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It's not the nice guys we are trying to make feel unwelcome, it's the creeps and time-wasters we're trying to make feel unwelcome. Not to sound trite, but I think a lot of guys seem to think that if they have enough money a lady will see them. There is more to it than money. A prospective client who has proven himself to be someone who is rude, lazy (not reading everything before asking dumb questions), or annoying is usually not a client ladies enjoy seeing. Consider it part of the screening process. And if this proves to be a turn-off for you, so be it. I'd rather turn off a few guys than have a headache day-in and day-out. Posted via Mobile Device

For me I look for more than just the sex, and i go to great lengths to ensure that is my experience.... This hobby is DEFINITELY one that rewards you in spades AS LONG AS YOU AERE WILLING TO GIVE AS MUCH AS YOU EXPECT TO RECEIVE........ I have only seen 2 ladies, for a combined total of just under 10 visits. Each and every time it has been a long appointment, one that always includes a nice dinner date, which gives us both ample time to relax, and enjoy each other's company. This way by the time we finally retreat to the room, we are both comfortable with one another, are completely relaxed......makes for a wonderful evening. By no means am I an expert, but for me that's my magic formula and what makes it a memorable experience each and every time...........going well beyond just the sex... While in the end it is a business transaction, what makes this more than simply a transaction for sex, is how we spend the time together, the respect we show for each other, and the GENUINE CARING that develops over time, for each other..... Don't believe me ? Read the reviews, and see how many people repeat, and just how much better each session seems to get...... When you ensure that BOTH of your needs have been met.....it is a lot more than just sex......it's a friendship with some delicious benefits....

I remember not too long ago when the only info you had was a newspaper ad with a phone number. Sites like this plus the sp's website is a godsend and should be read thoroughly. The more research you do will benefit both you and the sp and should result in a great time.

I was intrigued when I saw Kayla's pictures advertised on CL a few days ago but was not sure about the accuracy of pictures and her description as 19 year old blue eyed natural blonde but yesterday when I noticed her joining cerb as a new SP I become confident that with these descriptions she must be a hit and boy I was right. We exchanged a few PMs and set the date for this afternoon. She arrived on time. A relatively tall young very slim cute blonde teenager and smiling. We conversed for some minutes and then the real fun started. Kayla is every teenager's dream girl. She is a tall slim natural blue eyed friendly blonde with soft relatively pale skin who enjoys conversing and giving pleasure. This future car mechanics has just graduated from school and is now working part time as escort. She has beautiful soft natural blonde hair and changing blue eyes who loves kissing and hugging. She has beautiful large natural boobs and sexy bum too. Her kitty is very pink, soft, moist and tasty. Her face is so cute that I kept on kissing her cheeks and chin most of the time. I also kept on kissing her beautiful very soft blonde hair and even her blue eyes too. She made me feel that I was very desired and make passionate sounds and showed that she is really having a good time (either that or she will have a great career as an actress). She is highly recommended for those who like young natural blue eyed blonde and true spinners with teenage looks. She provides both physical and emotional aspects of GFE. I was planning to also call for beautiful brunette Sacha on CL (a blonde-brunette combo would have been great. Also to maximize the restricted private time I have nowadays as I have to pay huge to take my summer time visitor to a hotel for just a few hours) but Kayla left me so fulfilled, I decided to postpone that call until next week at least. She is relatively new to the biz and a very sweet beautiful young lady. If you have her please treat her softly and with ulmost respect that a young lady deserves. She is here on cerb as Kayla19. I would like to extend my thanks to Kayla for the great time. Kayla's Secret Admirer Edit: I received a PM from a very trusty friend on cerb (whom I fully trust is fully respectful to ladies he sees) this morning that likely indicates that Kayla may be a strong case of YMMV (I did mention YMMV as I do for all my recos). Though I had really good time with her (and my post is based on my own experience with her), but I never ask for bbbj or hj so I wouldn't have known about the quality or dollar quantity of those services with her or any SP. I felt only fair (though very painful as I loved her and my time with her) that I had to add this edit part. The friend acknowledged the fact that she is very pretty on plus side. Latest: On another (plus) note, Kayla has offered a free hour to make up for the past (not great) date with the cerb friend. It is understandable to large extend. We (hobbyists, SPs alike) are all humans not robots. We have changing moods and feelings and as we all have good and bad days at work and so do the SPs but only the ones with full integrity (I am sure most if not all cerb SPs) and sense of responsibility and fairness like Kayla would offer to make it up to their clients with a free date when for any reason they can't perform to their best during a date.

I have noticed a recent comment or two referring to hobbying as paying for sex. I beg to differ and this is my personal view. To me hobbying is NOT paying for sex and I do not get upset by it at all and these are my reasons: I invite a lady to my home as a guest(or she invites us to hers for those who do incalls) and I pay for lady's time and companionship only. By all means she is a guest in my house (or we are a guests in hers, if incalls) and is treated like one (and many like myself do their best to ensure they feel like guests). What happens after is between two consenting adults. They do not have to do what they wish not to. And they can leave if they wish too. In many cases when I invite nude dancers there is no FS. In most cases the visiting lady has equally good time (I can tell by her wet ......and hot body and flushed face lol) and thank us for the great time she has had. It is a date (RendezVous) not pay for sex. The only difference is that I use cerb (or internet) to find my date instead of going to a dance bar or night club and I donate for her time and kindness with material value in an envelop rather than dinner or jewelry or ring, etc. The reason for hobbying in my case is the "Variety" factor. I love variety. It is possible to do this in certain cities like Montreal (where I lived for 6 years before moving to Ottawa) by going to a night club or dance bar or at the university social events and every Saturday night (with a good chance) to come out with a different lady. I used to do this myself for 6 years (besides as student I didn"t have money to hobby). This is not possible in a relatively small city like Ottawa. Therefore if I want to do what I enjoy most (playing the "variety" game), then I have to hobby (or go back to Montreal where likely I won't have a job). I consider visiting ladies as guests and I hope that they are equally feel like being a guest and having a real good time. How many of you would agree that we should enjoy our time and be happy and how many would disagree that in fact hobbying is indeed paying for sex or we should be upset about it? Am I too optimistic living in a fictitious imaginary world of my own, or at least some of you would share my view?. Views from lady providers are specially welcomed. I do hope that this post does not offend anyone, otherwise I would have to request the mod for its removal. PS - This post is not in any way with reference to any individual or individuals and only expresses my personal views on hobbying.

Boy , l'm glad you spoke up , because that's what was thinking !!:ablow: