aubreyxxx

In the Maritimes I think if you want to start an agency there are several things you should be cautious of. Competition can be catty. With other agencies booking fake appointments and sending you on calls that aren't legit.

Also if you are going to open a new agency you will immediately be on the radar L.e.

From what I've seen they usually don't bother people involved in the. Business as long as there is no issues and business is kept generally low key

I think there are pros and cons to agency vs independent. My personal opinion is for the area that your isn indepedent is the way to go

When opening an agency your biggest cost will be advertising. Yellow pages ads, internet ads. And ibdont think you should hire someone I think you should alternate shifts between women working so that way clients can feel assured trgt their privacy and discretion is maintained

That is just my personal opinon, but whatever you may decide I wish you the best and good luck in the future

Take care and happy new year

Over the Christmas holidays I had a request from a client who is not from my province. He had requested a duo which I had arranged. He than cancelled due to funds unavailable and than rescheduled and than calncelled. Than wanted an appointment with just me to which he cancelled again

Because of the constant planning and cancelling I asked him to pay 150.00 cancellation fee and he seemed quite agreeable to this idea

I received a message from him this morning with accusations that he has text messages on his cell phone saying that he better pay up or else and do right by her or else. I never gave his cell phone number out at all and I feel like he is just saying these so that he has a reason to not pay the cancellation fee, which I find extremely pathetic. He is saying that the text messages came from an unavailable number that he can not propvide - but not once have i ever received a text from a number that did not show up, as far as I knew this was not possible. A number is always available when a text message is sent

It is one thing to not want to pay it - no big deal if he doesnt, but to insult my reputation because he doesnt want to pay is another.

I am not even worried about the money anymore, but his accusations are unfair?

How should I handle this - just ignore the message and forward the members name to the SP only area? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

First time posting is no excuse for ignorance. What you are requesting is something that puts us ALL at jeopardy and at risk for disease. It is obvious it is a real question but it is a completely careless question. There is no way to prove to an SP or a Client that you are completely clean unless you went and got tested together and remained side by side until the results were returned.

Seriously think your question through a few more times... I dont think Ill be the only one disgusted with this.

Luckily for me we 'click' lol

I offered to host one previously, and I am not quite sure the men of PEI are able to handle it :P

 

 

 

The first time for instance someone accidentally tries to slip it in the backway.. I make a joke.. (it's normally an accident) but if it happens again.. I will not think it's a joke and be direct and firm... make eye contact (or suggest we switch positions so it's not really an option) and confirm that that particular act is never on the menu for me :)

That's exactly what I was saying, in case it wasn't meant for intentional ignorance I was kindly trying to salvage a situation that could've moved forward from the awkward moment, but obviously if it happens again his intentions were just as the original situation.

Slap in the face is a definite NO NO - ESPECIALLY if not agreed about previously

Some people go into split personality mode during sex and change dramatically..

Is there a location where we are able to see the amount of points that we give to someone when we do give them rep points?

Same here. This is an ongoing issue that you need to be able to roll with the punches so to speak. No amount of reminding, scolding, airing dirty laundry or getting upset about these "minority few's" behaviour is not going to change the ignorant, rude and stupid. We have to know how and when to be assertive so that things to not escalate. Paying attention to the so-called red flags and following your intuition are very important right from the beginning during the screening process. Not always a guarantee, but it's usually a good indication of whether tit is something I feel comfortable seeing.

 

I am fortunate that I can count on one hand the number of so-called dates I have had. I thank my luck stars that my good clients make up for the odd bad one that tries to unsucessfully push my boudaries.

I completely agree but not one red flag went up beforehand. He was very kind and sweet and nothing made me uncomfortable until that moment.

You're right though, I am greatful that this is not an ongoing situation cause the awesome clients definitely outweigh the disrespectful ones

Also to add further to my post. My intent here was not to air out dirty laundry. I posted it within the PEI area because it is E member from my area, but beside this incident I feel that this does need to be mentioned. And because I am unaware of who made told this new member I decided to address it to everyone since obviously I am not the only one this happens to Sometimes people don't change theirQ actins unless they see there are consequences and I dont think for a second that the member who divulged out private info about our encounterhad any knowledge that this would happen, but the reason I posted my situation was so maybe those who like to eiscuss encounters could see that although innocent intentions can have negative outcomes.

As Pete said previously some people just like to exagetate and I think thus may have been the issue here.

I see other threads meant to bring light to topics by discussing personal situations and that is all I meant by this

 

When I read your post the "first attempt you were a little cute with him"perhaps the first attempt you should of been more stern, I don't think cute gets a lady any place behind closed doors.

 

 

Now I understand what you are saying but you were not in my shoes at that moment. This is a 6 ft2 man 350 pounds at least. I am 5 ft4 .140 pounds and this is my first encounter with him. I have never met him before and I an unsure of his temperament is to rejection as I have coke to notice since my time in the industry some men change during an encounter as they feel in control and go into a fantasy type roll.

