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"Why would I give other girls references for clients? Why would I trust girls I never met to send only good cleints my way? " Wow i completly miss that part..:aggressif025: Why would you give other girls reference?Well there is ladies i do not like in this industry and i will still provide reference as this is the least i can do to the client i have met..That has been nice with me..is to give him a good reference so he can see the lady he has choose to see. It seem by your reactions that you are scare to loose clients by giving references We do not own any clients and the reason they are pooning is the liberty to see who they wish to see without any pressure or drama coming from an other woman. Why would you trust a lady you have never seen to send clients your way? Technicly i won't be sending it "your way" As if you contact me for a reference is that they already find you by his own... So why would you trust a lady you never met...Because in general ladies have the same interest in common...Avoiding waste of time,bad people,Bylaw I personally do no wish to an other escort to have guys wasting her time,or not paying her In a community we share informations in order to progress,improve,help You never know when you might need help of an other lady...Life sometime ironicly made. You would be surprise by networking with others ladies(some of them we become friends) that i have avoid guys that have been doing the same shit to 1-2-3 girls and been able to get away with it because they don't communicate fearing competition. VJ

... a shower is the best place to get clean... the tub is a really good place to get dirty....

nope not crazy at all...that is provided you dont just sit and stare blanky, lol.....good conversation and a little flirty fun is always great...kinda like a first date with lots of sexual tension ;)

Good morning all! Just thought I'd let people know about a new social group I started... the Itty Bitty Titty Committee... I used to think I was alone in my obsession with teeny tiny titties, but with over 40 new members in one day, I guess I was wrong! so come join if you love 'em too. OA p.s. before i get flamed... I love all shapes and sizes... big beautiful women, spinners, and everything in between - beauty is multi-dimensional.

Hmmm... what do I find attractive in the opposite sex? First and foremost the discernible absence of a penis. Other than that? Self confidence. The sexiest women in the world know who "they" are. They are real. Comfortable in their own skin. Aware of their shortcomings but don't give a damn. If they are hungry, they will eat a steak and then order dessert without guilt. They aren't afraid to frighten men with their intelligence. They aren't afraid to tell a dirty joke and get a laugh. They are who they are because that is what they want to be. Nothing more, nothing less.... and dead sexy. Ummmm... oh yeah. Boobs.

First off, your thoughts towards how other ladies conduct their business really stinks. Why are you so negative towards the rest of us? Considering that this is an industry where you really cannot afford to have enemies and we should all be helping one another to stay safe. If you don't like how some ladies conduct their business please keep it to yourself. It is my choice to screen and verify who I visit with as it is yours to book by phone. If someone does not have a reference, they can be screened in other ways. so if they are new to the hobby they can still plan a visit. The logic behind it is to keep you safe plain and simple. If you want to allow anyone in your personal space go right on ahead, I won't knock you for it nor will I tell you how to run your business. Would you not feel better knowing that because you took 5 mins to check a reference that you could have prevented a bad date from happening? Why would another lady ask you to vouch for a client, for the same reason her safety. I do not know where your negative thoughts on other "why would I trust another lady to send me a good client" I am not sending you a client I am vouching for his character. Not all ladies are vendictive and mean. References and verification are starting to become the norm.

May i ask where you advertising before cerb as reference is not new to Calgary and i would say that at least 50% of ladies require it.I can only assume that you were working for an agencies that didn't have BYlaws as a concern. I don't understand where you don't see the logic of reference check?Do you care to enlight me? I think that newbie should be aware of the many reasons why sps ask for reference or other form of verifications first to the misbelieve of many..It is not legalize... And hosting an incall is illegal Second each province have their own regulations when it comes to escorts on Alberta it is strongly reinforce to have a escort license(only good for outcall) Other provinces like Manitoba,Nova scotia do have a bylaw that is concern about escorts..There where bust happen Second reason why a lady would like a reference...It is to know if you are indeed a reliable person,not dangerous,not shorting ladies An other reason of reference is to see if you are indeed compatible I welcome newbie without reference but will verify them in an other way. I don't judge the girls that don't bother to ask reference but i personnally do not wish to expose myself to face the laws,neither than been rip off or assault. I also became selective of who accept reference from as some ladies pretty much take any requests randomly and don't even know who they have seen or not . In the area where i require references i can attest that the number of ncns i have is minimum to none I start in the USA where verifying gents is the norm and when i start working in Canada i remember how for some it was completly news for them to have to provide any sort of informations...Over the time it has become more the norm as more escorts,populations has grow are now working and travelling and aware that even though canada is more open that there is still risks involve VJ

