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ClaRayDeb

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  1. It's the cost difference.

     

    I can get what I'm looking for from a stripper in 2 songs - so $40 max. Booking an SP for say 30 minutes is what, $160? Big difference.

     

    The SP and I may not have chemistry - she may not be who or offer what I'm looking for.

     

    In a SC, I have the choice of ladies. I can have a beer and a nice lunch and watch them on the floor and around the club, then make my choice. Or not, if no one appeals. And no harm done.

     

    And if a girl isn't who or what I'm looking for in the champagne room, I'm only out $20.

     

    It's about cost, choice, and convenience. The fun of easy access to many different girls for a great "introductory" price.

     

    That being said, in full disclosure, I don't make much more than a bit above minimum wage. If I made as good a living as some of you, this wouldn't be an issue.


  2. I've always wanted a middle ground between strip clubs and an escort.

     

    The cuddling, caressing you can get with a dancer is never enough. And sometimes you just don't want the whole she-bang with an escort, or can't afford it, or afford it often.

     

    I suppose massage parlors could be considered the "middle ground" between the two experiences- a naked woman to cuddle with and a release at the end. But I'm really not interested in a massage. Fumbling around in a shower doesn't appeal to me either.

     

    What I want ideally is a girl who will get naked and allow me some liberties, for a good price.

     

    It seems clubs these days are changing in that direction. There was a recent thread about how kissing in the champagne room isn't too rare anymore. And today, I had a great time with a girl who allowed my mouth on her breasts and with whom I had some serious crotch-to-crotch friction.

     

    If this trend in clubs continues, I will have found my happy middle ground.


  3. If I go for lunch, I stuff myself too much to then have a girl on my lap unfortunately. But the show is still nice - it's like dinner theatre. Hopefully the girls know not to bother if they see me my stuffing my face.

     

    Gorgeous young girl in lavender lingerie on Friday when I went, didn't get her name though.

     

    Deal was $7.50 for drink/food, so $1 more than BF. For an extra $3 you get a second plate. For $12, all you can eat.


  4. Does anyone else like to eat out from work during the lunch hour and go to a strip club for lunch, based more on the meal deal and less on the ladies?

     

    I go to BF sometimes - for $6.50 plus tip I can get a beer and a nice hot meal with a small assortment of a-y-c-e salads/sides. Not too shabby.

     

    Not to mention the nice scenery while you're eating.

     

    Have to admit I feel kind of piggish sitting down with a plate piled high.

     

    How's the food at Barb's? I feel like checking it out - haven't been there for years. Is it the same deal, beer and plate of food for the price of a drink?


  5. As the header suggests, I'm considering a massage, which I've never done before, my experiences being limited to escorts and strip clubs.

     

    Not sure of the experience or the rules - is there a page that has this info?

     

    I gather it consists of a massage, with hands, and breasts?

     

    Is a reciprocal massage (me to her) always included?

     

    Is it like an extended champagne room, where I can fondle t&a, but nothing else is really on the table?

     

    Are her boobs rubbed in my face too? If so, am I allowed to kiss them? Am I allowed to kiss any part of her body?


  6. Was in to BF for my annual birthday dance this April, and things were very different from a year ago.

     

    Once in the champagne room, the girl pulled up my shirt and stuck a hand up to find my nipple. Then there was some light brief fondling of my groin during the lap dance.

     

    Is this standard now, or did I just meet a frisky girl?


  7. I guess I'm in the minority, but I tend to prefer looks over attitude.

     

    I figure, in my dating life, I can get a woman 30+, one who's modestly attractive, and since she's actually dating me, shows enthusiasm being in my company.

     

    What I CAN'T get in my real life is a woman in her early 20s and conventionally/objectively beautiful. So that is what I'm partially paying for.

     

    In fact, the more young and beautiful she is, the less she has to do! She can just lie there like a lump for all I care.

     

    Fortunately, it seems these days we can get both beauty and good company in one encounter.


  8. One of the things I look forward to with a lady is a wonderful scent. imo it should be the makeup equivalent of men who say they prefer the "no makeup" look (though they really mean they like the "natural look" makeup).

     

    That is, a natural-seeming scent that just smells like a lady smelling fresh and clean.

     

    I prefer soapy or shampooey smells as opposed to opposed to actual perfume.


  9. It was pretty much 10 years ago that I hired my last escort, up to last weekend when I had an amazing time with PK's Lexie.

     

    Based on the client feedback here, it seems that lfk/dfk is very much on the menu with the majority of girls. 10 years ago this was unheard of! Now it's par for the course. How did this shift happen? Was it a result of needing to provide a bigger bang, so to speak, to compete for clients?


  10. After many years away from hiring escorts, I'm quite amazed to discover that there are truly "model looks" girls available for affordable ($200!) rates.

     

    I was always under the impression that the model girls classified themselves as "high end" and charged in the vicinity of $1k.

     

    If "high end" no longer means model looks, then what on earth do they offer that justifies the big cost?


  11. I concur.

     

    I met her Saturday night. I did not know an escort could be so beautiful. I could go on and on about her looks, but I guess only seeing is believing.

     

    As for the rest, she had a sweet personality and was nice to be with.

     

    She gave a great GFE.

     

    I wish her all the best!

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