HonestPete

No, it's not just a visual thing. It's a much deeper experience than just their physical body. It's heavily based on long term personal conversations & open minded honesty.

No, I don't belong to any boards.

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I think perhaps HonestPete you might be reflecting your outlook simply from this open board,advertising, albums etc etc, I could be wrong, but perhaps that us what you are seeing.

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You're correct that legality is probably the main reason why there is a difference. Thank you.

I'm interested in what some other reasons, if any, may also cause the difference.

... But as for down to earth and sweeter, keep in mind the legalities of this lifestyle and consequently this profession means down in the United States companions need to be somewhat more guarded, so unless a lady knows and trusts you really good, well no home cooking in the U.S. ...where as a companion in Canada, as long as she feels safe, just may invite you for dinner, or take your invitation for dinner

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I'm from Connecticut, all my life, and I've never been with a companion until years after I was married (happily married, I had thought). I'm very romantic, generous, devoted, etc., but my Wife changed after she gained weight. Not a lot of weight in my eyes, but enough for her not to feel sexy enough to make love. blah blah blah

So, I dabbled with companions, very slowly for several years, then more so after a few years break, then Twitter opened my big bedroom eyes to State-wide Ladies. But CT is a boring state where many Companions tend to ignore.

But I'm now hooked on Canadian Companions. Some will opening invite me to a cooked dinner. That's a true ultimate GFE/Wife-experience that American Companions have never even thought about (at least the ones I know). Canadian Companions seem to be much more open-minded and will expand the GFE & PSE roles to a whole knew level. They seem more down to earth and sweeter. Of course, there is a lot more reasons for both sides of the border, but I wanted to hear what other members think.

So, is it just my limited experience with USA and/or Canadian Companions, or have other people notice that the North of the Border Ladies are head over heels "better to be with" than US Companions? I know that I'm going to get body slammed for posting this topic, but it is just IMHO and I still need to meet some of my US Twitter babes, whenever they travel to CT, but I wanted to post my question to read your reaction. Plus, I realize my words are vague, so you will have to interpret them yourself.

Generally my PSE session just includes a few of the naughty extras that might not be included in Gfe: examples incl Greek, fetish BJ, cim etc!

After reading your comment and then gazing your "I should be studying for midterms but ..." photo album, all I want to say is ...

"I've got to get out of my marriage and move to Canada!!!!"

Nah! I still love my "missed up" Wife and I would rather she works out her issues and get back on to her road to healthy happiness, before I divorce her. I can live without her, but she can't live without me, right now. It's a long story and Yes, I've tried everything. She just has issues that she's working on. Enough said.

Damn!! The Canadian Ladies are so much hotter in body & mind & desires than USA Ladies. Hmmm should that be a new topic?

This is the free software I used to use a lot & I loved it a lot. http://www.httrack.com/ It would save everything (images, pages, buttons, actions, etc.) from the website into a separate folder, and transform the original online links to your hard drive folder so that you could view it like a normal website, but offline. It was fast and reliable, plus, you can print them any time you needed them printed and you can always access them any time. Just create different folders using the current date as the folder name and you'll be able to keep them separate from each other.

I hope this helps you.

I never used or read about the following software but it seems good and I sure there a many more. Just Google what you're looking for.

http://www.techsmith.com/tutorial-snagit-mac-web-capture.html

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I need a hard copy of every page for a file. So I need an actual hard copy of each page to have in my hand. As well, I need to print out all the pages of my competitors' websites as well, for someone to do some analysis.

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I've used DOS/Windows since 1982, Unix since 1992 & Mac since 2009. Never going back to Windows ever again, unless my next company requires it. I only use Unix/Linux and Macs.

The browsers that I use the most are: FireFox, Chrome, Canary & Safari. Hope to try the others when I have some free time.

I'll check on the iPhone app & report back here.

That's disgusting thing to happen, :( when you're only trying to provide a wonderful, sexy, relaxing, exciting, etc. playful fun time. I pray that you're able to retrieve all that was taken from you. I hope RG's link will be able to help you!!!! :)

I love how youthful their skin continues to stay beautiful & sexy forever. My first & only Wife is an Ebony Goddess. Love her full, passionate lips for endless kissing and watching her engulf me with each slide UP & down, knowing that those same lips will be kissing me again. Love how Ebony legs never need stockings to look sexy & wet chocolate sweetness taste best on my tongue. I can write a stories about all my Ebony Ladies. ;)

I think it all depends on the way she made this remark. If she said it with a mischevious smile on her face, I really don't mind and I would just admire her great sense of humour.

