FineWineDiva

Why is it that you were only trying to be helpful

and your needing to apologizes .

I can understand the need for the rules & yes it needed.

But,I don't see the need for you to apologies , it wasn't intentional .

a simple mistake .

l'm wondering if he brought his laptop over.

. it would still look the same was .

linking off your internet

Yes , I have to agree with masterowls

Your care givers have needs and want to !

I have several clients with disabilities .

There's must be one there of your

caregivers that are open-minded

enough to understand , that you have befriended .

That's willing to help I don't think this would be the first time

they help someone in this situation .

There NOTHING to be embarrassed about , your human with hormones .

One last thing Enjoy!!!

and don't any thing hold you back !!

Al,

I am in your exact predicament. I am 40 years old, and was.born disabled. It sounds like your disability is fairly recent. Unfortunately, as far as privacy issues around masturbation, if you want to do it you're probably going to have to accept the fact that your staff have to help you. In my experience, most caregivers, as long as you don't ask them to actually perform the stimulation don't mind helping you get set up. As far as a mess in the morning, I have you considered a supply of blue incontinence pads? They are cheap, and disposable. Just lay one on top of the sheets, masturbate, and then throw the evidence in the trash in the morning, by which time the pad will have absorbed said evidence anyway. Please remember, that masturbation is a perfectly normal and natural desire, and I bet that 90% of your caregivers do it at least once a week, and in your situation would probably want help too.

Anytime me & my breast can help .. he he he

Hugs to u Carrie

A little off the subject

But there a bar near me ,

On Thursdays ALL the waiters wear Kilts (yes the men too):butt:

Its" Keith's" night , and I think it a good reason to go !!

Ohhh , for a "Keith's" Of course

Wait Carrie .. I'll bare with u !!

My bed was shaking here in Mississauga

DAM... no was in it with me

Yes .... You feel on the 24 floor

Okay, I'm coming to your place for supper...for the summer!

Sexy woman.. your welcome here any time !!

Yes I can't wait . I walk out my condo door... l'm there ...

That means I can walk home with a beer in my hand

I think it should be every weekend ..

Then by the end of the summer , we'll be sick of ribs .

Till the next summer

As for the pull pork , I made it tonight for super

I think I can give then a run for there money

Even my kids think mine better

7.5 Too Small for you ??

Emma .. I had the most fun, with you as a duo

then ever before .. Chocolate / jacuzzi /candles

Mixed with u.hmmmmm

Your a classy, sensual ,True lady!!

Any Gentleman that spends time with u

should know how lucky he is!

Best Chocolate tits I ever had !!!

Thanks Babe!!

Damn..why oh why am i missing her...next time she's about let me know in advance...i have a super crush on her..you lucky bastard..haha

 

 

 

Oh Mutau we we have to see her together...:wink: hmmm i am back from Halifax on the 28th..perhaps a quick trip back to Ottawa...hahaha

Do you advertise on Escorts Canada ?

If not perhaps you should ,

Then you get into the SP Only

Sweetie if new to the Business

If they(A client) makes you feel uncomfortable the minute

he walking the door , you ask him to leave !!!

There be another client soon enough

So , sorry this happen to you .

Be Safe !!

I know in Toronto there a a Female officer

That help , ladies like us

Perhaps there's one in Ottawa

Hi Sexy BBW vero,

 

The client in question is in his late 30s early 40s, approx. 5'10", 190lbs, he is well toned, caucassian, short brown hair, brown eyes, clean shaven.

 

At the time of the visit he was wearing a plain white t-shirt and kaki shorts. He wore sandals. Other than this there is no other visible particular traits. (No tattoos, piercings, scars, etc.).

 

His demeanor is very self-assured and his language is rude and demanding. He will be sure to let you know that he doesn't wear condoms. That was his first line when he walked in.

 

I will not, due to the Canadian Privacy Act, reveal his # or license plate number on here. If you would like that information please send me a PM.

 

I will say however that he was driving a late model (2008-2010) 4 door, Ford Escape, blue/gray in color.

 

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I have contacted the MOD and I am told I have to have someone who has met me personally vouch for me before I can have access to the SP only area.

