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Not a good enough reason to justify sex work with a child present. I'm not saying that is the case here, but there's no circumstance ever that could justify it. Holy fuck.

I have just met a remarkable lady, both in her physical appearance and her intelligence. Kayla is brand new to OPG, having worked only briefly for another agency and spending a bit of time as an independent. Booking an appointment with Tracey at OPG was easy as always, and Kayla was right on time. She has an angelic face with blond hair and beautiful eyes. She was quite good in starting conversation, and notwithstanding the reference to a bubbly personality on the OPG website, she is definitely not one of those giggly girls, but there are definitely moments of sincere laughter. I made her a cup of tea (her beverage of choice on this occasion) and we proceeded to have probably the most interesting conversation I have ever had with such a young lady. I really enjoyed speaking with her. Kayla is remarkably well spoken, a good listener, and very, very wise for a 19-20 year old girl (as advertised on OPG). Someone you could definitely have a a long dinner conversation with. She had me thinking twice about some of my own assertions during our conversation. On the physical side, she is perfectly proportioned and has an active, if not athletic, build. Just right in every sense. And in bed, she definitely knows what she is doing. She prefers light kissing and is not big on daty for safety reasons, but there is a very sensuous lady behind her demure exterior. We finished our time together with another cup of tea and more good conversation. Repeat? In a heartbeat. Kayla, thank you ... you represent exactly what a lot of guys my age are looking for ... a perfect combination of sexiness, intelligence and fun. I hope to see you again soon!

Agencies have fucked me over so many times. They treated me like a slave, some of them well known on this site, some not. I find great fun in being independent and yet, I have made the mistake of joining agency after agency, hoping I could find someone that would treat me like a human being and not an OBJECT. The societal objectification for women is already common enough, I don't want it to follow me into my career. Yes, I have to work a little harder and I have to scrutinize all my clients, but in the end... An independent woman is a happy woman :D

I agree with the above statement. I myself do have a little one & while the idea of entertaining clients in my home while my little one is about doesn't even enter my head, I do have resources, such as family & friends that are more than happy to babysit while I work. Some women do not have these resourses & being a single parent with no resourses is very difficult. Sure, there is income assistance, but really, with the amount allotted, it's barely enough to cover rent, groceries, utilities & bills. I agree that working while the little one is about is a very bad idea (not to mention the legality of the situation) but I've no idea what situation the sp is in. What I think is a great idea is possibly networking with other sp's in similar situations & sharing babysitting duties, perhaps.

I'm sorry to disagree with you. What consenting adults participate in is no body's business, but when a child is involved it's everybody's business. I did not post this without giving it a lot of thought. I was warned that I was probably going to get a lot of flack for doing so. As I said before, I hope she reads this and corrects the problem so she won't "get caught" by CAS. And if and when she does it won't be because I posted something here, it will because of her behaviour which will eventually happen.

This is my first-ever public post because the matter is so serious I am compelled to write. I subscribe to the cerb policy, "If you do not have anything nice to say... Please don't say anything at all." But, subject of this thread is really serious -- a child is involved. I agree with CK i.e. yes, it is 3rd hand info, but enough info has been released to identify the SP, who has rights. Practically speaking, the child is probably already cognizant of the SP's activities. Whether or not the child is capable of actually corroborating the allegation(s) is besides the point i.e. the child's welfare is the concern. This is a serious matter, but no one should jump the gun. If those in the community are concerned and want to pursue this matter, I would suggest doing so privately via a PM to the SP, conveying your concerns so as to respect her rights, and give her a chance to remedy the situation. When (and if) the CAS gets involved, there are no winners, not even the child. On a final note, I would ask MOD to take down this thread.

Thank you Belladonna, for what is one of the most open, honest statement i've yet read here. (or anywhere else for the matter) S.P's, despite the fact that they set personal boundaries within themselves they NEVER expect to break, are HUMAN , and vulnerable to the same things we are. As with any occupation, the law of averages dictates you will run into someone with whom there is an attraction. Despite the love felt for the signifigant other, sometimes you can't help but wonder if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, or that they could be more like a client/provider in certain circumstances. What motivated my reply was actually the 2nd quote (and some replies it engendered). I found it disheartening that despite how far humanity has come as a civilization, there are times where we feel we have no choice but to live a lie to keep what we value most. My best wishes go out to you, and all caught in those circumstances, truly. My last relationship was an open one, we could and did talk about everything you could imagine. It take a special understanding to know that while you or your partner may want to have sex with another for now, they want to be with You Forever. Some of you may well ask then, why am I here if things are so perfect ? I found my way here after C was killed in a car accident a few years ago, thinking that I may find some solace with another. While there appear to be some truly beautiful S.P's both outside and inside, i've yet to make an encounter happen. I remain; a-lone42long

I agree with you Loki, being addicted to this hobby is very real. Much more than a love fantasy, there`s no way I can retire either. I suppose that would be considered a con but I`m not complaining.my name is PJ and I`m an addict

The service provider amplifies the romantic situation to make it seem that she is more than just a sp, she is the ultimate girlfriend. A no-strings-attached, eager to please, and yet, completely unattainable girlfriend. I think it is a subject that should not be ignored. Myself, I have been victim to feeling more than I should for a client. This can be extremely damaging, especially since professional boundaries have been constructed. Even more so is you already have a significant other that knows nothing of your pass-time/hobby/job. I consider it to be very difficult to write about such a touchy subject, even a misuse of language could offend. However, the GFE phenomenon and its consequences are very real to this community. :oops:

This is something that I have been doing for a while. With pleasure might I addd. It took me alot of time and alot of practice. Luckily for me when I was practicing my boyfriend at the time was very paitent and understanding :P I agree with Belladonna, you need to go slow and and breathe out of ur nose, however I dont know about the spray. I find the more I just relax the more my throat will open up for me. I have a feeling that this is not a great idea.... if you are just learning you need to experience the feelings to know if you can allow yourself to go further. It also helps if you really are into what you are doing :D As with anything, practice makes perfect - I have small breast Belladonna, or I would love to help out xo Good luck on your search :bjs:

Hey Jimmy44007 You realize if it is not me, someone else will say to you....."Okay Go ahead and name her and give us the month in 09 " So you started the thread let us hear your best. Personally I do not like getting into these type of questions, it is all about YMMV, chemistry and a privacy issue at times as well. There is a ton of rec's to view perhaps you can see the top 10 descriptive rec's on a bj.