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tongue firmly in cheek... why the over 35 crowd gets the girl.... 1. Multiple shots on goal means a three day booking 2. We are extraordinarily grateful that someone will even stay in the same room as us when we are naked. 3. Nap time is on the clock. 4. Cuddle time may just be the best we can do. 5. Less likely to stalk, we barely even remember where we live. 6. While we remember to bring the envelope, we might not remember why we came. 7. We can help with history assignments in post secondary courses. We were there when it all happened. 8. Arthritis prevents us from being too grabby.

Thank you for those links, SA. One is for an Iranian news site, another is for an anti-decriminalization blog, and the third is for an article in Maclean's magazine that notes that "some" estimate the amount of prostitution in Sweden plummeted 90%, though it gives no sources. I reckon that if the Swedish government says both that it has no idea how many street prostitutes there were, or are, and that it also believes street prostitution dropped by 30-50%, higher estimates have even less validity since the Swedish government considers a 30-50% drop to be a sign of success for their laws. Whether there will be new legislation and what such legislation may contain is, at this point, conjecture. I do notice that Libby Davies, NDP MP for Vancouver East and deputy Opposition leader, is in favour of decriminalizing prostitution. Her riding includes Vancouver's Downtown Eastside. What she has to say is indicative of the position the Opposition would take on legislative changes. Public debate is helpful, but when the issue is full of stigma, it's difficult to have an open debate. I, for one, will write about issues related to prostitution, but because I have children who would be unfairly affected, I don't feel it would be responsible of me to speak out in public about prostitution and my views based on my experience as a paid companion. Many other companions are in similar situations. I'm grateful to those who are more free to take a public stance. It would be wonderful if the police, lawyers, judges and Members of Parliament who are our clients would speak out about their experiences and support decriminalization, but I am under no illusions that this will happen before the anticipated freezing-over of Hell. Even "ordinary" men are not likely to make clear public statements supporting prostitutes' rights and safety. One of the bitter aspects of the debate is that so much depends on self-interest. While we are all concerned about women in the sex trade, safety is a genuine day-to-day issue for all sex workers--whether working indoors or outside. For our clients, unfortunately, our safety is generally less important than their desire not to be stigmatized as customers of prostitutes. Enormous integrity and strength of character are required of those who publicly advocate change that flies in the face of conventional morality. Sadly, too few will attempt to pass the character test.

I have been watching this lady's ad for last couple of months but was waiting for a recomendation before seeing her, this afternoon while looking at her stunning pics I decided to toftt and I am glad I did. Guys, she is a hidden Gem, when I saw her I couldn't believe my eyes, she looks like a fashion model. Anyway the whole appointment process went very smooth, she greeted me with a lovely smile and a kiss, initially I was nervous but she put me at ease with her friendly attitude, I will not go into graphic details of the encounter cause it is not my style but I can say I would give her 10 out of 10 for both beauty and attitude. She is a great kisser and a very responsive partner. One hour later I was a very happy guy and was giving her advise to register on cerb. After coming home I found out that she just registered under the name Sweet Sara. Guys welcome this hidden gem and check her out you will thank me for this rec.

Ariel, a hot auburn-haired beauty with a perfect body Scarlett, dream-girl redhead with the best smile on the planet. Cato, surrounded by the awesome beauty of two of his favourite girls. A dream duo. I have never had a duo in a strip club before. It was a really heightened experience of erotic art. Here's what happened. The CR is pretty empty, and we get set up in the duo corner. Ariel initially takes the lead, and begins a sensuous lapdance, or thigh dance, as Scarlett nuzzles me, and then the heat of the two dancers merges as they begin to fondle each other. So hot to watch and touch and feel this, and to be in the midst of this interaction. My companions genuinely like and admire each other, and the mutual play is incredibly arousing. The roles change and evolve as Scarlett assumes control, and I shift my attention from one to the other to both. Four perfect breasts close to my face, tight abs to stroke, firm bums to hold, the strong and beautiful legs, the hair and the faces brushing against me, the eroticism and pleasure they unleash. I love this, I love these women and what they are doing, I am right here in the centre of it all but floating in space. Powerful fantasy, the thought of all I would love to be doing floods over me, but I'm rooted here, lost in what's happening. Dream and reality weaving together. Pure beauty. Pure delight. Within the perfectly clear boundaries of the CR, the intensity of the experience is almost beyond compare.

