Hoping I can get some advice from some more experienced hobbyists.
First, anyone else married? Has hobbying affected that in any way (positive or negative)? I'm happy with my marriage but have been with my wife since before college, so I feel I've missed out on some experiencs.
Aside from that, contact/discretion is obviously huge for me (as I'm sure it is everyone else). I'm, certainly not famous by any means, but am, "known" in some fairly significant circles. Point is this is the type of thing could end both a marriage and a career. I'm sure the smart answer is "then maybe you shouldn't be here" but here I am so we're over that hurdle.
I completely understand the SPs needs to have real information for their own safety, but also have my own safety (not physical, but financial and home life) to be concerned with. Any advice on insuring my discretion isn't violated, maybe even years after the fact?
Aside from that, any SP recommendations? I've been very interested in a couple of girls, MsManda, but also wonder, if I start at the top, then what?
Any insight is greatly appreciated.
~Red.