first timer

[pandacrazy 185]

Hi everybody. I've been hanging around for quite a bit but never posted something consistent and now there it is.

 

I only had sex once in my life and i only had 17when that happened ( now i am 22 ) and that really bothers me because i know that a sp wants to please her clients but she also wants to be pleased in return which is highly understandable :grin:

but the probleme is that with my lack of experience, i might not give the pleasure that a sp is looking for ( might underestimate myself here! ) and that scares me up. I only know one position which sucks IMO

 

I wonder if there is any sp out there that are really comfi with first timers, unexperienced and shy people. i am not that person who is shy to the point to not even remove her panties.. i can get things going down no problem but ill sure be very shy while doing it all!

 

just send me a Private message if you wanna share some info that cannot be shared on a post :)

 

thank you

 

Max

[Newton 714]

I think all well reviewed Ottawa SPs would be comfortable with first timers. Have a look at the Ottawa recommendation section and find a SP you like. I'd suggest letting her know you're a first timer when contacting her. Go from there. Enjoy the hobby.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

PC, you have nothing to worry about. It doesn't sound to me like you're at all outside of the normal mix of clients that many escorts would be familiar with.

 

My 2-cents would be: Best to pursue an escort who has collected a bunch of good recommendations. I think I'd be safe in saying that it doesn't take very long for an escort in this business to have seen it all (and then some!), so a number of good recommendations for any particular escort would (statistically speaking) be a tip-off that she has the gift of pleasing clients of all shapes, sizes, personalities and situations. (You think you may have quirks? She'll no doubt point out that you don't know from quirks!)

 

Of course interpersonal chemistry makes a difference, so if you also take some time to get to know some of the ladies here, that can help even more in increasing your chances of finding a good match.

 

Escorts are definitely people persons, and do seem to really enjoy their clients on a fundamental human level, not just the "services" aspect. They're in this thing with you. They're cheering for you and beside you. You: bring honesty, courtesy, and a positive attitude. They: rock your world!

[VedaSloan 119179]

You'll be fine! Practice makes perfect right? WIT is right; most of us have seen it all.

 

We don't mind if you're shy or inexperienced. Personally, I kind of like the first-timers. They generally haven't picked up any bad habits and you can shape them into wonderful lovers. I love showing newbies the ropes :)

[Belleoftheball 395]

Because everyone is soooo different, I agree with Berlin about showing a newbie the ropes. It benefits me in a fantastic way and its always interesting and fun to find out something that turns one on that they did not know already for themself.

 

I think most ladies in this business are patient and willing to be with a new comer, but it is important to do your research and find the lady that excites you the most ;)