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By being here or writing reviews after the Nordic model comes to pass

The common point that people make is that sp's are more informed and vigilant - some are and some are not

It's often compared against picking up women in clubs who are less informed.

Anyone giving bbbjs is in contact with potentially infected tissue

More often than can reasonably be assumed when u r meeting some one in a bar

I also don't thjnk that wanting information is ever really an issue wanting to be informed is the best way to protect every body's health.

Does she still work here ?

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This is riskier stuff. And so these concerns are valid on all sides. And it's not insulting to ask or there is no intent to insult. Just like there is none if an sp does a visual inspection before a bbbj. I don't see why regar tests couldn't be posted online or elsewhere . I have been

Shown results before- without asking. Ideally hobbyists would have them too. I've been to parts of Theworld where the hobby is legalized and upper scale sps have them there for reference

This is a business and posting results would probably improve someone's brand and maybe marketability. Also people would be more secure knowing an sp is getting themsves tested.

I know the response is the hobbyists Need it to test ad well and they are right but it's a numbers game. On average sps see many more people a week.

Absolutely everyone needs to protect themselves to their comfort and risk levels. And there are limitations to their usefulness as mentioned above but to argue that they are of no point and people would not be secure knowing flies in the face of current scientific thought.

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Listen. Everyone knows that there are women at risk here. More of them than are realized. And the cops have no idea what they are walking into. There could be a pimp in there. An angry violent one even. And if an sp is being there against her will she is not just going to say it. They need to make their presence known and ask challenging questions.

Finally this trade skirts ever developing laws at best and so it should come as no surprise to anyone that it attracts le. And I'd rather know they are around because they can make it safer.

Went to an sp. well reviewed here but mixed elsewhere. Seemed thoughtful person and cute so went by. We sat , said hi, she started talking and every story was sadder than the rest. I listened feeling helpless and paid her for our time. When I said I wouldn't do anything she seemed a bit relieved and never tried to suggest that we engage in any thing which led me to wonder if the story wasn't told in part to put me off the session. After hearing her story I could only feel that any thing I did would be taking advantage as she is not choosing this difficult vocation from a position of stability. I think that's out there more than we care to admit. I don't know if there are ways through here that the sps support each other but I hope there are and I hope people use it.

This is a great place to find a nice girl to help you with your loneliness

Usually it's about 200-250 per hour. So you have to decide in advance how long you plan on being lonely for.

Feel for u. Time makes it better (and 250$ doesn't hurt either)

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This is a great place to find a nice girl to help you with your loneliness

Usually it's about 200-250 per hour. So you have to decide in advance how long you plan on being lonely for.

Feel for u. Time makes it better (and 250$ doesn't hurt either)

I'm curious. Thanks

Starting to think about trying to make this work

I know the girl - need another guy

Scheduling is never easy so patience a must

As long as you are with an escort who is making an educated calculation to do this

Is not under pressure from a pimp or drugs

And is willingly ( maybe even happily) compliant

You make sure your actions are within the desires of the escort

Your pbbly ok ( though it depends on what you are guilty about )

Would like to try an mmf (no mm contact). There is an sp on bp who offers. Any other Guys interested in trying this ?

She is beautiful

She made me feel very comfortable and I am tense about the whole thing

She has amazing skills and she offers great services. She is just incredibly pleasant and sexy and talented. I had the true definition of a pse with her. I want more !!! She is a spinner who had me spinning. I don't do this often and I am awkward and uncomfortable. She completely put me at ease

A web site would help too

1. It eventually becomes awkward when one person wants more than the other

2. How much do you like him as a friend ? Is he a BFF or just a good guy

3 remaining friends while he wants more And you don't can be construed as leading him on

4 the friend ship is going to end eventually regardless of what you do

5 try it and see how it feels for both of you. If the friendship ends - no biggie - it was gojng to anyways

6 my thumbs are too big. Is turn into js when I type

7 this might be a good compromise for him

8 tell him the business relationship will end if it gets awkward

9 if it were any other business (ie car mechanic). You would still want to do the business. This is his risk let him take it as log as Youcan terminate.

is it worth the risk of losing him as a client (how much does he bring in) and are you willing to let that go if you tell him and he gets awkward and doesnt come back anymore

romantic situation that unfortunately translates into a business decision

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and you know all your clients are now wondering if its them..... he might present himself to you now if he reads this.

