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Drove by today... still showing "opening soon".

Drove by yesterday, sign still says coming soon.

I didn't stop to peek through the window or anything mind you.

I wonder if they are reaching out to the previously employed.

That's fantastic news!

Can't wait to see this club re-open.

Gotta keep the business going or we will lose them all.

Cici is at NuDen.

Last saw her Friday in the late afternoon.

I heard from one dancer today that they closed Tease Inc.

She didn't know/give the details and I'm sorry to hear that it was a tragic circumstance.

Best wishes for the family and loved ones.

I feel bad for those ladies that say those things about their job. I was told a long time ago by a very smart man, "If you don't enjoy your work(job) quit and find something you enjoy doing". One important thing is loving what you do, money is not as important. Don't get me wrong nobody wants to work for minimum wage but if you go home after a day of work and you are happy about the service you did then you will be a happy person.

Helping old folks throughout their day, serving coffee at Tim's, waitress in a restaurant, etc are all great jobs if you enjoy doing it.

My point is if you hate being a stripper then stop doing that.

I totally agree with NotchJohnson, I did a job I hated for a year and a half before I could move to another position and wanted to shoot myself in the face every few days.

Better to enjoy all aspects of life instead of hating a third or half of it (depending if you count sleep).

You can also tell if dancers enjoy their job, it comes through in conversation and in the CR.

Has anyone seen Stephanie lately?

Last saw her at the beginning of summer.

Blond hair to the middle of her back, curvy figure, large chest, guessing early 30s. Only ran into her on Saturday nights.

Thanks!

Experiments continue.

 

I don't sit at the rail for hours at a time, but will move up for a favourite and/or friend. I'll just push $5 or $10 onto the stage as a tip.

 

I am rarely treated to any extra attention. I'm not tipping for extra attention, but as a gift showing my appreciation.

 

I am also rarely approached afterward with a thank you.

 

Just FYI.

 

I'll probably continue to do this, but thought I'd share my highly scientific findings with you, my peers.

That's interesting, I would have imagined that a dancer would make a bit of a show with that to help encourage more patrons to do the same.

You would imagine that a post stage visit would be in order for a thanks and whatever else.

This is an excellent read. Thank you all!

I'll try to be more mindful of how much time I take to feel out a dancer.

With most clients I can tell when they like the chocolate ladies , and I'm pretty comfortable helping out one of them beautiful ladies.

Kudos to you DivaChanel and the other dancers that don't mind being helpful in matching up dancers to clients in such a competitive business, especially since you've mentioned the downturn in the club scene.

It makes the club atmosphere that much more enjoyable all around and that good karma will come back to you!

I love girls that have an intellectual side to them , I love having conversations and knowing that they are quite engaged in today's society other then drinking and partying 24 7. I'm just saying I'm not bi or lesbian but when I see a girl I think Is pretty I like knowing that she's not just a pretty girl but someone that's intriguing not only to the eye but mentally to the brain . Anyone else agree ?!

Yes exactly, if I find a dancer interesting it's 100% guaranteed to lead to dances (even if she's not my type).

However I've been bitten by this a few times. Not too long ago a dancer and I were having a fantastic conversation and I asked for a dance. It turned out to be a conversation with a naked dancer sitting on my lap (which is by no means a bad thing!!) but I felt like maybe I shouldn't be touching her while we're having this great talk.

Dancers have bad and good day's like everyone else and sometimes they just need a hug.

I think the city should hire huggers to go around and randomly dole out hugs to people.

A hug can make anyone's day no matter how bad it is!

Just saw this thread and it's a good one, keep them coming DivaChanel!

Why do clients use those type of excuses? If you are not interested in that specific girl it doesn't hurt to be honest , sure we don't like to get rejected but it's not like your the only client in the building to be honest and even if you are you should still be honest. It's not like dancers don't understand that some people have specifications in what they are looking for when they come to these places.

I haven't put out relationship status as an excuse but I have used the "waiting for a dancer" excuse. I don't mind being honest but I do feel like it either wouldn't come through in a gentle manner I would intend it to, or it may hurt a dancer's feelings/self image considering the highly competitive nature of the environment.

Why do some clients just come in for a drink and nothing more? Why not go to a regular bar and have a drink? Instead of giving the ladies an impression of interest?

If it's during slow time and there aren't many dancers, maybe the customer doesn't see anything that suits his taste? Also the view is quite different than at a normal bar.

I'm not one of them, but I suspect there are some guys who go to clubs to enjoy being around beautiful, naked ladies, but taking them for dances is a step over their moral values. I don't think it's a bad thing, they're helping the club by buying drinks, and when you think about it, the choice isn't between him not buying dances and buying dances (which he's not going to do), but between him being there buying drinks and not being there at all. There've been a few posts grumbling about these guys, but I'm okay with it.

I agree with CarpeDiem, better to have some butts in the seats drinking beer than dancing for an empty club.

Sometimes depending on how the discussion is going it's either you decide you like her or you don't it's simple!

I actually want to have a conversation with a dancer for 5-10 minutes before asking her for a dance. You get a feel for the style of a dancer (being portraied or actual) and the dancer gets an impression of the client. I've found that awkward conversation leads to awkward dances and meshing well on the floor leads to a better time for both myself and the dancer in the CR.

I've run into that awkward 'I'd like to have your schedule' can I have your number but asking seems like crossing the professional/personal boundary.

I've subtly hinted at it but never had a bite that way.

A few numbers have been provided but I usually don't keep them too long as my bank account would end up in intensive care.

Do most dancers have a work only cellphone?