I wanted to maintain my safety and ensure that incase he did stop after I had first said no that a) my tone did not ruin the mood for an encounter that was still salvageable B) that an incident that could have been non-intentional did not make him feel absolutely horrible and that hecould still enjoy our time together.

 

Although I respect your response you were not there for how I worded it and how I said it. I don't feel like the first time a client does something that you should instantly scream no or half the men here would think a little different of me

I approach it with a kind manner but still with the point of ok serious don't so. That again.

After the first time this was not cute anymore because I was not taken seriously

I get why you say this Pete, but please put yourself in my position and think how scary this situation already is I have a man whose jot listening to me ans I'm alone with him and I am about to stop our date immediately and hes not getting his money back

This could go in so Manu negative turns thank god it did not but I don't think you should have an opinion on my choices if you yourself have never been put in that situation

Is it only me or has the "Shout Box" vanished? It no longer appears when I log in.

Hey Darlin'

I know this is an old post but I have the answer :P

I am almost sure you would have the shout box back by now, but this exact same incident had happened to me and the reason was there are rules for the shout box and one of them is that you may not post more than one visible post in the shoutbox. Such as there are usually 6 or 7 visual posts until the scroll takes over. The rule wasn't really enforced until some people were just having conversations on the shoutbox and was flooding actual intentful comments. So if you had more than one visible post they took away your shoutbox I think it was for a couple weeks or a month?

The reason I know this is because I am guilty of it as well :( lol But now I know and I have it back...Although I have seen it happen several times lately where there have been the same people posting consistantly, I guess it is only forced when someone kicks a stink up over it

Hope this helps!

Watermarks are a good deterrent, but can be removed with the right program. Just saying.

Oh I didn't know that. But I guess in saying yhat if someone i@ going to go to the extent of stealing pics and removing the watermark they will do anything to get it

I have heard some of the women use watermarks on their photos, and that it where their name is transparent across the photo kind of thing, sort of like what photographers do to their picture proofs

That was an incredible job, Christan!

I am currently arranging a trip to St Johns in the next couple weeks

Please contact me to make arrangements :) xoxoxo

I speak with her on a regular basis, and I will see where she can be contacted so you can get in touch with her

I do know that she posts on BP on a regular basis under the NB advertising section because there isn't a section for PEI

The reason is quite ridiculous as I found out recently

The public transportation within the maritimes is run by a regulatory board who made a rule that if there is going to be a bus that stop throughout the maritimes it has to stop at all cities that are on the list even if there is no schedule departures or drop offs due to the fact that they want people who are using their service as a same day freight delivery to have the same opportunity to have their parcel delivered. Because Acadien agreed to this they said they lost too much many making pointless stops where there was never people or parcles at the pickup ..Anyways just thought I'd let ya know

Oh also when acadien shut down, Trius approached the regulation board with new rules that the board pretty much has to accept or else people in the maritimes are screwed transportation wise..

Open minded varies between every service provider. My idea of open minded, is going to be different from someone else

Any time you see someone that has that posted, look at what they have listed as the services that they provide and than if after reading through what they offer you still have questions your best bet would be to kindly ask the provider in question what they mean as open-minded. Please make sure you read their full ad/website before asking questions that could already be answered.

As for GFE that varies with each provider as well, but for me personally it means I allow kissing, cuddling, a more sensual time together, and its more about the type of way the time is utilized than just the sexual experience. GFE is geared more to a companion as well as a service provider. But again every woman is different

Best of luck in your search!

AWSOME!! Glad to hear:) Hope she finds her way around this site:)

Sophia, Shayla was the lady that was suspended due to a disagreement on a thread http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=105735&page=4

Not trying to bring up old issues just showing the resource

Anyways, I have met Shayla and talk with her frequently. She is a decent girl and I am unsure with the gentlemen's issues in contacting her Ill let her know some fellas have been trying to contact her

She is real, I assure you - and pics are accurate. She is a beautiful lady :)

Welcome to CERB sfoget. This is a good community, and like Phaedrus says, we don't bite

RG

I do :) hehehe

There is no obligation at all. For myself this has become a part of my daily routine and when I do choose to write it could be on something frivolous, something serious, something possibly helpful and usually something positive and those things ultimately all help me in some way.

 

What I do miss are the posts from some people who were prolific in the past, who always wrote so positively in the public forums and who have become only occasional posters or in some cases non-posters.

 

Each member has their own reason to post or for choosing not to, and for them the reasons are 100% valid.

 

I also miss the joke section, or if its here I cannot find it!

I found it

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=73

Most of my clients come to me to AVOID the wifey experience :P

Do you have any African American in you?

Obviously, not

Well would you like some?

Made me laugh hysterically and almost took him up in the offer lol This just happened recently on my trip to Halifax

:) thanks :)