Love2Cum
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They have asked me to be their subbie but after they told me what it involves i declined. The though of pain really doesn't turn me on.There's a lot of misconception out there about bondage and BDSM. Only the SM part of BDSM implies that there is pain involved. The BD part is not about pain and many (most?) BD participants that are not into the SM part generally try to avoid pain. It's actually about pleasure.
Getting someone incapacitated so you can tease them and play with them such that they have no recourse is fun and often the person tied up has as much or more pleasure that the person doing the tying... well, at least direct sexual pleasure anyway ;). If you have someone incapacitated you can bring them to the edge and then back off and repeat and they have to 'endure' that (yeah, a real sacrifice!) until you're ready to let them explode.
Often people mix in a little bit of discomfort to heighten the pleasure. Things like light slaping (probably lighter than some people do in doggy) or pinching of the nipples can add to the sensations, but everyone has different preferences.
I can 'go both ways' (be a switch) and enjoy myself and really enjoy either but you need to talk to your partner in depth about what to do and not and make sure you take appropriate safetly percautions with safe words and such so you can both relax and really get into it.
There's a really good book ('Bondage for Sex') by Chanta Rose (who's a pretty well known switch if you are browsing the fetish websites) full of illustrations showing different positions you can tie someone in that are comfortable for the person restrained and provide good access for various fun toys and activities.
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Most BSDM ads and doms are strictly no sex. It's actually quite challenging to find a mistress/dom that does offer full service. There are some I've found but it's not many.
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One thing that is very rarely offered is some bondage service. I've often wanted to find an SP that would be into some light/medium bondage (as in her in bondage) but I always figured that required too much trust and probably would be a least a 3rd-4th visit kind-of thing at best. Is that something most SPs would probably not be up for since it's dangerous for them? What about having another girl present to observe and for safety if that would help ease an SP's mind.
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i've already sent them emails, another word of advice about that less popular board. Don't bother with it, it's a joke.Yeah, I peruse it occasionally for kicks =).
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She has been posting today on another far less popular ottawa escort review site. I have now noted on those posts the discrepancy.
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I tried it and I've never looked backI second that!
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I've always been a Mariah Carey fan but it's been a while since I recall seeing her on those lists. Jennifer Love Hewitt is one of the hottest girls ever and Elisa Cuthbert is I had to pick a blonde. Pretty good list.
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Around 30. It depends. If the first one is quick, then I can probably go again fine as long as the SP is into it. If you have a bored SP then it's a turn off so no go. If the first one isn't until 45min in, then probably no.
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I can't believe no one noticed that (myself included) before. Pretty silly to use a celeb photo! =)
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Well then, Bossamy the better for me too.
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I guess I'll have to get my post count up =).
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Out of curiously, what is 'Bossamy'?
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Thanks Emma. I have discovered that 'South Bay' is the area to look under there and SPs seem to travel around that area so it much not be too far to get around. Lovings dot com has a bunch of listings too.
Too bad there's not a cerb/ottawa equivalent for everywhere =).
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yeah, but you'll notice there's only 3 listed there for San Jose. When you visit those 'directories' you get a lot of San Fran, San Diego, LA but not much for San Jose.
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Not really an ottawa question but maybe it can be moved if there is a more appropriate place.
I'm traveling to the US (San Jose) soon and was wondering if anyone had any recommendation for there or even where to look for them. I've searched around a bit but it seems far harder to find agencys or local listings for San Jose than for Ottawa/TO/Montreal. Does anyone have any pointers for places to look? I'm not familiar with the area so not sure if there is a different city I should look under. San Fran seems too far away for a girl to travel (or me to travel for a night).
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I agree that the video chat would be useful for communicating with an SP prior to making an appointment but only useful to me if SPs are using it. Sounds expensive to install so I definitely think seeing how the text chat goes first would be prudent.
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I did a search and found one recent thread where this agency was mentioned but I thought since it was buried in the thread I'd post a message that might be more visible.
Does anyone have any experience with this agency?
(just put the name of it + .com in your browser)
The girls really look hot but I can't recall it being mentioned here.
(which may mean no news is bad news but I figured I'd ask and see anyway)
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I haven't seen many girls in the city yet but Monique's ass was fantastic when I saw her some months ago.
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If you look on CL for Amy in Montreal, she visits Ottawa once a month or so along with Lucky. Amy will do a facial for you. I've never been with her but Lucky runs her agency and I've been with Lucky and chatted for a while about her girls. If you email or all them they'll let you know when they're back in town.
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I just got back from seeing Lucky. I've seen her ads on CL for Montreal and thought she looked hot so when I saw she would be in Ottawa this weekend I decided I had to TOFTT. I was not disappointed.
Lucky's actually running her own agency out of Montreal (Lucky's Aces) but said she'll be in Ottawa and bringing a girl with her once a month to see how this market works out.
Lucky was as hot as her pictures look on CL. She greeted me warmly at the door to her hotel room and after taking care of some strawberries I had brought (I needed a late night snack) we go down to it.
Lucky offers safe GFE with some options and no open-mouth kissing. For just under $$ (I chose no options) she started with a CBJ (BBBJ an option for 2 greens, Greek for 4 greens) and it was really good. I'm generally a quick to be done guy so I stopped her and enjoyed her body with my mouth for a while. I love DATY and digits so I had fun with that before some nice mish (she is tight!) to finish.
We then chatted for a half hour or so and she was awesome to chat with. I'm a big fan of people starting their own business in life in general so I was pleased to hear she had started her own agency. She wasn't a fan of merb but I told her us cerb folk were much better and that she should check out the community so hopefully she'll join as an SP and get acquainted with everybody.
Looks/Body (9/10) - She was really hot. Nice man-made boobs and soft skin. The pics on CL of her in the white outfit are accurate.
Attitude (10/10) - Great to chat with and I really enjoyed our 'cool down' chat.
Services (10/10) - She provided as advertised so can't complain. I generally prefer kissing but I knew going in that was a no go so can't knock her for that.
Hygiene (10/10) - Very clean.
She gave me an email address to post here for you guys. She'll have a website soon and hopefully will join the board here.
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Has anyone seen Emmanuelle in Ottawa? I saw her post on another board and was curious (PM me for the link though you might have to register to see it).
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I have seen Amber Moon. She is very sweet, great breasts and body. She and I didn't quite click but I had a really good time anyway and would recommend her.
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dummpy, if you're even close to right on that Lisa Boyle look-alike thought then WOW. Lisa Boyle is one of my all time fav B-movie stars.
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Does anyone know of SPs that take quickie reservations for just an incall BJ (CBJ or BBBJ)? Hard to search for that in the forums as cbj and bj are too short search terms for the search engine to use.
Lack of Escort websites in Ottawa
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I generally agree but flashy websites can be expensive to setup. As long the the important stats on the girls are there and a variety of pics as well as contact info, then that's good enough -- though having their schedules online IS very handy.