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  2. Posted

    I have never considered it a fetishist but I have a compulsion to preform oral on a lady... I know... I know who doesn't lol. 

    It blows my mind to see the effect just a tongue, lips and a few well placed fingers can have on a woman. 

    I love to watch and listen to how the lady reacts ... that initial touch of the tongue... the feel of her hand on the back of my head.... the way you feel her body tense up.... her reaction to two well placed fingers that bend and extend....noticing how her breathing changes.... watching for her lower back to arch .... hearing that little gasp of air just before we are both rewarded.

    If that was a whole session I would be happy.

    Just my Opinion

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    This may sound funny but it might be interesting to here from some former active members especially the ladies.   For most this us not a long term career so hearing about transition would be very interesting.  Lessons learned... and I don't just mean things that went bad.

    Might be hard to get into contact with them but people here might still have some contact. I have a few retired ladies who I still exchange messages with from time to time.

    Just an Idea

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  7. Posted

    Well I notice you said "when YOU fall in love" so the question I have is...is it mutual?

    If it's not.... remember you went into this as a business relationship so you don't  have the right to decide it is something different now. 

    If it's mutual then you need to be talking to her and not us.

    Just my Opinion.

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  11. Posted

    I gave a quick short reply 2 days ago but after reading many of the posts here I decided to expand on my answer.

    As I previously said my number 1 criteria is trust and security but in reality that is what I really look for in a first visit but I think the OP was talking about building a client base that stay with you over years.

    Well to establish that returning client there obviously is a need to make that 1st impression. Many of the very successful ladies seem to work very hard at their advertising... sometimes less said the right way is better then too much detail. 

    Professional pictures help (mind you some ladies selfies make you think they are professional pics) as well as a good website. But the actual words used make all the difference to me.... if it makes me feel that the lady is talking to me...I am hooked.  

     

    Certainly it does not hurt to be out of this world beautiful and sexy but the reality of this is that beauty and sexy are very individual things.  When I first started seeing ladies about 40yrs ago I thought that beautiful and sexy was young, tall, thin with an hourglass figure and big boobs.... I have learned that Beautiful and sexy comes in all shapes, sizes and ages.  Over the years I have enjoyed learning that diversity really is a good thing.  

     

    Like others have said in this thread I think this is more about connection then looks or services.  Like most businesses there is always another option for the customer so your competing on service experience or price.  In my experience price competition in this industry is a lose/lose.

    My recommendation focus on the experience and how you can improve the experience... how you can make each customer feel he/she is your only concern.   Make it easy and friendly to book, use upscale locations that are safe and discrete. Keep notes on each customer so you can enhance the connection.   Some will reply that this is a business so don't make it personal but I am talking about good customer service.... if your coffee shop remembers your name and order your more likely to create a loyalty.

    Anyway Just My Opinion.

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  15. Posted

    Covid has certainly affected everyone's life and I would expect that the impacts on people working in this industry was worse then many.  The risk of covid must have driven many clients and providers out of business. It appears to me that the government assistance was not geared to provide the support people needed thus making the lives of individuals working in the industry stressful and challenging.  When I consider these impacts then the minor impacts of covid in my life seem insignificant.  I am retired with a good pension and investments so financially there have been no real impacts.  I live in Newfoundland and frankly we have had very few cases ie a few hundred in total and I think 1 death.  The cases we have had have been linked to people traveling into the province and virtually zero community transmission. Yes we wear our masks and have had some lickdiwns and limits on numbers of people but no real stress about catching Covid.  The biggest impacts I have had is travel restrictions and restaurant reductions in service.  I consider myself extremely lucky and hope the new year gets covid behind us.

    Just my Opinion 

  16. Posted

    Without trust and common sense this very enjoyable service would not exist.  Both parties, the client and the Service Provider, rely on each other to operate with common sense and not stupidly breach their confidentiality or place their security at risk. 

    Releasing confidential information by either party is just unacceptable and anyone who does that should expect repercussions.   

    I think every situation deserves its own consideration.   

    Bottom line if you are a client keep any information you have about the ladies you see as confidential as you would like her to treat your confidentiality.

    Just my Opinion

    PS.... have not been around for a while so just catching up on some posts lol.

  23. Posted

    I certainly get the point of the OP and have never questioned the rate a lady charges for her time.  

    The reality is this is a business so the goal is to provide a reasonable income for the lady after all business costs have been covered.   The hourly rate is a professional service rate no different then other services... plumber, electrician, lawyer, hairdresser  etc it us not comparable to an employees hourly rate of pay.   

    The amount subject to tax would be net income after expenses not total revenue.

    In regards to HST this can be included in price or charged extra ie $250/hr plus tax.  If the lady is registered for HST/GST she is entitled to deduct the HST she is charged for her business purchases. Clothes, makeup, hygiene products, hotel costs, meals when traveling. Marketing cost, phone etc. 

     

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