Isabella Gia (Banned)

Thank you Lowdark for the nice wishes.I waited until today to post since is officially thanksgiving, now I'm a little late but want to wish everyone here that all the things you are grateful for today stay with you for as long as you want/need them and that those things you feel you are missing come to you soon :).

I also want to second Emily and invite you to send a happy thought to all those that are not as blessed as we are.

Love,

Isabella Gia

Good idea Loralee and T'storm so here I am just posting to keep it circulating, be safe everyone ;)

This is a very nice and thoughtful reminder Loralee' date=' I hope we can keep this circulating around until Thanksgiving is over, but keep this in mind all the time.[/quote']

Hmmm I have to admit not having watched the video as for what I read I may not be strong enough to do so. However, having what T'storm posted as an example, many women can avoid ending there when noticing violent behavior in their then boyfriends before getting any further. Sadly, many choose to go for the 'he will change' and the way their story end is not any pretty.

I was just having a conversation with someone yesterday about how one of my biggest fears based on seeing someone I loved going through that, is being the victim of violence. I really hope none of us here (it doesn't only happen to women) go through something like this but if we ever do let's learn from stories like the ones mentioned , see signs and stay away before is too late.

until is gf pulled down on my arm and said "let him down he is my bf and he didn't mean it".

Agree. That is a very good idea FT. In fact, I was going to do that in one of the threads but thought perhaps it would look a little vain (and for the record it was none of the 'best parts of the body' threads) but there is nothing wrong with we -people in general- appreciating and being proud of as FT called them our assets.

So I think this idea would work for everyone as only the ladies comfortable and willing to be mentioned and have their pictures posted will be on the thread and the gentlemen who agree can comment. I am sure no lady will get no comments as I have mentioned all ladies here have at least someone who considers her the best so I say let's do it :)

I particularly think 'the best' depends on one's perspective & taste. Also, as others have mentioned chemistry as well as YYMV make a huge difference in each encounter, so a lady who is the best to someone may not be another hobbyst's idea of the same and vice-versa.

Also let's not forget each gentleman is looking for different characteristics in a lady (either physical or personality) so that could be another factor to determine 'the best' for someone but does not mean she'll be the best for everyone else.

No rexx you are not there's actually another thread trying to find the reasons for these threads.

Am I the only one who doesn't like it when a bunch of guys from Ottawa or wherever seem to invade these topics?

SA I guess by saying 'or wherever' he means he does not agree with this so he is not complaining about guys from other regions not being invited to post (or at least that's the impression I got.)

The original poster did not limit as who or from what region can respond. And as far as I know there is no rule against responding in another sections. So I responded. Quite frankly at the time I thought it was a thread in the general area (I saw the thread in the latest posts area of the forum).

As for this other comment you made, isn't that what recommendations are for? And again he did not mean feeling excluded from the posting scene.

Btw, it can be very useful when travelling to know who the best escorts are locally(though always subjective). There is no competition or region against region lol. the forum is all about sharing and friendship.

Anyway each of us ladies here are the best for at least someone even if our name is not mentioned ;)

Yes, we should all make this our motto, sadly is not that easy for us humans to learn to respect and understand others, stories like this one are the clear example. Such a shame.

Live and let live. How far away from this simple idea are we still?

 

J

Good question, I think it makes it a compound word so yes, counts as one. Same with gentleman so yes you chose compound words but you mentioned two anyway so in the end you cheated (welcome to the club, I did too hehe)

 

Good-Natured..... does the hyphen make it one word....? :confused:

And since Bucken here made me post I'll cheat again ...

beautiful and I'm not talking about my physical appearance here (not this time j/k ;))

True

The next person just finished having lunch.

Well Steve, too bad you are not in Ottawa. I always have those for my guests, all kinds the dark, white and milk ones ;)

When I start I can not stop eating Lindor Lindt Truffles. I realise that guys usually don't crave chocolate but these are so good!

✿ chocolate covered strawberries

✿ sour keys

✿ raspberries

✿ starburst

from drinks ...

✿ white mocha or caramel iced coffee

✿ bubble tea

False

The next person just woke up

Two words that I have read quite a few times in some threads posted here. However, not too sure how many really apply them. This is far from for a rant, more like an observation.

Since I joined cerb I have been participant of the threads, first reading them and once I felt I had something to comment, well, then I started to reply and when I noticed I was posting my first thread. Same thing with chat and through both of them is that I have noticed and sometimes received discourtesy from some members which is kind of disappointing when I try to be friendly and respectful to others.

