Vanessa, when you say this: "how ever I am puzzled regarding all of the the unprotected activities people are willing to take part in ..so my question is this (to the SP's)....do these "no restrictions" policies apply to whomever you meet with????", it does sound like your judging a bit... But that's ok. ;)
I have of course some restrictions but only a few. I'm not comfortable discussing publicly what they are but I still can answer some of your questions.
First of all, just a little clarification: it would be nice if people stop assuming that SPs who are more "liberal" only care about making good business. Some of us want to enjoy ourselves sexually as much as possible and that's why we share some specific intimate acts with the men we meet. For example, I really like kissing and that's the main reason why I offer it.
I voluntarily meet only a few men weekly so the "volume" is not an issue for me. Would I be so open if I was seeing several men a day? Probably not.
Do I offer the exact same type of service to every men I meet? No, I don't. I'm hoping the people I select are smart enough to understand that chemistry and personal hygiene plays an important part in how I will interact with them. Don't get me wrong, I always do my best to please whoever I spend time with. But that "best" is influenced by the context of the encounter and it's only natural that the more we hit it off, the more giving I will be.
I never had a situation where my partner told me they were upset because I did not do this or do that. I never even sensed it. If the day comes when someone tells me they don't accept my personal limits, I will have to explain to them that eventhough I'm an escort, I'm first and foremost a human being.