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    I would certainly not be offended by it and I always want my gentleman to do what makes him comfortable and not have to worry about anything during our time together. If that means taking his wallet to the bathroom with him or leaving it in the car, so be it ;)

     

    On the other hand, before trust is present, and to protect myself, I would rather my guest takes his wallet to the bathroom with him (or not bring it) just in case he thinks something has gone missing... This way, there is no possibility it went missing when he was with me.

    Exactly! I have asked numerous new clients to please take their belongings with them into the bathroom. It is a good practice for all gentlemen, all it takes is one dishonest SP to put all of us under suspicion.

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    The new captain jumped from the deck, fully dressed, and sprinted through the water. A former lifeguard, he kept his eyes on his victim as he headed straight for the couple swimming between their anchored sportfisher and the beach. â??I think he thinks youâ??re drowning,â? the husband said to his wife. They had been splashing each other and she had screamed but now they were just standing, neck-deep on the sand bar. â??Weâ??re fine; what is he doing?â? she asked, a little annoyed. â??Weâ??re fine!â? the husband yelled, waving him off, but his captain kept swimming hard. â?Move!â? he barked as he sprinted between the stunned owners. Directly behind them, not 10 feet away, their 9-year-old daughter was drowning. Safely above the surface in the arms of the captain, she burst into tears, â??Daddy!â?
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    How did this captain knowâ??from 50 feet awayâ??what the father couldnâ??t recognize from just 10? Drowning is not the violent, splashing call for help that most people expect. The captain was trained to recognize drowning by experts and years of experience. The father, on the other hand, had learned what drowning looks like by watching television. If you spend time on or near the water (hint: thatâ??s all of us) then you should make sure that you and your crew know what to look for whenever people enter the water. Until she cried a tearful, â??Daddy,â? she hadnâ??t made a sound. As a former Coast Guard rescue swimmer, I wasnâ??t surprised at all by this story. Drowning is almost always a deceptively quiet event. The waving, splashing, and yelling that dramatic conditioning (television) prepares us to look for is rarely seen in real life.
    The Instinctive Drowning Responseâ??so named by Francesco A. Pia, Ph.D., is what people do to avoid actual or perceived suffocation in the water. And it does not look like most people expect. There is very little splashing, no waving, and no yelling or calls for help of any kind. To get an idea of just how quiet and undramatic from the surface drowning can be, consider this: It is the No. 2 cause of accidental death in children, ages 15 and under (just behind vehicle accidents)â??of the approximately 750 children who will drown next year, about 375 of them will do so within 25 yards of a parent or other adult. According to the CDC, in 10 percent of those drownings, the adult will actually watch the child do it, having no idea it is happening. Drowning does not look like drowningâ??Dr. Pia, in an article in the Coast Guardâ??s On Scene magazine, described the Instinctive Drowning Response like this:
    â??Except in rare circumstances, drowning people are physiologically unable to call out for help. The respiratory system was designed for breathing. Speech is the secondary or overlaid function. Breathing must be fulfilled before speech occurs.
    Drowning peopleâ??s mouths alternately sink below and reappear above the surface of the water. The mouths of drowning people are not above the surface of the water long enough for them to exhale, inhale, and call out for help. When the drowning peopleâ??s mouths are above the surface, they exhale and inhale quickly as their mouths start to sink below the surface of the water.
    Drowning people cannot wave for help. Nature instinctively forces them to extend their arms laterally and press down on the waterâ??s surface. Pressing down on the surface of the water permits drowning people to leverage their bodies so they can lift their mouths out of the water to breathe.
    Throughout the Instinctive Drowning Response, drowning people cannot voluntarily control their arm movements. Physiologically, drowning people who are struggling on the surface of the water cannot stop drowning and perform voluntary movements such as waving for help, moving toward a rescuer, or reaching out for a piece of rescue equipment.
    From beginning to end of the Instinctive Drowning Response peopleâ??s bodies remain upright in the water, with no evidence of a supporting kick. Unless rescued by a trained lifeguard, these drowning people can only struggle on the surface of the water from 20 to 60 seconds before submersion occurs.â?
    This doesnâ??t mean that a person that is yelling for help and thrashing isnâ??t in real troubleâ??they are experiencing aquatic distress. Not always present before the Instinctive Drowning Response, aquatic distress doesnâ??t last longâ??but unlike true drowning, these victims can still assist in their own rescue. They can grab lifelines, throw rings, etc.
    Look for these other signs of drowning when persons are in the water:
    Head low in the water, mouth at water level
    Head tilted back with mouth open
    Eyes glassy and empty, unable to focus
    Eyes closed
    Hair over forehead or eyes
    Not using legsâ??vertical
    Hyperventilating or gasping
    Trying to swim in a particular direction but not making headway
    Trying to roll over on the back
    Appear to be climbing an invisible ladder
    So if a crew member falls overboard and everything looks OKâ??donâ??t be too sure. Sometimes the most common indication that someone is drowning is that they donâ??t look like theyâ??re drowning. They may just look like they are treading water and looking up at the deck. One way to be sure? Ask them, â??Are you all right?â? If they can answer at allâ??they probably are. If they return a blank stare, you may have less than 30 seconds to get to them. And parentsâ??children playing in the water make noise. When they get quiet, you get to them and find out why.
    (See a video of the Instinctive Drowning Response.)
    This article is reprinted from Mario Vittoneâ??s blog. Join him on Facebook.
    Correction, June 4, 2013: The subhead for this piece originally misstated that in 10 percent of drownings, adults are nearby. In 50 percent of child drownings, adults are nearby; in 10 percent of those, adults are watching but do not know the victim is drowning.

