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It went great, I posted a new recommendation by accident. It apparently was obliterated during the site rebuild (I couldn't find it).

 

So I wrote a new one under her official thread. Since posting this I've seen her two other times and have set up a 4th 🙂

 

I had accidentally made a new recommendation thread for her, so here is another under her official one:

If you're looking for an ACTUAL gfe, she is the one you want.

 

I've had a social meet, a private meet and a intended private meet that when I got there I just felt like being social.

 

For her description: Long golden brown hair, slim. She's got the best tan ever, and a cute bum. Pale blue eyes, which kills me on a brunette.

 

First date was just a social. One of the reasons I messaged her in the first place. Turns out she has a nerdy side, which is perfect for me.

 

#2 private time. Very fun. I got to eat some pie, I hope she had as much fun as I did!

 

#3 was intended to be private too, I arrived and she had ST:TNG playing on the PC. So instead we had some delicious kakigori from her new machine and got to talking.

 

She attempted to lure me into sin, but we just wound up laying around on the bed talking. She was in this cute purple w/ green trim lingerie.

 

I have a sneaky suspicion she doesn't get the chance to have in depth conversations with clients very often and that suits me just fine.

 

So anywhoo, I have #4 scheduled as a social with her, who knows where it will lead 😉

 

Will I repeat? Yes!

Should you? No, I want her all to myself.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not to mention, that those are DEFINITELY NOT B CUPS in the pictures

 

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I have seen her in a couple fashions since posting recently and figured I'd give my first reco here on lyla :)

I met her on a social date, and definitely enjoyed her honesty. We walked (lol after I messed up her address) to a local bubble tea place with her, and she is definitely adept at conversation. Honest and confident, she is unafraid to be vocal, and I definitely respect and liked that about her.

I had so much fun I booked a couple hours with her on Saturday (7th).

I had a couple weeks between visits, and we stayed in touch via email which was very easy.

So "the big day" comes and here I am at her place. Long golden brown hair, blue eyes, slim, and a deliciously creamy coloured tan woman sits here in this flowing white/navy dress.

I'm pretty shy, she still managed to get me undressed. Let me tell you, believe her when she tells you 'most people who see me ask me for Ã?Ã?'

Holy crap

We had a couple hours booked and I left exhausted. Next time I'll work harder.

Go see her, its like being able to sleep with that friend you've always had a thing for

Repeat: yes definitely!





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Check out leolist. I just discovered it after the demise of backpage. You can filter for verified ads (they post at least 5 pics with a sign they made that says leolist in it)

 

Or even better check out the escorts section here on lyla :)

 

As for outcall recos, I couldn't give you any. I have 5 roommates and a cat so my place is no good for receiving.

 

Good luck!

 

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I don't seek great conversation, just looking to find someone who is able to.

 

From personal experience, unless I actually care a little about someone I will never get to where I wanna be, if you catch my meaning lol

 

So my theory is that if we can share a little information and get along as people, it might be more fulfilling between the sheets.

 

I sent messages to 3/4 of them, Parker got back to me first so I it's a date with her ;)

 

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I live in Beacon Hill. For accessibility, the 12, 24 bus routes are pretty good and the 95 east/west is within a 10 minute walk (15 in winter). It's also right off the queensway for those who drive.

 

As for the neighborhood, I loved Vanier for its proximity to downtown, the previously mentioned issues can be a drawback. I dislike Orleans, it's far too prim and proper for me. It's also on the other side of the God damned universe if I feel like going out on a Saturday.

 

Beacon hill is kind of a relaxed area nestled between Vanier and Orleans with great access to downtown.

 

My vote is: move here! :)

 

 

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I just can't make up my mind! Between Alisonxox, Parker, Kimmy (college cutie) or Victoria (your secret).

 

I'd like to just spend some time with whoever it winds up being, I won't have a good time unless I know a bit about them and care a little.

 

Feel free to input your thoughts ladies and gents. I'm not worried about rates or services at the moment, just how much/little like to converse.

 

Thanks for your help!

 

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Satay chicken skewers with peanut dipping sauce and a glass of riesling

Did you make those or buy them? I work at a well know food store in Ottawa that just came out with a similar product a month or two ago. They were pretty good! Not as spicy as I'd have liked them however :)

 

 

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Barefax sticking customers with $ 5 charge to get dances upstairs. Just not the right way to treat customers, they never did this before, clearly they are losing business and now are gouging us.

 

$ 5 charge for every time you go upstairs.

 

No wonder their dancers are quiting.

 

This gouging is a sad development indeed and in the end will cost the dancers business.

I've heard from a roommate that the $5 fee is only staffed in the evening. I think it's a load of b.s. personally.

 

I already pay a $5 door fee and buy completely overpriced drinks, and alright food. I'm not paying a blackmail fee

 

When I get back in there 1 of 2 things are going to happen: Fax will get to keep my future money, or Fax will get my $5 and not get any of my future money.

 

The way I heard is it was instituted because of differences between what a dancer claims she danced and what a customer pays for...