 

Since so far, the only person I know for sure is on CERB that has met me is DJ Frost32 I don't have anyone else on here I know personally and he joined because of me so I know he won't have the privileges to recommend as of yet I'm sure.

 

So until I can have access to the SP only area, I hope we can work as a team on here, and if some of you see the need to post in there as well, please feel free to do it to help protect other providers.

 

If anyone knows of an other way for me to get access let me know.

 

Thank you so much for all your replies.

 

Tulsa xox

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Do you advertise on Escorts Canada ?

If not perhaps you should ,

Then you get into the SP Only

Sweetie if new to the Business

If they(A client) makes you feel uncomfortable the minute

he walking the door , you ask him to leave !!!

There be another client soon enough

So , sorry this happen to you .

Be Safe !!

I know in Toronto there a a Female officer

That help , ladies like us

Perhaps there's one in Ottawa

Hi Sexy BBW vero,

 

The client in question is in his late 30s early 40s, approx. 5'10", 190lbs, he is well toned, caucassian, short brown hair, brown eyes, clean shaven.

 

At the time of the visit he was wearing a plain white t-shirt and kaki shorts. He wore sandals. Other than this there is no other visible particular traits. (No tattoos, piercings, scars, etc.).

 

His demeanor is very self-assured and his language is rude and demanding. He will be sure to let you know that he doesn't wear condoms. That was his first line when he walked in.

 

I will not, due to the Canadian Privacy Act, reveal his # or license plate number on here. If you would like that information please send me a PM.

 

I will say however that he was driving a late model (2008-2010) 4 door, Ford Escape, blue/gray in color.

 

Additional Comments:

 

 

I have contacted the MOD and I am told I have to have someone who has met me personally vouch for me before I can have access to the SP only area.

 

Since so far, the only person I know for sure is on CERB that has met me is DJ Frost32 I don't have anyone else on here I know personally and he joined because of me so I know he won't have the privileges to recommend as of yet I'm sure.

 

So until I can have access to the SP only area, I hope we can work as a team on here, and if some of you see the need to post in there as well, please feel free to do it to help protect other providers.

 

If anyone knows of an other way for me to get access let me know.

 

Thank you so much for all your replies.

 

Tulsa xox

If they do offer to settle out of court,

She should be happy , be done with it!!!

Thanks Riley , keeping us up dated .

Long time since we talked

Call me

Here is a follow up on the case

 

http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/article/824273--woman-who-blames-rogers-for-exposing-affair-says-she-s-not-alone?bn=1

And Carrie your on my list !!!

You look so yummy !!!Hmmmmm

Yup. Erin.. you're on my list of wannabewiths?

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Better yet , Come be the photographer

Or just join in !!

Nice! take some photos for us :cooter:

Yikes won't be there till the next day(in Ottawa)

If you choose no fee load your charged a monthly fee of $15.00

and each time you load your card your not charged.

They also charge to call them $1.50

Ohh they cost $20.00.

Only when you first get them

If your really looking a three some .

Honestly .. tried the same when I was married ,

Not for my self , Husband wish .

It was a disaster !

Perhaps , it's better you see a SP , that see's couples .

Then you both know , what you looking for !

I had A LOT of fun with couple myself !!

Or perhaps ,a swinger club !!

There fun!

Good Luck

Does anybody know if any prepaid credit cards would work to subscribe or buy a membership to adult websites like adultfriendfinder, etc.

 

Thanks.

Go to money mart .. you can get a visa

Surprised of the result?

I am not!

 

Inquiry fails to find single trafficker who forced anybody into prostitution

http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2009/oct/20/government-trafficking-enquiry-fails

The Guardian, 20-10-09

 

The UK's biggest ever investigation of sex trafficking failed to find a single person who had forced anybody into prostitution in spite of hundreds of raids on sex workers in a six-month campaign by government departments, specialist agencies and every police force in the country.

 

The failure has been disclosed by a Guardian investigation which also suggests that the scale of and nature of sex trafficking into the UK has been exaggerated by politicians and media.