1. for people leading a lifestyle that is slightly alternative to convention I am surprised at the judgement:)

2. there is risk, it is potentially an ilegal situation (and even if it isnt - the hassle of proving it could be cumbersome) and the hard part could be terminating the relationship; if she decides not to hold up her end of the agreement - it might be hard to get her to leave.

3. that being said, if it is with someone you have met with and appropriately vetted and with whom you have a great relationship, and have a very clear contract, It could be beneficial to both sides.

I think you should have sex with the sister in law.

I think you should warn this guy that his sister on law is looking in on him

I think that you should tell the sister in law that you found out that her sister was the one having an affair

I think you should not necessarily admit publicly that you can and do hack into people 's accounts.

I imagine your type of "detective work" does not require you to take an oath to maintain your professional standing. And so do what feels right. Although it seems a little funny. That you were ok to track the guy to see if he was having an affair but are balking on disclosure because of who he is having it with ?

im not so sure i think that this ja not always happy choice for the sp. I just had an email exchange with a well reviewed so. Complicated story but through the course of the emails came out concepts of stress and suicidality. She said " she would rather e playing with we sibs than synonym some married guy off ).

I don't do this often. Refrain from younger sps to decrease the chances of this. I think some make an educated lifestyle choice but some sps do this more because they have to and not really because its their first career choice

Might be unpopular to post this here

But maybe a little potential guilt is in order

An sp who sees multiple partners a day , give cursory if any examination to genitalia and perform bbbjs and receive is a riskier person to see . Regardless of stereotyping or preconception and with full due respect to everybody in this community, it would be facile to assume the risk of an std is not greater than the dating married world unless they are doing the same.

It's a numbers game and risk is risk.

Covered bjs probably put you at less risk than a pof date

And no doubt many practitioners here have a much better sense of disease transmission than most regular daters

But bbbjs are definitely riskier the more partners seen. I for one believe that this is a perfectly valid and necessary question to ask. And r should be answered with respect and accuracy rather than in an emotionally defensive and possibly naive fashion.

I am as hesitant as I am paranoid and trips to sps are rare and fraught with anxiety. Moreover I have never gone to an mp because I figure if I am going to go I might as well maximize the sexperience. And yet Claire's pictures and recos beckoned. And so I called her and she completely put me at ease. I feel very awkward writing this as I feel i am recommending that all you shmucks go see a woman who I hope will some day be my wife. Claire is as charming as she is beautiful and has the ability to make you feel much more special than you might actually be. The experience transcends the physical release you might get. I have hard evidence (pardon the pun) that she is a good kind honest soul and yet has a bod and spirit to knock your socks off. What more do you need? what more is there ?

Looks beautiful. Has anyone had the chance to see her. You can pm me if you are more comfortable

I know it's not in the spirit of this place but negative reviews could help ALOT. Without them the concept of toftt the team is obviated (what do you do with a bad experience if you can't tell the team)

Just saying.

Any one see her ? Any info ? Thanks

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Truthfully I dont mind the cancellation at all. Never did. I agree shit happens and it is at least honest. I wouldnt want her there if she really didnt want to be there and so I harbor no resentment whatsoever. I have had to cancel people or be late. It would be bad karma to be upset with it happening once. Moreover, in all likelihood the fact that i was raring to go compromised my judgment and had me with a hair trigger to pull.

The sp I saw however just wasnt all that into it. At all.

The advantage to CERB is that you can read the posts and get a sense of the sps. I am a reluctant hobbyist for a few reasons. One of them is that there is always the nagging fear echoing the standard complaints that sps are doing it for reasons other than a clear headed decision (History, circumstance, etc.). Reading sp comments on CERB you see the obvious intelligence and purpose and it makes you feel more secure and alright in a decision to see someone.

The unrated agency sp does not offer that advantage.

Not getting a sense of person before hand also makes it harder

Having an experience where the person is going through the moves monotonously brings a harsher reality home.

Id be happy to toftt and write a negative one

but cant