The feeling of starting this thread started last night when after being in the chat room for a little while, I realized it was bed time, and just as I was about to close my window, I noticed a question from a new member who seemed a little confused so I decided to invite him to private chat and answer his questions as well as give a few suggestions and point a thread on the topic he was concerned about. Next thing I noticed, he had left chat without even saying good night (a thank you would be to much to ask it seems).

Recently I got a private message from a member saying he would like to meet me and asking if I would be available a certain day/time which I was not so I replied explaining this and telling him what my schedule is normally like, he replied back asking me to please let him know when my next availability would be and that is exactly what I did ... Did I hear back from him? Of course not. Would it be to much to ask for a short note like a 'That does not work for me?'

And like those I could give you few more examples so yes, I'm a bit disappointed and frustrated to see that some people has no manners and/or respect for others. In my case, it makes me feel like trying to help others out is not worth it as is not appreciated. Yes, I know one should not do things expecting something in return but a 'thank you' makes a big difference. I also worry that the more people take this attitude the less others will want to help others out and in this particular case (cerb) that is what keeps it as a friendly community.

At last but not least and something non-cerb related thing. I would like to remind those who show no courtesy towards others that it can get back at them and I'm not saying I'm wishing for it to happen but I know many of the members here (ladies & gentlemen) have children. Please do not forget that no matter how many times you tell them things they watch more than what they listen so teach them good manners and to appreciate people, that will be reflected in their lives as they grow older :)

I may be wrong but I think Lindsay's account is no longer active.

I added the SP Nomination and the general nomination icons today.

 

Can someone give me the links to the profiles for ...

Jenny

Lindsay

 

... please.

 

I can't seam to find them and I dont want to add this to the wrong persons list. I suspect the member names are miss spelled here. (A number of them were)

 

Also anyone nominated should now have the icon... if you were nominated and DO NOT have the icon please let me know.

Aha!! you sneaky Spike ;) I'm glad to see you back it was a very pleasant surprise to read your message. THANKS!!!

xo

Wishing you a much belated Happy Birthday young lady!

 

Warmest regards.

Wow! I am very amazed to see the response and support big thank you to the ones who took the time to reply in here or via PM it really helped a lot and is appreciated.

The minute I clicked 'post thread' first thing that crossed my mind was ... 'and why did I post this? No-one will care' I am so glad to see I was wrong and to see i did the right thing by sharing.

Flyer you are so right. That is what I have been doing since I started the change and yes, it has worked :)

Isabella,

 

be firm yet reasonable......always works for me Trust this helps......

Liquor thanks for the advice. BTW I did that (and that is why I was going crazy by not being able to reach my mom). My grandma was the priority if I brought this up it was not because keeping my dignity was my main concern but because wanted to share how I felt to probably/hopefully stop some of you from making the same mistake.

In my humble opinion, it is never too late to show / demonstrate dignity.

Focus on your Grandmother, let the other slide, show how your priority is your Grandmother, not the other "stuff".

advice from an old guy

Piper this is very true. Although I will demand my mom's respect (for the record I'm talking about this particular situation as she has always shown respect for me) I can't act same way I would do with someone not as important as she is to me. Thank you for making me realize this :)

. In my humble oppinion and knowing how you feel about family you need to separate family problems from life's problems.

As an update, grandma is doing better and I'm very confident that she will make it :) I am truly grateful to the ones that showed interest in her condition.

Kisses,

Isabella Gia

Good afternoon all,

Is not very often that I share a personal experience in here, at least not in a thread I guess that is in an effort to keep my secret identity :cool: however something is really bothering me today and want to share it with you partly looking for advice and another part giving an example of how we can regret some of the choices we make and try to avoid them.

I'm sure many of you have heard many times how going to extremes is not good. Well, I'm trying to fight that bad habit. In my case, for a long time I have been struggling with being too forgiving. I know being resentful is not good but I have had people do some very bad things to me and I forgive pretty easily even without being asked. So lately I have been working in finding the balance between being forgiving but with dignity.

Well, it turns out I had a disagreement with my mother because of some personal stuff that for a while has been in the middle of our relationship. Anyway, yesterday that came up and after hanging up all upset I wrote her an email explaining how I felt and asked her to respond it before calling me, this in order for her to realize she did wrong and hurt me instead of as usual pretending nothing happened. I did not receive the email but did get a phone call last night which I chose not to answer since i was in a bad mood and did not want to get into another argument, BAD CHOICE!

