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Unfortunately there are still racist people out there. I for one have been told I am too "ethnic" or when I have had an add in the paper, upon asking if I am white and I reply no, have been hung up on or a hasty "ok thanks" click. I'm not knocking people who prefer Caucasian ladies, but they don't have to be rude to me. As far as it "being all in your head" being treated different as a minority, it's not.Unfortunately some people are still stuck in 1950 lol. The fact is, some people are still very close minded and still believe us beige/brown/red/yellow/black people are inferior to them.However, the best advice I got on this issue was from one of my professors in school a few years back. She said" You have to accept your skin is a different colour, and some people, no matter how nice, smart, funny or kind you are to them will never get past the fact you look different. You can't please everyone. So make yourself happy in knowing you're a wonderful person." That always stuck with me. I am mixed race, and I am from a place where it's VERY interracial. I judge people on how they treat me not the colour of their skin or circumstances.I don't care if you're plaid, as long as you're good to me I'll return the favour :) Even though I have had bad treatment in my life, i know that it is their issue because they close minded, and I am a beautiful person and it's their loss not mine. There's alot of wonderful people in this world who care for me and see my differences as an asset, not a reliability or a fault. So to answer your question, yes my views have changed since I entered this wonderful world, I never knew people could be so judgemental and cruel based on my skin and the way I look, but then on the other side of the coin I have never met so many wonderful people who are fascinated by our cultural differences and treat me like a rare exotic gem they are entranced by. It feels so good to be me!!!

This morning while I drink my coffee and read the boards here, I?m struck by how many complaints we have about the guys who take advantage of some aspect of our services and then treat us badly. There are active discussions about men who: Try to negotiate or bargain clearly-stated non-negotiable fees Try to pay less than the agreed fee after they arrive Try to get services that were not agreed on before the date Complain about our screening questions Don?t bother to take a shower, brush their teeth or trim their nails before seeing us Assume that we're likely to rob them Threaten to write bad reviews and/or aren?t believed when they write good ones Insult us, our need for safety and even our looks when we don?t give in to what they demand No one is forced to read our ads and websites, look at our photos, contact us, discuss our services with us, or meet with us. It?s all voluntary and initiated by the client. The client has needs, feelings, preferences and curiosity, but why do so many refuse to take responsibility for themselves? What they express as anger, self-righteous indignation and personal entitlement is really projected self-hatred. I want to sit these men down and say: If you don?t want to see a paid companion, don?t do it. If you decide to seek out a companion, that's your decision. What you want is not what everyone else may want. That?s usually a wonderful thing. Recognize that we?re not like cheap candy that you can buy daily. We?re more like fine dining to be enjoyed occasionally. Plan accordingly. If someone?s prices are too high for you, either wait until you can afford her, or find someone else. Meanwhile, don't blame her for your lack of funds. Recognize that she charges what the market will bear. That means that there are plenty of others who can afford to see her. Always be polite and considerate. No matter what. Even if you feel confused, disappointed or insulted, be polite. Remember that companions are human beings, just like you. We have needs, desires, dreams and things we?re worried about or afraid of, just as you do. We will protect both your health and our own. Fair is fair. If you're worried about your safety, know that she's concerned about her safety, too. No matter who or how important you are or think you are, the one who is taking the most risks is always the companion. Always. Relax.

On the contrary, it is really not intimating at all, in fact it so erotic joining 2 women that enjoy making love to each other is so freaking hot. I remember my one of my very first one years back, the 2 ladies were indulging so much into each other, I just stood up from the bed with raging hard on and watch them and stroked myself as I was in awe. Then of course they took me by hand and lead me back on the bed to participate with them more ;) There is nothing like 3 way kissing and then the 2 ladies, working their way down your body, pure heaven and pure excitement. Having known ladies that a) Advertise as duo partners, and have been doing it for a while is my avenue to take.Or if they just discovered each other and are offering duo's I would also take that wonderful plunge. I do believe I might have the odd duo recommendations in my stats ;) But!!! I have been in a couple duo's where the ladies first met, and it was like they were lovers for quite sometime. Either way, if the gent is interested and the ladies are providing, by all means, you should really try it "Its yours to discover" :)

Congrats my friend!!!!!!! Now you can move out of OJ's basement!!!

I have been to some independant MP's that have not had very clean showers and this included some who were using their own living space to operate their business and they wondered why I never returned. I do agree with comments as far as keeping the City out of it, but sooner or later they will get more involved and you know that arrangements regarding washrooms and showers will come into play with the licencing requirements. And some of the cleanest places that I have experienced were not licenced and were run but as "business" and some were "independent" I would rather deal with an independent who is discrete and maintains a clean enviroment with a clean shower and fresh towels, thats important to me. Rodehard

I know I am not a guy but....as often as possible is my vote :)

Carrie Moon.. thread over ;)