Current and former ministers have claimed that thousands of women have been imported into the UK and forced to work as sex slaves, but most of these statements were either based on distortions of quoted sources or fabrications without any source at all.

 

While some prosecutions have been made, the Guardian investigation suggests the number of people who have been brought into the UK and forced against their will into prostitution is much smaller than claimed; and that the problem of trafficking is one of a cluster of factors which expose sex workers to coercion and exploitation.

Acting on the distorted information, the government has produced a bill, now moving through its final parliamentary phase, which itself has provoked an outcry from sex workers who complain that, instead of protecting them, it will expose them to extra danger.

 

When police in July last year announced the results of Operation Pentameter Two, Jacqui Smith, then home secretary, hailed it as "a great success". Its operational head, Tim Brain, said it had seriously disrupted organised crime networks responsible for human trafficking. "The figures show how successful we have been in achieving our goals," he said.

 

Those figures credited Pentameter with "arresting 528 criminals associated with one of the worst crimes threatening our society". But an internal police analysis of Pentameter, obtained by the Guardian after a lengthy legal struggle, paints a very different picture.

 

The analysis, produced by the police Human Trafficking Centre in Sheffield and marked "restricted", suggests there was a striking shortage of sex traffickers to be found in spite of six months of effort by all 55 police forces in England, Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland together with the UK Border Agency, the Serious and Organised Crime Agency, the Foreign Office, the Northern Ireland Office, the Scottish government, the Crown Prosecution Service and various NGOs in what was trumpeted as "the largest ever police crackdown on human trafficking".

The analysis reveals that 10 of the 55 police forces never found anyone to arrest. And 122 of the 528 arrests announced by police never happened: they were wrongly recorded either through honest bureaucratic error or apparent deceit by forces trying to chalk up arrests which they had not made. Among the 406 real arrests, more than half of those arrested (230) were women, and most were never implicated in trafficking at all.

 

Of the 406 real arrests, 153 had been released weeks before the police announced the success of the operation: 106 of them without any charge at all and 47 after being cautioned for minor offences. Most of the remaining 253 were not accused of trafficking: 73 were charged with immigration breaches; 76 were eventually convicted of non-trafficking offences involving drugs, driving or management of a brothel; others died, absconded or disappeared off police records.

 

Although police described the operation as "the culmination of months of planning and intelligence-gathering from all those stakeholders involved", the reality was that, during six months of national effort, they found only 96 people to arrest for trafficking, of whom 67 were charged. Forty-seven of those never made it to court.

Only 22 people were finally prosecuted for trafficking, including two women who had originally been "rescued" as supposed victims. Seven of them were acquitted. The end result was that, after raiding 822 brothels, flats and massage parlours all over the UK, Pentameter finally convicted of trafficking a grand total of only 15 men and women.

 

Police claimed that Pentameter used the international definition of sex trafficking contained in the UN's Palermo protocol, which involves the use of coercion or deceit to transport an unwilling man or woman into prostitution. But, in reality, Pentameter used a very different definition, from the UK's 2003 Sexual Offences Act, which makes it an offence to transport a man or woman into prostitution even if this involves assisting a willing sex worker.

 

Internal police documents reveal that 10 of Pentameter's 15 convictions were of men and women who were jailed on the basis that there was no evidence of their coercing the prostitutes they had worked with. There were just five men who were convicted of importing women and forcing them to work as prostitutes. These genuinely were traffickers, but none of them was detected by Pentameter, although its investigations are still continuing.

 

Two of them ? Zhen Xu and Fei Zhang ? had been in custody since March 2007, a clear seven months before Pentameter started work in October 2007.

 

The other three, Ali Arslan, Edward Facuna and Roman Pacan, were arrested and charged as a result of an operation which began when a female victim went to police in April 2006, well over a year before Pentameter Two began, although the arrests were made while Pentameter was running.

 

The head of the UK Human Trafficking Centre, Grahame Maxwell, who is chief constable of North Yorkshire, acknowledged the importance of the figures: "The facts speak for themselves. I'm not trying to argue with them in any shape or form," he said.

 

He said he had commissioned fresh research from regional intelligence units to try to get a clearer picture of the scale of sex trafficking. "What we're trying to do is to get it gently back to some reality here," he said.

