geo007 203 Report post Posted September 8, 2011 Problem: My wife says she loves me and I take care of her as best I can. She however is interested in intercourse only approximately once a month whereas my sexual rythym at my age is now about twice a week therefore we have problems. She has always been this way which explains why I have become a Cerb addict and a lover of other women. I am searching for anything not dangerous which may help stimulate her libido.She is looking for this. I've tried buying sexual aids such as vibrators but she isn't using those at all. I read that Jane Fonda is into taking testesterone??? but that stimulates hair growth!!!! Anyone have any suggestions??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103696 Report post Posted September 8, 2011 Problem: My wife says she loves me and I take care of her as best I can. She however is interested in intercourse only approximately once a month whereas my sexual rythym at my age is now about twice a week therefore we have problems. She has always been this way which explains why I have become a Cerb addict and a lover of other women. I am searching for anything not dangerous which may help stimulate her libido.She is looking for this. I've tried buying sexual aids such as vibrators but she isn't using those at all. I read that Jane Fonda is into taking testesterone??? but that stimulates hair growth!!!! Anyone have any suggestions??? May be it's time for her to see a physician, if she already hasn't. I know they are doing testing on women with Viagra but that can be a dangerous drug to some. There could be underlying issues that she may not have shared with you and a sex therapist can also be very helpful. If you only get that one special night make it romantic and memorable. Take her out, turn your bedroom in to a love making nest. Pull out all the tricks flowers, the whole lot. I would suggest on this special night that you leave and ring or knock on the door and have her welcome you in and take her out, come back to the love nest and pamper her, focus on her and what she likes and her needs. Make it all about her. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166766 Report post Posted September 8, 2011 Lexy's ideas are terrific. I would add a few things. If you have children, do some of the things your wife does with them, like helping with homework, driving them to lessons, sports and so on, if you're not already doing these things. Do more housework. Seriously. Do more housework like laundry, vacuuming, picking up general clutter. Every night, before you go to bed, make a trip through the house and put things in order. Pay attention to the kitchen. If it's tidy, no dishes in the sink, the morning will start out much better. Even if you think you're already doing 50% of what needs to be done around the house, do more. Enlist the kids' help and then make sure that they do a great job with whatever they take on. Every person over the age of about 10 or 12 can learn to clean a bathroom properly. Don't make a big deal about taking on more household chores. Just do them without complaining or looking for honour badges at the end. Many women feel overburdened by the combination of work, children and housework. They feel exhausted and demoralized because many of the things that need to get done are never truly over and done with. There are always more dishes. It's impossible to vacuum often enough. The laundry never ends. If your wife comes from a family that thinks rest is a reward for work well done, she may never feel that she's earned the down-time she really needs. But a well-rested woman is a happy woman and a happy woman wants a lot of sex! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
