requires a subtext of a legitimate human connection.

To me I have to be interested in a woman visually to want to be intimate with her but if it turns out that we aren't good together intimately or she has a personality that turns me off then I don't want to spend more time with her. So the visual aspect is the first layer of "screening" and then the actual experience becomes more important. I have seen five or six different women for massages so far, all of whom I felt were attractive, but I don't desire to repeat with all of them for certain reasons.

When I'm close to finishing I say "almost there" or "almost done" and let the lady decide how to react to that. Generally in my experiences so far they slow down/back off for a while and then start the build-up again and it feels amazing.

Generally speaking for handjobs I like a lighter touch because I'm very sensitive, and I love when ladies use their breasts, even if its just rubbing my cock on them and not going full-on with a titfuck (not always practical/possible). I also think it's amazingly hot and intimate getting to kiss while she's still holding me in her hand.

I only had 1GB usb stick so I went out and bought a 16GB one so I didn't have to make countless trips back and forth between my two computers.

I used to watch Gossip Girl but I thought it went off the rails too much in more recent seasons. I still enjoy girly drinks though, like cocktails and stuff, and I do yoga.

Groceries. Hot sauce, onion, pepper, bananas, lettuce, sliced chicken, some low fat salad dressing, and garbage bags.

That sounds fantastic!

Pretty much everyone but I'm not where I need to be financially to see any of them so if I manage to see anyone I'll be super happy about that.