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    To clarify something, she reached out to me. I haven't fallen for this lady and I'm under no illusions that I'm here to save her. I understand this is normally a business, and I was a customer, but we are all human so I'm not going to turn a blind eye if someone is struggling. I interpreted her reaching out as wanting help, so I came here for some advice. 

     

    @fatboyNOTslimWhile I understand the point you're making, but I don't need to get something from someone in order to help them. Just like when I give a gift, I'm not expecting anything in return. I'm not throwing money at her, or opening up my house so she has a place to stay, I just don't want her to hurt herself or feel so isolated that she doesn't matter. 

     

    Anyway, I appreciate everyone's advice and opinions, that fact that you read my post and spent time either messaging me or posting here has been really helpful.

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    Thanks for your input guys, it's much appreciated!

    I'm giving her some space now, but I have let her know that I could *potentially* help her out. I assumed she wanted help by reaching out to me, but like most of you said, if she actually wanted help, she'd make more of an effort to be available.

    1 hour ago, harboursmoke said:

    If you wish to help you need to be prepared that that help will be abused or squandered, and you need to make peace with that ahead of time

    To your point Harboursmoke, I understand people will take advantage of kindness, they've done so in the past with me, and I'm sure people will continue to lol. But that's all cancelled out by the people who do need the help and are grateful for it. I can be too trusting though, so I've learned to get other people's opinions on sob stories, hence the reason I posted here.

    Thanks again everyone!

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    Heya everyone, I need a bit of advice.

    Obviously for privacy, I won't mention who but a very nice lady I met at the start of this year has had a really tough time recently... A death of someone close, separated from her child, lost her apartment and in recent conversations with me, has mentioned wanting to die. She said she feels alone and that nobody is there to help her.

    Since my day job is helping people, I offered to try to help her too (ie. at least help her come up with a plan to get back on her feet). She seemed really appreciative and open to it, but then she goes MIA every time I try to help her, only to come back 12-24 hours later saying things like she turns off her phone to forget about the world (or wishing everyone forgets her), or that she just sleeps all the time as an escape and that's why she wasn't responding.

    I'm genuinely concerned for their wellbeing but it's not like I have their full name or address to even call the police for a wellness check. My work is pretty stressful, so adding the stress of worrying about this lady hasn't been great for my own mental health...

    What should I do? I feel obligated to check in on her now, but am I overstepping boundaries? Or is it more of a risk to just leave her be (I don't want her to feel like nobody cares)? Or should I be leaving it and she can reach out if she actually wants help? Or is this person pulling one over on me and they're just seeking attention?

    I only rarely see providers, maybe once every year or two so I've never been in this situation before... So I'd appreciate anyone's input!

     

    TL/DR version: a lady who I saw once is going through a very rough patch, and I'm worried about her. I don't know if it's for attention or if she actually needs help.

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    Heya folks,

    Happy Labor Day weekend to everyone!

    Just wondering if anyone seen had a chance to see Lilly. She doesn't seem to post much (since her ad is a month old) but I did double check with her, and she is apparently still seeing clients. Pictures seem legit too but I can't help being cautious haha.

    Any info is appreciated!

    https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_sweet_young_thing-6181883?source=list

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    On 6/5/2021 at 8:51 AM, Greenteal said:

      The pics seem to originate from her OnlyFans and related Reddit accounts.

    Unclear if she offers in person services or only virtual.

     

    Thank you sir, hindsight being 20/20, the photo that looks different could be her duo partner.

     

    I normally tend to stay away from outcalls so I just wanted to see if anyone here has had first hand experience with her.

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    Hi everyone,

    Just wondering if anyone here has seen Rose before, think she's relatively new to posting on leolist (although I only really check the site a couple times a year...)

    Did a reverse image search so the pics seem legit, but I'm pretty sure the 8th picture is a different person. She also has an OF, not sure what the consensus on here is about that.

    https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_duo_available_text_now-6363546?source=list

  9. Posted

    Well just to put my two cents in, I'm definitely on the side of the ladies here. 

     

    When I was selling my car last year, I got so frustrated with people's inability to read my ad, asking the same questions for answers that I clearly put in the ad... And that was just one ad, for one week and one car! I couldn't imagine the amount of BS they put up with on a day to day basis just on that.

     

    Here's hoping its a generational thing and it'll get better as us millennials get more disposal income!  

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  10. Posted

    On 10/2/2020 at 2:15 PM, Mikejfenwick said:

    Hi folks.  This is a request for recommendations. My observation is that we've recently lost several well reviewed ladies.  We have some really well established ladies left but the are often not available.  Leaving us with some unqualified ads.  

    If you've recently had a good experience with a lady who may not be well known reviewed, please consider sharing a recommendation. 

    I'll try to do the same.

    As requested, wrote one up for Kitty Montgomery (pending approval but I'm sure it'll be live soon).

     

    Hopefully a few other people share as well! 

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