What do you find attractive in the opposite sex? It is hard for me to narrow it down loving all that embodies The Man. I would have to say I love their "maleness" as compared to my "femaleness" .... the very idea that they are opposite to me....plus they have a penis. :icon_surprised:

Although the OP did not a actually ask a question in his post, it can be assumed that he is indeed looking for information on how to go about getting a reference from a SP. One thing I did note that could potentially be a concern is the personal information that OP provides to the SP that he wants to see. Of course, 99.8% of the ladies on CERB are upstanding and there is no reason to have concerns about their integrity. There is however, a small percentage of ladies that could possibly use some personal information that the OP may divulge to harm him in some way should the relationship turn bad. Be very careful about any identifying and personal information that you may provide. Although this is a very small concern, I feel that it is something that should be pointed out to anyone that may be new and not be aware of what could possibly happen. The following I have taken from another post that I made in another similar thread and modified it to suit the OP's question. As a new member with no references and very few postings, it can be difficult to see the occasional SP if they request one. When I started a few years ago, I was in exactly the same situation. I read the boards thoroughly for about 3 months to absorb all the information and techniques for how to approach this hobby. Although you don't need to read for that long, I would suggest reading quite a lot in the beginning, especially the newbies section, the sticky's and learn all that you can, it will pay off in spades down the road. After you have a good feel how CERB works and have a good feel for things, find a good quality lady to see that does not require a reference, I suggest one that has good recommendations here, you are attracted to and meets any other requirements you have. Note any requirements she has for contact, meeting, donations, etc. and follow them. Be polite when you contact her, be very clear in what you are looking for and understand what she is offering in a session. When you have found the girl you want, book a session, make sure you are very well groomed, dressed nicely, polite and friendly when you meet. Arrive a few minutes early if you are going to see her, and follow her rules (phone or text when you are near, etc) for contact, be very discrete if you are seeing her at her hotel or incall. When you get to her door, knock quietly and wait, it will seem like a long time, but it is not, lol. When the door opens, she will likely be behind it and poke her head out....smile and quietly say, "hi", and in you go. After the session, if you had a great time, take a few minutes and post a recommendation on CERB of your experience. The next thing you should do is contribute to the board whenever you can with accurate and positive information. Become a regular contributor, the girls will read and note your posts and your recommendation will be noted in memory of future girls that you see. Build a good, solid reputation as a great guy for the ladies to see and as a good contributor to CERB. If you do the above, you will be able to use many of the girls that you have seen for a reference. Before using a lady as a reference, make sure you ask them and have their approval. You may want to BCC the lady that is the reference the information that you send to the lady seeking the reference so that she is fully aware of what you have sent. This could prevent some possible miscommunication between the ladies in question. If you do the above, it will take you a long way to seeing the ladies that request a reference and you will be able to provide one with ease and confidence. After some time, your reputation may precede you and in some cases you may not be asked for a reference even though the lady states that she needs one. I hope the above may help you in your endeavour to see some of these fine ladies. namssa

Started this wonderful hobby this year, so I know the catch 22. Begin by seeing a lady who doesn't need a reference. There are ladies that don't require one. When you see the lady, be a gentleman, and have good hygiene. Good hygiene, self explanatory. As for gentleman, respect her boundries, be courtious, pay up front...in short be nice and respectful. Also, prior to the meeting, ask her if there is anything you should know, helps with the boundries. No blocked numbers Good luck Have fun