Sooooo Frustrating!!

[Boku27 1483]

So let me preface this by saying that I am a very busy person and must meticulously plan out any encounter I may have with an SP.

 

I select potential SPs as cautiously as I can and spend a little time trying to get more details via texting and laying out what I am looking for in an encounter.

 

I usually only have a small window of time in which to

see an SP and therefore need things to go smoothly and on time.

 

Now when making plans with someone, I am very respectful, I accept the rates I am given and do not try to negotiate, and only make a firm appointment when I know for sure I will be there. I do not waste people's time with long drawn out conversations.

 

When it comes time for the encounter, I follow whatever instructions the lady may have and follow them to the letter. I show up clean and on time and have no problem tipping when I feel I have been given good service in accordance to what we discussed. Overall, I would say that I am a very good client (at least I like to think so)

 

Having said all that, the last little while, I have made what I thought were firm plans with a couple different ladies only to get ignored or dicked around (no pun intended) when the time of the appointment arrives.

 

Tonight for instance, I had an hour appointment planned for a specific time which we had set up several days in advance. I had a long week and was really looking forward to it. The SP seemed to have a good attitude and seemed like she was looking forward to meeting as well, sending me playful messages throughout the week.

 

Anyway, upon sending her a message at the agreed time,

there was a bit of delay in responding (longer than usual)

Finally, she asks me what side of town i am on and informs me that she needs to get a room.

I respond by telling her that i only have a short window of time in which to see her and she needs to get it figured out as soon as possible. She then asks if i could go get a room at such and such a place and she would meet me there and deduct it from her donation. LOL

 

Anyway suffice to say, I said i was not going to do that and i expressed my disappointment that she was not ready at all for what I thought was a firm booking so thanks but no thanks.

 

She then talked about how she just had a terrible day and

and was sorry and how she still wanted to meet up blah blah blah.

 

Anyway, I don't know if she had a bad day or not or what was going on, but i feel she could have informed me at anytime during the day all the way up to the time I was to message her that maybe she wouldn't be able meet or that she was having problems.

This way I could have made other plans or we could have rescheduled.

 

Anyway, is it too much to ask to be treated with the same respect that I give to every lady as a good paying customer? I mean, doesn't it piss off SPs when people waste their time making plans with them and not showing up and ignoring them?

 

Maybe someone could enlighten me as to why certain SPs would do this sort of thing or ignore you when trying to follow up.

Is this a common occurence to others here?

 

Like I said, this is just one of the couple times this sort of thing has happened in the last couple weeks.

 

I am a little newer to the hobby but I never thought it would be quite this difficult to find a quality local provider that I click with and who I could see on a regular basis with no drama.

 

Don't get me wrong, I have had a couple encounters that went smoothly and were pleasant. Just haven't found quite what I am looking for yet.

 

And so the search continues.

 

Anyway, sorry for the neverending post lol but just had to vent a bit!

 

//END RANT

 

 

tl;dr -

 

frustrated client makes plans with SP, gets ignored or given excuses when time of appointment arrives

[blacklabdog 3049]

No its definitely not too much to ask to being given same consideration. Sorry it happened, sounds likeyou went through all the right steps.

Don't give up

[TPBJP 752]

There is nothing unusual about your situation if you are not filtering out the random BP Sp's that pass through town. If you stick with the more pro Sp's such as ones with websites or part of an agency you are not going to have this problem, aside from you might be waiting in the parking lot for a half hour... but ive never known a girl who was on time for anything...

[Guest]

It's happened to me many a time.

 

Problem is that I keep trying to meet new ladies who are touring, and are not at the elite sp status with a higher level of service - as on most days I am looking for a quick and fun encounter due to my scheduling restrictions.

 

I am not into elite girlfriends, which it seems are the best ones to connect with if you don't want to be mishandled.

 

The only thing that I can do is take a deep breath and relax, and understand that on any given encounter with a non-established sp that I may be wasting my time panning for gold.

[Guest discr33t]

You're preaching to the choir.

 

With my limited time and need for last minute bookings in small windows of time, if I find a good local SP I will just stick with her,

(until that doesn't work or stops being fun)

[OceanMassage 5357]

.. but ive never known a girl who was on time for anything...

 

Maybe if you looked for women you'd revised that opinion;-p

[Boku27 1483]

hey thanks for the responses guys.

 

When i wrote that post I realize I just had

to blow off some steam and wrote in the

heat of the moment lol

 

I have since calmed myself down haha

 

I see some have recommended travelling

travelling or agency SPs and I am down with

that. Its just that you never know when or if

they will be back around these parts.

In fact there was one lady I met (the very first one

for me actually) that was out of this world.

Unfortunately she has not been back

since.

 

Point being, Im really looking for someone local

or someone who comes here regularly that I can

have a good regular connection with and

have a good rapport with.

 

From reading the posts on the board

here, it seems a little bleak here locally.

Hopefully that can change.

Anyway i plan on continuing on with my search.

wish me luck!

[golfer1948 244]

I don't get out to play much (3 Indies and 1 Agency woman), but have been fortunate in that I never have had bad experiences as experienced by the OP - the worst that's happened is that I had to wait 15 minutes past the appointment time in the parking lot before getting the green light.