I agree completely with you, but she wasn't laughing or trying to humorous. She was dead serious and dead wrong.

Of course, she might have thought she was the best I ever had, but it was just my normal dirty talking, trash talking during our session to make our outcum more explosive.

It's nobody's fault. Our chemistry & our communication just didn't connect or match enough for me to repeat. But her body was fit & her sweet buns were cute & tiny. ;)

I never tip someone who sets their own prices. I would never tip a waitress if she was setting her own hourly wage... I don't tip the RMT I visit because I know she sets her own rates. I tip my barber because he doesn't set the prices or his wage, the owner does.

 

In general I find it amazing what people tip for and why they tip... but that's another topic...

 

If you tip someone here for amazing service, do you also tip the person at the store who spends 45 minutes helping you find the proper pair of running shoes for your next marathon?

 

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I tip because I like the person; I enjoyed their service; I have money in my pocket; I believe society & government decided not to increase their wages to an acceptable level to live on; I'm a caring & considerate person; etc.

So, you don't tip a barber who is also the owner? Because why? The owner's title trumps the barber's lower wages?

I find it amazing the excuses people use to convince themselves they're doing the correct thing for others and not just for self-gratification. Or people who say "that's [for] another topic" when they have never created any topic worth reading in the past 5 years. But that's for another topic.

Shoe stores are never big enough where I need anyone to help me, especially for 45 minutes. But why wouldn't you tip them? They've been working strictly for you and no other customer for 45 minutes.

... I think women are more intune to their bodies than we are. So they are good at staying on top of these things.

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I share with the ladies that I have Pearly Penile Papules. This is NOT a STD/STI. It is just how some of us are made differently than others. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hirsuties_coronae_glandis

In the back of my mind, I thought maybe I could learn things from other members, and your post confirmed that. Thank you for the link.

Plus, Gents shouldn't leave it up solely to the Ladies to have regular check-ups. Which is another good message from this thread. I hope.

I don't even bring toys along unless someone specifically asks in advance. I don't use them when alone, and I don't have a favourite. I just prefer the warm, wonderful toys attached to the man I'm with.

That's what makes you so F'ing Sexy Miss Jessica! You're a thoughtful Lady who doesn't impose your assumptions into our romantic playful fun times, nor do you need any outside toys to allow both of us from having fun together.

Your 3 sentences melts my heart, as I read and re-read them over and over again. You are the type of Lady that I can never get bored or tired of. Plus, you are someone I would enjoy spending most of, if not all of, my time with just listening and talking with you, of course, while my bedroom eyes; smooth, strong hands and my other attached devices work their magic on you fantasies and sweet body.

You are, indeed, some one I need & must meet with some day!!!!

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No offense was intended by my comments... i did see the tongue in cheek humor in your comments but i also assumed and maybe I should not have that you did not appreciate the introduction of the toy. In any case I apologize if my comments were off base.

I apologize if my interpretations of your comments were unfounded. I don't know you from Adam, so normally, it should have just rolled off my back (which would have been my correct choice, but I didn't to that). Sorry.

Toys are always welcomed & sometimes suggested by me, but the Ladies I've chosen to visit with, don't seem to be interested in them.

Looking forward to reading your future comments.

... It never crossed my mind that the toy was some kind of threat to my manhood... if it bothers you you should discuss it with your SP ...

You did catch all the humor in my message, albeit, subtle? Correct? There wasn't any honest threat to anything.

Actually, I wish she did ask me if she could "invite" Mr. Want to dance with us. But I guess some Ladies are so used to bringing him to their party, that they don't think a brand new client would object to it. This particular Lady made many assumptions and her last one after her goodbye kiss was: "Now tell all your other Ladies that you won't be seeing them any more, since you've found the best." I sure many Gents won't have return visit with her anymore, with that type of self-entitled demands. That should be another topic to post.