Well I am an older type. I can honestly say I don't have a huge penis or am particularly handsome......in a certain light (dark) I am fairly palatable. I suppose being older has some advantages (can't think of one off the top of my head). I'm patient and fun and don't have the capabilities to pound away for an hour. I look for smart women as there will be ample time for chatting...lol. I often joke that it will really be sort of like an hour off. Peace MG

Castle, Austrian Death Machine rules! I hardly know anyone that's heard of it. You have great taste in music :) Tratelle, The Vader dance just made my day, thanks! And back on topic, Denis Leary - Life's Gonna Suck

I admire your optimism SA. It's good that some people still have enough faith in the decency of politicians to believe that they will follow the will of the people. And, I'm not being sarcastic here. As a cynical bastard often rewarded with examples of how dirty and deaf our leaders have become, it's refreshing to see optimists who still think things can change. Slim, massive. Whatever. When the ruling party has 63 more seats than the official opposition, I call that fairly strong. You're assuming that all opposition parties would vote against Joy Smith's bill. That's a dangerous assumption, and unlikely. Even so, you would need 25 Cons to turn coat, and if anything we have seen how Harper controls his people. They vote the way HE wants them to, not their conscience. Just ask Garth Turner how well going against Harper's wishes works out for Conservative MPs. Faith in the judicial system? Have you seen what the Ottawa police are getting in trouble for recently? Our judicial system has a pretty shady history too, don't fool yourself. People are led by what leaders want them to think. I'd like to believe that collective reason wins out, but there are too many cases where this is shown to be false. Case in point: the majority of Canadians think that crime is on the rise and penalties are too lenient, despite years of data showing the opposite. Hence Harper's jails. Other case in point: this moral majority you speak of who want prostitution decriminalized certainly didn't rise up and keep the gov't from mounting an appeal to Himel, did it? If so many Canadians are against the status quo, that appeal should never have happened. How do you figure anything different would happen in the Joy Smith scenario?

When I was an educator and telling kids about "life long learning', or when I was in workshops and seminars where I was on the receiving end of that message, never in my wildest dreams did I believe that one aspect of my life long learning would be in the area of sex workers and language development. Slut. Whore. Prostitute. Queer. Words. The first time that I received a communication here from a lady who used some of those words to define herself, I was in a state of confusion. "But she seems like such a nice person", I thought to myself. I was rather quick to write back, questioning her on the choice of words, explaining that for me, they all came with negative connotations, thoughts and attitudes. Did she not demean herself by using them? And thus, another aspect of my education had begun. She was quick to respond, and took time to try to explain how those words are being 'reclaimed', and that she and others have adopted them again with pride. I know that in the spring of this year was the first that I heard of slut walks in various cities around the country, and even at that time I wondered, but those events had already started me along the path of accepting that some women WERE redefining language, and doing it positively and emphatically. Reality however cannot be ignored. Lifelong learning is a concept, but a life time of having LEARNED something is a very very difficult thing to overturn, or at least to overturn quickly. How many generations has it taken to achieve equality between races, and no, we are not there yet either. I am trying desperately to reconcile. I know with certainty that my thinking has changed 100% in regards to a woman using those terms towards herself. I understand why, and I understand and respect them for doing so. And I think to myself, "Good for you. Be who and what you are." We live in a society, and some of us have lived in it longer than others. I have a sense that many of the men here on CERB are 'older" while many of the women are a lot younger and therefore of a different generation. Even with what I have learned to this point, I honestly in my heart would find it virtually impossible to refer to a woman as a slut. It is ingrained. It has been forever. And the curious thing is that no one ever specifically taught me that. It just seems that it was, and is, disrespectful for me, who likes to think of himself as a gentleman, a respectful person, to address someone with that language, and yes, there is even a 'tone' associated with it in my head. As I said, ingrained. I have seen over and over here in various threads that women enjoy meeting with respectful, polite, gentlemen. Is there a contradiction there, or does the contradiction lie solely with me? I cannot and should not presume to speak for a generation of men, but, I wonder if others are having difficulty 'unlearning'? Respect for others is something that I believe all of us believe in and try to practice. The respect from others for being who you are and what you are and the language that you define yourself by requires a huge jump by perhaps many of us in that 'older generation'. It is a curious phenomenon that right now, I DO respect the choices that people make in terms of language that they apply to themselves, to their choices of living openly as queer, or prostitutes. I respect the choices and I respect the women who choose that for their right to decide and be and act and define themselves as they wish. But yes, and there is a but here, education is key and that education will take more than simply becoming open with who your are and your semantics, or explaining it once. There is a generation such as myself, who have, who truly have the best of intentions to accept and respect the words/terms and language, but we have many years of indoctrination to overcome. It will take time to change the thinking and attitudes of a generation. I am trying. I am there to a large degree. I am not yet ready to call you a slut. So, where am I in reality? A lifelong learner I am.

