cometman

Would I date a SP? Of course.....as much as I would date anyone else. However,with me, it is an all or nothing kind of thing. Sex equates to to intimacy and intimacy to exclusivity and exclusivity to monogamy. If I am in a loving relationship, I do not stray and would ask the same of the other. If she refused, I would move on graciously and would not judge. I also would not judge her by her past, but by the present and future and would ask for the same consideration. Relationships take a lot of work and trust and understanding. Controlling behavior, possessiveness, jealousy, and mistrust would indicate that it's time to move on in life. There's someone for everyone, but maybe not this one. As someone who's in an empty marriage, it has to be worth the effort for both parties or it is doomed to failure.