This is not at all a negative scenario, but only my curiosity since I have only been with one Beautiful, 5' 1", cute ass Lady who whipped out her magic wand during our romantic session to help her have more fun and it was a major let down for me and my Mr. Magic & his 2 side kicks brothers (Mr. Left & Mr. Right Love-Sacks).

I don't ever want to stop my Ladies from having the best time of their lives, but my ego dropped to a new time low, when her wand tagged me out of the sparring ring. LMFAO I have thick skin, so I was able to recover, but I still gave that Wand guy the evil eye when I was back in the ring and he was on the sidelines, again.

So, I want to hear from both the Lady's and Gentleman's point of view. What are some of your experiences with this type of toy competition?

I's just having a wee bit of fun ;)

God! That's disgusting!!!! I hope you're using a wee-wee pad.

I am definitely out of my comfort zone and knowledge base with this topic, so please don't think I will educate anyone on anything worth reading here. I'm only posting this question since my 2 ATF Ladies will sometimes say they can't meet me, due to their normal doctor's appointment. I know I felt a lot better knowing that they were receiving regular check-ups & I was more than happy to reschedule for a different day & it gave me a peace of mind that they were taking care of themselves.

So, it got me thinking that you Ladies may have some wild stories about other Ladies who try to save money by not visiting their doctor during their regularly scheduled appointments. And your Gentlemen clients might feel better, knowing that all respectable Ladies keep their appointments. Granted, this may be a no-brainer for any Lady who truly cares about their health. So, please forgive me, I don't mean any Lady any disrespect. It's just a topic that I thought would help both sides. I'm not trying to call any Lady out for being unhealthy. It wasn't a topic that I ever thought about asking my Lady Friends in the first place.

I also add "Gents" to the subject line, since it's appropriate for them to have regular check-ups, too, and guys are welcome to place their comments here, too.

I feel weird about posting this question, but maybe it will assist others to introspectively consider what they should do in the near future.

No noooo Mr. Bill ... I mean, Mr. Bean.

You do realize that my initial thread was only asking members who still have a "?" as their avatar to add an image to their avatar, not the members who currently have an image? Although, I would like to see your dress ... or, regimental skirt ... or dress or whatever. No!!!! I didn't mean to say that publicly. ... Where's the delete message button? ... Oh good, I found it! ... Wow! I finally deleted this public message! ... God, I didn't want that to be posted to the public to read. Whew!!!

In the spirit of good relations I have updated my profile picture. I am wearing regimental dress. ... Cheers,

ya well this is my son's lizard too ... I just have temporary custody of him. He came by yesterday and crushed some heads for me. Thanks for your help :)

How is he doing?

What did the vet say?

I just saw this post. You are indeed a very sweet, loving Lady. I hope someday I will be lucky enough to meet you in person.

...The amount, that's private, between the ladies and me. ...

When I go to a restaurant (even take-out), get a haircut, whatever, I tip.

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RG

I tip all those same places/people, too. Glad to hear it. I even give Christmas money to the mail person, lawn guys, snow plowing guys, masseuse, etc.

Yes, Gabriella, I've never read any Lady's web site or post which specifies that a tip it required. I heard that unexpected gifts, at unexpected times, for a Lady is one of the best ways to make them smile.

Since I'm very selective in who I meet, my body always has a great time & the Ladies know it. So, I have to give my Ladies an extra donation. Plus, it makes them feel good & everybody can always use some extra in their wallet. I love to surprise them for being themselves & for being sooo sweet & delicious with me.

I feel they desire it, especially if some (or a lot) of guys, either don't tip or they hassle over the donation. More importantly (IMHO), some Ladies spend time so that us guys will have such a great time with them. Here are some things they do & it all cost them: mani/pedi-cures, hair, makeup, your favorite sexy clothes, extra clothes to wear in public, drinks, music, candles, lotion, condoms, remembering who you are & what you like & don't like, driving, room reservations, setting up the ambiance, removing & cleaning it all up, waiting, cancellations, hem & hawing in emails/phone/chat conversations, ass-holes, and the list goes on and on. They do so much to make us happy, a big or small tip may really make their day. So why not give them something extra. It's not going to break your bank account. Sorry for my rant.