 

"It's not where you go down on every street corner in every street in Britain, and there's a trafficked individual.

 

"There are more people trafficked for labour exploitation than there are for sexual exploitation. We need to redress the balance here. People just seem to grab figures from the air."

 

Groups who work with trafficked women declined to comment on the figures from the Pentameter Two police operation but said that the problem of trafficking was real.

Ruth Breslin, research and development manager for Eaves which runs the Poppy project for victims of trafficking, said: "I don't know the ins and outs of the police operation. It is incredibly difficult to establish prevalence because of the undercover and potentially criminal nature of trafficking and also, we feel, because of the fear that many women have in coming forward."

 

The internal analysis of Pentameter notes that some records could not be found and Brain, who is chief constable of Gloucestershire, argued that some genuine traffickers may have been charged with non-trafficking offences because of the availability of evidence but he conceded that he could point to no case where this had happened.

 

He said the Sexual Offences Act was "not user friendly" although he said he could not recall whether he had pointed this out to government since the end of Pentameter Two.

 

Parliament is in the final stages of passing the policing and crime bill which contains a proposal to clamp down on trafficking by penalising any man who has sex with a woman who is "controlled for gain" even if the man is genuinely ignorant of the control. Although the definition of "controlled" has been tightened, sex workers' groups complain that the clause will encourage women to prove that they are not being controlled by working alone on the streets or in a flat without a maid, thus making them more vulnerable to attack.

 

There are also fears that if the new legislation deters a significant proportion of customers, prostitutes will be pressurised to have sex without condoms in order to bring them back.

How Interesting !!

l'm trying to talk Emma into Bring me down to Halifax .

If ...... so DAM ...

l'm getting :69: just thinking about it

Emma and Finewine Diva together?

The ride to Valhallah would be an extraordinary one for sure.

A man can always dream....:))))

Sorry , but can I Ask what Wanda's is

what do they sell ?

Coming to Ottawa next week

Wanda's offered me 10% off when I told them I'm a dancer.

I love going to Barrie , I'll be sure to tell my clientele

Going up there soon !

To keep looking up CERB ..

Yes we need to be Positive , we need to welcome members .

l'm still very new here , and the rules.

But love it here , One big. helpful. Family

So all of Canadian , looks here !!

Not in a positive way! and not in a way that new members will rush to join in the conversation. Very counterproductive!!

I love to come to Halifax..

The east coast is my favorite part of Canada .

Now you have me thinking ...... I many just come there .

Need to look for a Airfare sale .

Perhaps you should come for a visit. I am sure you would find many new friends in our region...

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Thanks;

hugs!!

sure wish you were too FineWineDiva. Your pic is breath-taking.

This taken from a Homeopathic Treatment

Pulsatilla: Awful itching and lacrimation of eyes which feels better from a cold application. Hay fever especially in the spring or in the heat of the summer and autumn. Everything is worse by being over-heated by the sun, hot foods, heat of the bed, etc. Much worse in the open air. Much better in air conditioning (no exposure to pollens

Or try Polysporin eye drops .

Interesting there some in the air in Ottawa ,

My one eye, was exactly the same when I as there

and it was the left one too ..weird ?lol

Feel better soon !!

Hugs

I have had the worst week with my left eye. I can't stop rubbing it from my allergies and now it's swollen. I am using a small ziploc bag with tap water (not frozen peas as that's way too cold and hurts more) to keep the swelling down.

 

I am using eye drops and today Cat suggested Sinus Buster which I tried.. I screeched and laughed so hard as the red pepper spray (yah you heard me right) went up my nostrils.. but as I'm not really congested or sinusy I guess it didn't help.

 

I'm taking quercitin and eyebright.. and homeopathic remedies.. but other than moving what if anything do others do when the allergy season hits. I take vit C and pantothenic acid.. and I can't tolerate any anti-histamines.

 

Any other bright ideas out there?

I think we should get the same respect when ,

When out in public ..

At the Grocery store Restaurant , where ever .

Wait till the next time you see us in private .

To say hello ,

Because you never know who we're with (parents, neighbors etc. )