Any Jessie sightings lately?

Thank you for sending the positive vibes out Cato - right back at you, and the community! :icon_smile: It is great to be a part of "the crew" and all the good things that come with it!

I'm very curious as to why you, JoeBlow, seem to be encouraging extras in the CR at strip clubs? You know this is prohibited, you know the girl could get in trouble if she is caught, and you know that if you really wanted your dick sucked, you could simply go to an escort. But for some reason, since I have moved here(to Canada), I have witnessed Strip Clubs being no more that under-exaggerated Brothels. Don't mean to hijack your thread, but it seems to me that there is a lot more to risk and in the end benefits only the gent and screws the lady over. Because as I see it, no girl starts as a stripper thinking she's gonna be sucking dick for $40 in the CR when all she really thought it would be was dancing naked. The entire reason girls end up doing extras at clubs is because they feel pressure to do so. They think "well if others girls do that to make money, I better keep up or I'll go home with nothing!" Maybe I'm too sensitive, but I don't see bragging about illegal activities is really all that cool. And the girl in your story had it right on.

This thread is sort of in response to some of the reactions on the Amy Winehouse thread and is also inspired by recent conversations I have been having with my wonderful friends in my personal life. I would like to bring to everyone's attention that when issues such drug-addiction/sex working/ racism etc. etc. are brought up, these things are a matter of life and death for some people. Thus, it's really important to not only be gentle with our words, but also with our thoughts when commenting on them. I personally believe that most people are not maliciously trying to stir up shit when they say things like "she was JUST a junkie", but rather this kind of thinking can be coming from several places: ignorance, a societally perpetuated idea, or past experiences where loved ones who've gone through things like drug-addiction have ended up hurting those they love in the long-run. Nevertheless, it is still important to always assume that people in your audience are going to be deeply affected by these things (either through their own experiences with them or through experiences of loved ones) and thus saying things that demonstrate your anti-drug user/anti-mental health mentality (or whatever the issue may be) will end up deeply wounding many of the people who come across it. I am not of the belief that everyone should be absolutely free to express all opinions (but we'll save that for a later conversation), but if you choose to do so, be mindful of the fact that some people's hearts are at stake. A good example for me is when I hear about a woman who's credibility is challenged for sex working in court cases where she is accusing her husband of abuse. In my eyes, this could very well be me. And so news like this can be quite hard to handle because of the immense injustice I perceive to be happening. Additionally, when people are backing up what is going on, its even more painful to have to defend something you perceive (and feel in your heart and gut) is so blatantly wrong. Maybe I'm just having an emotional night but I thought I'd share anyway. With love and in struggle, Sky