Do you tip? If so, how much, how often, why or why not?

Would you have a tryst at your significant other home and/or bed?

Did you ever have a tryst in their home and/or bed?

Is it sexy or vulgar to have a tryst in their home and/or bed?

Why or why not?

Of course, this thread is both Ladies and Gents to reply to, since I would love to read all opinions. I'm sure it will be a very hot topic for both those that like to do it and those who are oppose to ever doing it.

I'll start: Of the 2 Ladies I first invited to my Wife's home, both of them are my ATF Lady Friends. All the other Ladies, who I didn't invite, I only met with them once.

Just the phrase "in my Wife's bed" (IMWB) is extremely arousing for me. Some Ladies get wet when you tell them: "I think of you when I'm making love to my Wife". I do think of my ATF, but now I think of them being in my Wife's bed getting our sheets messing, seeing their face, listening to them, etc., while I'm making love to my Wife and while I'm sleeping and waking up in our bed.

I'm sure there is a vulgar side to this type of tryst, but my mind can only handle one glorious fantasy at a time. lol Just as long as my Wife doesn't get hurt. I still love her & love making love to her, but she's not as horny as me. Plus, I'm ALWAYS here for her whenever she needs me for anything.

There seems to be only 2 Raquel Ladies here on cerb: Raquel or raquelsexy. Which one are you referring to? I live too far away to meet either one, but I hope this helps a member to contact the correct Sexy Raquel that you are recommending.

So I have noticed a few people mention that they are not completely at ease with it...this is the part where I think myself and others could benefit from advice...when do we start? What do we say? So from a guy's persepctive and vice versa...what is your ideal scenario?

For me, the best place to start dirty talking is when I'm perusing the Lady's web site photos and fantasizing about the imagery her words are having on Mr. Magic. I'm already talking to myself about how much I would love to make her scream with delight & taste her sweetness on my tongue. I will send her a nice long, well-behaved email about myself, things I do & like, compliments about her, etc. with lots of "please", "thank you", etc. Hopefully, she enjoys reading them and wants to read some of my erotic stories before we meet in person, especially if she writes back saying that she use her wand and read my stories over and over again.

Once we meet, sitting on the edge of the bed, or better yet, seated on a couch with 1 bare leg underneath her buns & my strong hand caressing her smooth thigh, as if she's baby sitting at a neighbor' house and no one else is around. After many days/weeks of dirty talking to her photos, now I have all her physical, 3-dimensional beauty in front of me & her smiling face and laughter are telling me she's glad I've arrived, my passionate words of desires have to cum out as if I'm still talking to her photos, but she's responding to my caresses, my growing excitement, my words of intense enthusiasm to make her happy & wet.

Then after awhile, standing up and offering my hand to her to have her stand with me & making sure she gets a eye-full of my bulging pants. If she doesn't place her free hand on my covered lollipop, then I use my hand to brush her hand against me, all the while telling her I have so much to give her. When we are both facing a mirror & I'm standing behind her, brushing her long hair off her back and onto her bare chest, so that I can kiss her naked back, back of her neck, caressing my face on her scented hair, & telling her how big & happy she's making me and how much I want her. Plus, how much I want to take my time with her, but it's soo hard to be gentle with her.

This comment is taking too long. I'll just email you my suggestions. lol

I prefer all information that the Lady is comfortable giving out: 36d-25-36. But it's still just numbers, along with her height. Same measurements may look different on another Lady. Photos are great, but sometimes it takes the mystery or magic out of seeing a Lady for the first time in person.

Along with her measurements, I hope she would describe herself & personality in words. I don't think there is a simple answer to your question, because thankfully all Ladies are different.

Thank you for asking and thank you for including the very useful link. I love learning new things, especially from such a Sexy teacher as you. I hope you and I will have some hands on training some time in the future. ;)

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Gentlemen do you know what we are talking about or what sizes our cup sizes really represents, or when we describe our beautiful boobs would you prefer us to simply say small, petite, medium, large or very large. What wording would you suggest, or does stating our cup size draw a clear enough picture?

 

Here's a bit of an explanation on sizing- http://lingerie.about.com/od/FitGuide/a/What-Bra-Sizes-Mean.htm