  5. Posted

    In my personal life I am jealous, unless I am part of the experience.

    As a Professional I am quite the opposite, I have often recommended other Ladies that I feel would give my client a great experience as well as offering duos. As it turns out 'my' clients will visit other Ladies but always come back to me telling me what a great time they had. I don't feel that I compare to anyone else to be honest. I am unique, I am not for some but there are others that do prefer me or my type. What makes us all unique is personality and the quality of service we give. As long as we all give the very best we can each and every time the guys will find us and usually come back again and again. :)

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  6. Posted

    My personal experience has been that men who have Dominant positions at work typically want to set that responsibility aside and let the Provider take the lead. They have so many responsibilities at work and at home that they need to put down the reigns and just enjoy. I can almost hear the sigh of relief as my guys lay back and let me take charge lol. And yes, showing him that he is desireable and sexy and worthy of pampering is the ultimate result. Watching a man walk out with his chin up, his shoulders back and that 'smile' on his face is one of the best parts of my job. :)

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  7. Posted

    Excellent question. I occasionally get calls asking if they can come 'now' because they are just around the corner....I don't mind the call but more often than not I am just not prepared to see someone 'now'. I personally prefer a few hours notice, it gives me time to prepare, but I certainly do not object to a gentleman calling to ask if I would be able to see him in an hour. I will certainly do my best to see him. I do ask for a confirmation call half an hour before the appointment. Emails are fine if pre booking but for same day appointments using the phone is a much better idea.

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    Bravely bold Sir Robin rode forth from Camelot. He was not afraid to die, oh brave Sir Robin. He was not at all afraid to be killed in nasty ways, brave, brave, brave, brave Sir Robin. He was not in the least bit scared to be mashed into a pulp, or to have his eyes gouged out, and his elbows broken. To have his kneecaps split, and his body burned away, and his limbs all hacked and mangled, brave Sir Robin. His head smashed in and heart cut out, and his liver removed, and his bowels unplugged, and his nostrils raped and his bottom burned off and his penis...

    Sir Robin: That's, uh, that's enough music for now, lads... looks like there's dirty work afoot.

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