This morning I got some bad news, my grandma is very sick in the hospital which means my mom was calling me to tell me that and I'm pretty sure to tell me how she felt. Needless to say I feel horrible now as I have not been able to reach her. I guess the moral here and what I would like to suggest to all who may eventually be in a similar situation .. 'pick up the phone as we never know what is really going on and may regret not having done it'

Now the question for you is how can I find that in-between not being resentful but at the same time getting respect from others? There's also another side of this story I want to share with you but I already made this thread too long so I will leave that for another time. Thank you to all the ones who actually read it all.

xoxo

Before I give my opinion on what the thread is about I would suggest the ones to differ with Amanda's or anyone else's point of view to start a new thread on that topic, i.e. 'Are SP's with no father presence in their lives as happy and confident as SP's that have/had a father in their childhood?' Then everyone including Amanda can comment on that and this perhaps will avoid the original topic of a thread fading.

Anyway for what I understood Peachy meant expenses that are work-related (investment) If I am correct then I guess some of the ones in this list do not apply IMO

• Rent/Mortgage unless if like Megan you rent a place exclusively for appointments.
  
  
• Food
  
• Utilities
  
• Clothing
  
• Car payments/Loans
  
• Phone(s)
  
• Perhaps a family
  
• Personal Entertainment
  
• and anything else anyone else uses their income for.
  

As for discounts...someone let me know!! :shock:

Now back to the original topic please...

So yes, I think is always good to put effort/money to the business based on your personality and also possibilities. A lady with expenses like a family, school tuition, books, etc or responsibilities like those may not be able to invest same as a single lady that perhaps is done school or does not study currently and has no family. However, as some have mentioned that's why there's services/articles for different budgets and in the end IMO is always good attitude that counts the most.

I in particular take care of myself/looks, eat healthy (which do not consider 100% an expense for this since I have to eat anyway ;)) try to have little treats for the gents that visit me and something that I think has not been mentioned is the cost for hotel room. Probably I'm the one out of topic now as Peachy was talking about expenses for personal maintenance?? Hmmm ... See guys? Changing topics confuses ppl, better stop typing :oops:

And no Johnsutter no donuts ... waffle!!!

GQstyle ... is this

So i say treat & respect them as you would treat any other girl and you may find one that will return the emotional connection and respect that you have extended cause in the end we're all human.

There are ways to pickup strippers without having to pay them.

It would probably be good if you could elaborate your comment a little more to avoid any confusion? I don't know how the ladies here who are dancers feel about this, it would be interesting to read their point of view.

I must say that (unlike escorts) it is not an easy task.

SA perhaps this is because for some reason they chose to be dancers and not escorts? It will of course be an easier task with an escort as she is advertising for that.

Dancers are in the business and they should not feel offended if the question is asked.

Superlift I do not think them 'being in the business' is why they should not be offended but more like the way the client interested approaches them.

Also ... as you mention here I think for both parts the ideal would be if you want something more than activities allowed in a strip-club and do not want to offend anyone, either book some time with the dancer if she is also an SP (following the procedure suggested in her ads) or go visit an escort.

In my experience though, I find that kind of services very costly. I prefer to go directly to a SP or to a dancer that announces that she works also as a SP.

Thank you Steve for starting the thread and a big thanks to the ones that posted, I'm having a great day and there's more fun waiting for me :)

Yes, that is very unconsidered of them. This is the first thing I ask for after greeting them and I have gotten the 'I washed them before coming here'. Yes, but after that you touched door knob, car keys, car handle, the door to get in my location which many other have touched too, etc. A lot of people do not realize how important washing their hands is :(

Guys who don't wash their hands when they come visit me, but then want to finger.

In another topic, mine are real pet peeves lol ....

- When people take their dogs out for a 'walk' and do not scoop/clean after them. Again, people do not quite realize the consequences of this.

- People who take their dogs for walks/runs to or near parks and ignore the 'dogs on leash' signs. To all of them their dogs are very friendly harmless creatures but they don't understand they act out of instinct.

So while I was taking a nice walk I once more found myself reflecting over something in particular. In this occasion it was about how we people constantly make ourselves too busy for doing something we actually enjoy or for sharing a moment with the important people in our lives.

And decided to start this thread with the only purpose of inviting all the ones who read it to use you time wisely and share it with your beloved ones. Life goes by super fast and we can avoid regretting leaving some important things for 'tomorrow'.

Here's a link with some steps to follow for time management http://ezinearticles.com/?Time-Management...7-Tips-to-Use-Your-Time-Wisely-and-Effectively-at-Home-and-at-Work&id=3450850 it may help some of us but I think the key is to really be willing to stop being unavailable for the ones we care about and for ourselves and remember ...

" Time is like a handful of sand, the tighter you grasp it, the faster it runs through your fingers."

Lately food network. I love cooking shows. Also, history channel but soon ... desperate housewives.

I just added the pic as a little treat for the guys here ;)

I second you Angela, very touching story and is great of her to share it with us. You are definitely a strong & brave woman Cat and I also send many blessings to you and your family :)