 

If this was ACTUALLY the case, you would go for dances, the staffer would count the songs, then you would go over to the table and pay the dancer in front of the staff.

 

At no point should you have to pay the staffer an extra $5, that's bullshit. You pay $5 for them to do nothing? Right.

 

I'd much rather just pay a $10 door fee. Or pay $5 as soon as you get up and that gets you a VIP "pass" in the form of another hand stamp.

 

Or in my case I'll just go in to see my girlfriends during the day.

 

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Hey gang,

 

We are taking a colleague out for his birthday this week, was wondering if barbs offers a little birthday special like bringing him up on the stage sort of thing. If anyone that maybe works there could let me know that would be awesome.

 

Thanks in advance gang

I do not work there but have been going long enough to know this is definitely a thing.

 

When I did it, it was pretty informal, we went up to the Dj and just let him know what the plan is.

 

We gave him the money and let him know what girls were wanted - I've seen this done at the 'mate too.

 

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Though I currently have options for lunch, dinner and post-dinner dates, the idea of getting together for breakfast totally slipped my mind!

 

My Question:

Would those who are up in the morning like the option of being able to get together for breakfast or even just coffee?

 

If you have anything to add, (to the idea of early/breakfast dates) please feel free to do so. ;)

I just saw your ad over in the other board and really liked that you offered social options for meetings over lunch and dinner, though breakfast is by far my favorite meal of the day. Yes for sure!

 

I also would not expect a made-up face over breakfast, in fact I've always preferred the 'less-is-more' approach to makeup.

 

Great idea!

 

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Popped in to Barb's last night for the heck of it.

 

Carmella was there sporting some new hardware (at least since I'd seen her last), decent work too.

 

Took her for a dance, she has definitely improved since the last time I did.

 

There was a Raquel, Sierra, and a Nikki. There were others but I didn't meet them.

 

Though Nikki is tall, dark and pretty.

 

Coop was in the booth, he was doing a favor for (Doug?)

 

Shooter girl looks like gwen stefani, I approve. Bartender was Nathalie, big Dave working the door and Jesse was managing

 

Pretty slow when I got there, but I arrived around 7:30 and left before 9

 

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Hey I'll be four tomorrow (decades that is), I haven't been to barb's on a Friday night in a very long time, at least since there was snow on the ground.

 

Big question is, anyone know if Jay is back behind the bar? Also, I want to do shots with Smash (Blonde shooter girl Ashley) and Nat (Asian waitress with bottom lip piercings). Plus Coop (probably won't be there on Friday) and last but not least Sheldon, and Ashley the bartender.

 

I'll most likely do a round for all the staff, but I really want that handful to be there.

 

They still around?

 

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There is a short form I have never liked - BBW.

 

To me it seemed like a lie, I had always heard it used to mean big boned women.

 

Well I don't like it for two reasons: To me that puts a negative or at best extremely unpersonal touch on a self-description.

 

And second: it's a lie. Barring actual medical conditions or physically being taller or shorter... your skeleton is pretty much the same size as someone of equivalent stature.

 

So anyways a friend of mine and I were having a conversation about the industry and he enlightened me with a new (and far more accurate) meaning. Big Beautiful Woman.

 

Needless to say I no longer despise the term "BBW".

 

Any other fun acronym misunderstandings out there?

That's good to know. Thanks. I've only been once and had no problems but I was sitting by myself in a corner seat in full view of the stage and bar.

 

It's a fine line. Do you sit and wait and get no attention or be more bold and maybe end up looking like a jerk? I guess it all depends on how warm you want/need your lap to be.

If I have to approach a dancer I'll do one of 3 things:

 

If she's occupied at a table with a potential client I'll usually buy her a shot/drink and snag her when she comes back to thank me.

 

If she's unoccupied and I don't feel like going over, I'll ask waitstaff to wrangle her for me.

 

If I really like her or my time is short I'll just suck it up and walk over

 

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Try barefax !

 

 

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So many dancers from Barbs work elsewhere now. I dont think I'd recognize anyone but staff if I popped in lol

 

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It was asked earlier if not having some kind of relations with a particular decent could be construed as racist and then mentioned that subconsciously racism might play into that choice.

 

On the relations side, if you made a conscious decision like, "I don't want to take her for a dance because Muslims are prudes", that would definitely be discrimination. Or finding a particular colour repellant.

 

That being said it may simply boil down to the opportunity to do so...

 

Personally I've had the chance to take Iranian, Lebanese, Moroccan, Portuguese, Spanish, Haitian, Jamaican, Russian, Italian and Dominican women for dances (all various skin tones, some of which you wouldn't know unless you asked).

 

If it just boils down to physical attractiveness and personality that's not racist. You might love almond-shaped eyes, that's a feature that happens a lot in middle-eastern people. That's a preference, not racism.

 

It's like I would choose a Lamborghini over a Ferrari anyday, given then choice. Would that make me a vehiculist? I like them both, just that lambos evoke a guttural desire somewhere deep in my soul and that is the Je-ne-sais-quoi that fuels my decision.

 

Being labeled racist because you prefer a particular skin colour or facial features is akin to being called sexist because you prefer females to males.

 

My extra two cents

 

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A couple of weeks ago I was at my local dance hall and a friend I was out with called me a racist. That made me think.

 

The details of the exchange are that I show a certain amount of love for ladies within a certain range of skin colouration. This is well known both to myself, my friends, and a shedload of dancers. I'll dance with just about anyone, but I have a preference.

 

Does this make me racist? Keep in mind that I'm not using the politically charged 'common' definition of that hated word. Try to think about what that word means before adding any comment, please. I'm not trying to start a political firestorm. I'd prefer a rational discussion.

 

When I think of the word racist, I think of a person who is exclusionary. I am merely preferential. I like one thing more than the others instead of hating all but one thing. Is there a word for that? I don't want to use the word 'racial' because that has its own problems.

 

I'd like to be able to respond to any further discussion of this nature with something like, "I'm not racist, I'm preferential," without sounding like a complete turd. Is that even possible?

Everyone has a preference. If all things are equal and I had to choose between a skin tone, my curiosity would lead me to choose something other than Caucasian.

 

Why? Well it's not looks, it's because when I see someone with light skin, subconsciously I'm thinking, "okay, no big deal. I see light skin all the time"

 

Now that's not to say I don't find them attractive; they're just not as intriguing.

 

I enjoy differences far more than I do similarities. Differences challenge your perceptions and in doing so make you learn.

 

Without knowing the context of your conversation (mostly if your friend was serious or joking), I'd say either your friend was jealous, or is the racist - simply for coming to that conclusion.

 

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Wow this conversation has bloomed since my phone last allowed tapatalk to run lol.

 

For me, the table conversation is a deal maker or deal breaker. If I don't share a compatible personality with a woman, my time in the cr, will not be enjoyable.

 

I'll spend the few songs quiet and with my hands completely to myself (not even resting on your hips or in your hands) and will probably call it off relatively quickly.

 

To be fair though, if a woman comes over and I'm not interested right that moment, I will preface any conversation with, "you're welcome to sit, but I'm not looking for dances right now"

 

The standard dancer intro that I've seen over the past 15 years in strip clubs goes something like this:

 

Hi I'm *name*.

Nice to meet you, I'm *me*

Her: Want to go for a dance?

Me: No.

 

And anyone who approaches me with that will get denied.

 

Some of us just aren't interested in meeting only a plaything - all the women I've ever taken for dances, we have all shared some common interests or goals or experiences. Without a conversation, none of that will get discovered.

 

As a dancer you aren't selling your body, but you are selling an experience.

 

When was the last time you bought something from someone who said, "Buy my stuff - but don't ask me any questions because I can't be bothered to answer them"?

 

Dancer-client relationships are still based on the same things that make people "click" and I, for one, refuse to believe you guys are simply there to get naked and make money.

 

I'd like to end this by saying that I'd like to meet diva and Megan in person though - I've always enjoyed the company of people who aren't afraid to speak their minds :)

 

 

 

 

 

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If I know a dancer's birthday is coming up I always offer a celebratory drink or shot, and if it's someone I like I'll take them for a "dance" (which is just chatting while clothed). Overall I encourage them to take the actual day off from working.

 

I'm with kiltboy on this too, personally I avoid working on my birthdays if possible, going so far as to book it off up to 6 months in advance

 

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The description seems accurate. She has leopard spot tattoos.

 

There was another dark beauty who came in who was like a body builder frame and had the plastic boobs that sat almost a bit too high. Really interesting. Anyone catch her name?

Dark skinned, body builder frame, enhanced boobs... could be Ava. Last I heard she'd retired though. If it's her she's a stand-up girl

 

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Some people don't realize that a stage show doesn't mean how good they are upstairs some girls are great on stage and their private shows aren't and so I've heard from clients. But to each his own I guess ! If you go to the USA clubs all they do is twerk on stage.

 

 

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Yeah I've had my fair share of great stages followed by not quite as exciting private dances. I get that a stage show does not equal back-room mileage. I do believe this post is about tipping for a stage show, though :)

 

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I don't normally sit stage-side, and when I do it's because I like the dancer on stage and if possible want to steal her for a while since she's already revved up.

 

Given the sorry state of stage shows since at most ottawa clubs I am against a mandatory tip.

 

If everyone put on a show like Brooklyn (do we all remember her pole tricks with sparklers on her heels?), Maude, or Stella (all retired atm) and currently Rhapsody at the playmate who happens to be first time I've applauded a stage show in years, then yea, tip.

 

I'm all for tipping if there's effort put into a show beyond gyrating and twerking

 

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Anyone have any rec/info on either of these ladies?

 

Sadi:

 

http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/sweet-sadi-sexy-curvy-and-oh-so-busty-real-and-ready/49436782

 

Freya:

 

http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/sultry-freya-afro-caribbean-beauty-real-and-recent-pics/29573906

 

Thanks!

I know sadi outside of the business, she's real. She had switched to dancing for a little while, but this may have been as much as two years ago

 

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